How would you feel about having a transsexual lover?

Contributor: So Long Ya Doofuses! So Long Ya Doofuses!
I figure that if I truly fall in love with someone, it won't matter if they're a man, woman, trans man, trans woman, androgyn, or none of the above!
09/22/2012
Contributor: luvslukin luvslukin
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverdrop
I'm going to leave this private, but I'm interested in how far acceptance of transsexuality has come. How do you feel about having a transsexual lover?

I consider myself straight(ish). I only occasionally lust after a female, but there ... more
Probably my biggest unfulfilled fantasy is a M/F/T threeway. So hot just thinking about it!
09/23/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
Wouldn't bother me at all, I don't really have a preferred gender to begin with. The person matters so much more than the parts.
09/25/2012
Contributor: kmarsico kmarsico
As long as they have the anatomy im attracted to, i dont care how they present it.
10/14/2012
Contributor: ID42 ID42
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverdrop
I'm going to leave this private, but I'm interested in how far acceptance of transsexuality has come. How do you feel about having a transsexual lover?

I consider myself straight(ish). I only occasionally lust after a female, but there ... more
I identify as a bi-sexual woman. I married a straight man. BUT, if I weren't married, I wouldn't have any problem with dating someone who was transsexual. Since I am attracted to both men and women and have had relationships with both, I'd like to think that I am open and advanced enough to have a relationship with the person and not the person's sex, if that makes any sense. Of course sex may enter into it eventually, but it is the person and the personality that draws me in, not their gender.
10/15/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverdrop
I'm going to leave this private, but I'm interested in how far acceptance of transsexuality has come. How do you feel about having a transsexual lover?

I consider myself straight(ish). I only occasionally lust after a female, but there ... more
Who isn't a little curious, right?
10/16/2012
Contributor: Jesyra Jesyra
I'm pansexual. Gender and gender identity don't matter much to me in terms of attraction.
10/16/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverdrop
I'm going to leave this private, but I'm interested in how far acceptance of transsexuality has come. How do you feel about having a transsexual lover?

I consider myself straight(ish). I only occasionally lust after a female, but there ... more
i couldnt do it
10/18/2012
Contributor: Kristopher Sean Kristopher Sean
Quote:
Originally posted by GONE!
This thread is a perfect reminder as to why I don't feel comfortable taking a cisgender lover.
Little reminder to people who actually care about not being jerks: Transgender people are people too and we have feelings.
yes we do
10/24/2012
Contributor: Nyx (Under the Covers) Nyx (Under the Covers)
Who a person is matters way more than parts to me.
10/31/2012
Contributor: Andrew1992 Andrew1992
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverdrop
I'm going to leave this private, but I'm interested in how far acceptance of transsexuality has come. How do you feel about having a transsexual lover?

I consider myself straight(ish). I only occasionally lust after a female, but there ... more
I'd consider it.
11/02/2012
Contributor: JinxPinx JinxPinx
Being gender confused, I worry about this stuff in the future. Even though I'm not sure how I'd feel if in the other's shoes. However, if I love a person it shouldn't matter!
05/08/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
I am attracted to the person, their plumbing or lack there of is never a factor when I form attractions.
05/08/2013
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
A couple people have flagged my opinion I posted long ago on this thread as offensive to them only backs what I said. I find their belief that everyone else must change reality to fit their fantasy offensive, yet I am not flagging their post because last I knew this was a free country where we have the rights to our opinions. I am offended by the hypocracy created by people who wish to erase the definitions of gender so that anyone who uses the definitions are labeled biggots, then they themselves use these definitions when identifying thei gender. A woman who wants to become a man will cut her hair, bind her breast and wear a dildo in her pants.... yet according to the GLBT community none of these elements determine a person's gender. A man who wants to be a woman dresses like a woman by growing out his hair, wearing makeup and panties, but I'm a biggot if I say wearing a dress, panties and makeup is how "women" dress. If pointing this out offends you then it's you who have the problems and need to learn to deal with them instead of taking it out on everyone else.
05/09/2013
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
Last week I had a dream sex with a transexual woman and that was hot. But I've never met a transsexual person face-to-face. It's hard for me to say whether or not I would feel attraction.
05/09/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
I received oral from a self-described "drag queen" several years ago, before I met my wife. It was awesome! She was incredibly sexy and I couldn't have cared less about her anatomy.

I'm happily married to an AMAZING cis woman, but if I'd met and fallen in love with a trans woman (again, regardless of anatomy), I think that would have been great, too. People are people. Sexy people are sexy people. Let's all have fun with it.
05/09/2013
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
"I'm pansexual, people of all physical sexes and gender identities can potentially be attractive to me."

Yep, that's pretty much it, so it wouldn't bother me one bit if I were attracted to the person.
05/09/2013
Contributor: elli elli
Other, because I would be fine in any situation. I'm bi, and I would be okay with transgender partners in any state of transition.
05/12/2013
Contributor: Pastafariette Pastafariette
If the person has a good personality, I wouldn't mind.
05/13/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
I'm pansexual, so if I was attracted to and have an emotional connection with the person, then sure!
05/13/2013
Contributor: SydneyScreams SydneyScreams
I'm attracted to personalities more than I'm attracted to genitalia.
05/13/2013
Contributor: bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverdrop
I'm going to leave this private, but I'm interested in how far acceptance of transsexuality has come. How do you feel about having a transsexual lover?

I consider myself straight(ish). I only occasionally lust after a female, but there ... more
I'm gender different and I date non-binary people like me, or people who are trans and binary, or non-trans binary people, or whoever I feel an intense connection with. My choice in partners is based on a million criteria, but "are you trans?" doesn't enter into it.
05/14/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
Yeah, it's not my thing. I wouldn't feel comfortable at all having a transexual lover.
05/14/2013
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Haha, yeah, nobody likes that kind of surprise. You should discuss it beforehand with the person you are with if your gender and sex are not a match.
05/14/2013
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverdrop
I'm going to leave this private, but I'm interested in how far acceptance of transsexuality has come. How do you feel about having a transsexual lover?

I consider myself straight(ish). I only occasionally lust after a female, but there ... more
I can say that I would be a bit curious...
05/16/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
I would consider it. Maybe it would be hard to have to explain it to people if we were dating for a long time (it would inevitably come up), but I personally would not be that uncomfortable with it. I have a lot of LGBT friends.
05/17/2013