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Lisset Finnien
I have a good sized collection of toys, my faves being my butt plugs. My bf hasn’t a clue of my collection. They’re hidden. We’ve never discussed toys and I don’t know how to bring the subject up. So I use them alone unfortunately. I wear a butt
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I have a good sized collection of toys, my faves being my butt plugs. My bf hasn’t a clue of my collection. They’re hidden. We’ve never discussed toys and I don’t know how to bring the subject up. So I use them alone unfortunately. I wear a butt plug to bed for a good portion of the night and he hasn’t a clue....I wish it was different but he doesn’t seem to have very much of a sex drive. I’ve just cum to except the situation.
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Dear Lisset,
Pretty much all of us here had a time in our lives when we had to "come out" about sex toys one way or another. I'm pretty sure that many people will kindly share the experience of bringing the topic to the table and turning fantasies to real life.
My experience is rather unique because I cam to the terms of sex toys not because I was initially interested, but because I've started to work at EdenFntasys. That's when I got our first toy - it wasn't even very much up for discussion. However, my fiance is much more conservative than I am, and it took me some convincing to make him accept it. My main argument was that it's not that something is wrong with our sex life or it's lacking in some way - it's the new experience we could be missing out on. Like you would talk a person into trying a dish they never had before or visiting a country they've never been in - just for the fun and for the concept of exploration. After all, it's never too late for an adventure.
Maybe, this approach would work for you, as well?
Hope this helps.
