Is it ok to flirt in text messages?

Is it ok to flirt in text messages?

southernhawtie southernhawtie
Do you think its ok to flirt in text messages if ur in a relationship?
12/02/2010
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Quote:
Originally posted by southernhawtie
Do you think its ok to flirt in text messages if ur in a relationship?
IMO it depends, are you in a commited relationship? Does your partner care? Is it serious flirting? Would you follow through on it if an offer was made?

Flirting can be so much fun in text messages, but I think if it hurts your parnter it is wrong.

Just my opinion
12/02/2010
loveshocks loveshocks
Quote:
Originally posted by southernhawtie
Do you think its ok to flirt in text messages if ur in a relationship?
I'm assuming you meant flirting with *other* people in text messages? It's still flirting, regardless of the medium being used. It really depends on your relationship and who you're in a relationship with.

For my boyfriend and I, we flirt with each other with texts and it keeps us on our toes with each other... But I'm pretty sure that's not quite what you were asking.
12/02/2010
kittychilla kittychilla
it really all depends. i know my best friend flirts like crazy even though he's been in a relationship for 2 years.
01/06/2011
ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I would say it's not okay, at least not for me. I guess it kind of depends on the dynamic in your relationship. If that's okay with everyone involved, then I guess it's fine. Oh, but texting ChaCha with dating requests can be pretty funny if you have nothing to do and the person answering doesn't go for the automated responses.
01/06/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I flirt constantly whether it's in person, through email, via text, etc. I'd never act on the flirting, it's just something fun I do. I know my husband is the same way. In fact, he probably flirts more via text than I do. There are 2 or 3 co-workers of his that text him quite a bit. We trust each other very much, so it isn't an issue.
01/06/2011
guard083 guard083
We have a very trusting relationship but we still agree that hitting on other people isn't exactly right for either of us. We find it entertaining when other people try to hit on us though. He laughs when guys hit on me because he likes the show of getting to leave with me and I love to show girls he is already taken. So it really depends on the type of relationship your in
01/12/2011
The Giveaway Diva The Giveaway Diva
I think there is a fine line but you need to know what constitutes crossing the line and that is for the people in a relationship to decide upon. It's hard to put generalities when every relationship is different!
01/18/2011
indiglo indiglo
I agree, every relationship is different. It's important to talk to your partner about these kinds of issues, because what bothers 1 person doesn't bother another. You both need to know what kind of behavior the other would appreciate, my man and I have a "no flirting" policy and it works for us. Every once in a while one of us will slip up and we'll discuss it and say our apologies, but we do pretty well. Other people don't mind it at all and see it as harmless fun. There's no right or wrong answer, just whatever works for you and your partner!
01/18/2011
dbtracy dbtracy
not ok
01/19/2011
XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
Quote:
Originally posted by southernhawtie
Do you think its ok to flirt in text messages if ur in a relationship?
It really depends on how far it goes. I would think not....
01/19/2011
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