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Who is your confidant?

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Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Everyone (or most anyways) has that one person-or pet- in their lives that they go to for everything. They can talk to that person about anything, open up, be honest-even if its brutally honest, maybe their "go to" person about relationships or tell them something when you've done something shameful or bad and know that person won't judge you. Mine is my husband. He irks the crap outta me, we argue and yell at each other sometimes and there are days that we just need our space. But at the end of the day, we know that we can go to each other for anything and everything and we love each other unconditionally.
Who is your confidant?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Spouse/Significant other
MamaDivine , darthkitt3n , Rossie , js250 , ejrbrndps , toxie m , WD40watcher , mlmac , Badass , clix69 , Ansley , NarcissisticLust , Kitka , Gunsmoke , Passion plum , M.O.'s Girl , Airen Wolf , Deeder , indiglo , Sangsara , DreamWolf , AU , robertk2380 , SouthernBelle , Beck , bayosgirl , married with children , Feisty , Modern^Spank^Anthem , Stagger13 , VelvetDragon , All His , KrissyNovacaine , SMichelle , Breas , K101 , Mistress Sassy , RTC , pix , Azule , LavenderSkies
41
Mom
PropertyOfPotter , toxie m , Sangsara , SouthernBelle , All His , K101 , Mistress Sassy
7
DaD
SouthernBelle
1
Brother
Sister
Feisty , Geogeo , Modern^Spank^Anthem , VelvetDragon
4
Aunt
Uncle
Cousin
Sangsara
1
Best Friend
darthkitt3n , js250 , toxie m , DeliciousSurprise , Badass , NarcissisticLust , Sangsara , DreamWolf , indiechick , unfulfilled , Allstars316 , KrissyNovacaine , Mistress Sassy , RTC , pix , Emerlyn , Azule
17
Counselor/Therapist
Sangsara , VelvetDragon
2
My pet(s)
Badass , Terri69 , Sangsara , VelvetDragon , All His , K101 , Mistress Sassy , RTC
8
Neighbor
indiechick
1
Other?
Jon S , WD40watcher , Sangsara , Modern^Spank^Anthem , pootpootpoot
5
Total votes: 87 (51 voters)
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Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
I take that back, I suppose my mom would be a very close second
05/13/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Used to think it was my husband, but he doesn't seem to put a lot of anything in to what I have to say...but my mom does....
05/13/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
My best friend, daughter and husband.
05/13/2012
Contributor: ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
my so only
05/13/2012
Contributor: WD40watcher WD40watcher
It use to be my best friend, but since I moved we haven't talked much. Right now I don't have a go to person in my life.
05/13/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
My wife is the only one that I feel comfortable enough to talk to about anything.
05/13/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
I am lucky enough to have 3. A best friend who never judges, a fellow who listens with wide ears and a lazy tongue, and a dog who wants nothing more than to lick me and sit on my lap when I am feeling down.
05/13/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Definitely my SO, though it can be my mother for life advice, since she has the experience.
05/13/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
My husband, definitely my husband. No matter what I tell him, I know there will be no judgment whatsoever.
05/13/2012
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
Everyone (or most anyways) has that one person-or pet- in their lives that they go to for everything. They can talk to that person about anything, open up, be honest-even if its brutally honest, maybe their "go to" person about ... more
My boyfriend and best friend. Two very close people to me that I would share anything with.
05/13/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
No question my wife. I have a couple of close male friends but we just talk golf, politics and other superficial things.
05/13/2012
Contributor: Passion plum Passion plum
My husband has been for many years and many years to come.
05/13/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
Everyone (or most anyways) has that one person-or pet- in their lives that they go to for everything. They can talk to that person about anything, open up, be honest-even if its brutally honest, maybe their "go to" person about ... more
Either of my partners are my confidantes depending on the subject matter.
05/13/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
A pet is perfect, always agrees and never interrupts!
05/13/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
For the vast majority of issues, I go to my husband (he is after all not only my lover, but my best friend). For the times where I might have a hard time opening up to him (whether it's because that is where the issue lies, or it's something that I'm extremely embarassed about), I usually either keep it to myself, or right it down, read over it numerous times, and get rid of it. Sometimes just seeing it on paper/a computer screen helps.
05/13/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
My man, definitely.
05/13/2012
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
the voices in my head
05/13/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
My OnlyMaster, and a very precious friend of mine (my "virtual Dad"... ), and I left out O/our lil precious BaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaabyBab yBabyDoooooooooooog!!!
05/14/2012
Contributor: AU AU
My significant other is the only person I feel very comfortable talking to, and want to be the most open with. We are very best friends.

On my second tier of close people, I have my mom and maybe three friends, but I never feel so at ease with them or get the chance to talk as much as they do!!
05/14/2012
Contributor: robertk2380 robertk2380
My wife is my confidant and always will be. She's the one I can tell anything to. When I'm worried about something medically, she'll be the one to make me see the doctor, to give me that extra little shove to make the appointment. I know she'll always be there for me.
05/14/2012
Contributor: SouthernBelle SouthernBelle
My girlfriend is my number one confidant. I talk to her about pretty much everything going on in my life. My other confidants are actually my parents. Both my mom and my dad can tell when there is something going on, so I end up telling them about everything anyways.
05/14/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Hubby! He's so much easier to talk to than anyone.
05/14/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
my wife or a parent.
05/15/2012
Contributor: indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
Everyone (or most anyways) has that one person-or pet- in their lives that they go to for everything. They can talk to that person about anything, open up, be honest-even if its brutally honest, maybe their "go to" person about ... more
I have 2. Best friend from College, and my neighbor who is like a second mom
05/16/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
My sister absolutely.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
sister or my husband
05/16/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
My best friends (I have two great male friends in my life) that I go to for everything.
05/16/2012
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
My best friend. She is wonderful!
05/16/2012
Contributor: VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
Looks like I have a lot of confidants.
05/16/2012