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Fantasies vs. Realities

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Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
Are your fantasies very similar to your actual sex life, or very different?

For examples of very different, some fantasies might be things you want to imagine but don't want to do (such as a person who likes watching watersports but doesn't want to touch it in real life), or might be things that are impossible in real life (for example, if your fetish is aliens or vampires, the closest you can get is role-playing) or might be things you intend to do but haven't managed to arrange yet (such as 10+ person orgies or sex with celebrities).

For examples of the same, I think that's self-explanatory. You get off on fantasies of things that you actually do.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
My sexual fantasies and sex life are very similar.
3  (7%)
My sexual fantasies and sex life are not very similar.
12  (26%)
They are somewhere in the middle of similar and not-similar.
30  (65%)
Other (please explain).
1  (2%)
Total votes: 46
Poll is closed
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Contributor: CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
I have some pretty crazy sexual fantasys that I don't even bother bringing up. I'm not trying to piss off my wife for the forseeable future. My wife would never go for swinging, group sex, and she doesn't even really try to bring something new to sex. She might go along with something that I bring up or find and bring home from a toy shop, but she never just comes up with new ideas to try.
06/16/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Other: With the exception to masturbation fantasies, my sexual fantasies will never happen because my wife has no interest in hearing them, let alone fulfilling any.
06/18/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Some are bang on, others aren't it depends on what it is.
06/24/2011
Contributor: dv8 dv8
My sex life doesn't come close to my fantasies. It's not like I can easily own my own cruise ship and fill it with naked young bisexual nymphomaniac cheerleaders.
06/24/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
very different
06/24/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
All my fantasies are ones I could really see me doing
08/01/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Mine are pretty different. While they use the same kind of themes that I play with in my sex life, my fantasies are extremes that I would not like to actually explore for real. Super hot, but only in my head.
08/01/2011
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
My sexual fantasies are similar to my real life, but somewhat idealized. Aka more convenient, less waiting between, things just fall together wonderfully.
10/22/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
My fantasies are sometimes similar, sometimes extremely different, when compared to my actual sex life.
10/22/2011