Have you ever been surprised by who appears in your fantasy?

Contributor: Lacey Fennec Lacey Fennec
I had a fantasy recently that had an unexpected visitor, someone I honestly can't say I truly get along with. Oddly enough what she was doing to me in a fantasy I thought really fit her personality well and I became completely engulfed in the idea until climax. I felt sort of embarrassed about the whole ordeal seeing as I typically never want to talk to her at all. I'm just curious if anyone else has had this an experience such as this. If so how did you feel afterwards?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I had a similiar experience and was not embarrassed.
married with children , SydneyScreams , marmouse , Calicoxoxo , melissa1973 , Virgingasms , Lildrummrgurl7 , twelve13
8
I had a similiar experience and was embarrassed
tami , lacybutton , alliegator , MrsandMrbunnysoffun , spiced
5
I had a similar experience and was indifferent.
I usually know who is going to be in my fantasies.
Calicoxoxo , Virgingasms
2
I've never had that experience.
eri86 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Beautiful-Disaster , K101 , Stagger13 , SecretKinksters , nimr , karenm
8
Total votes: 23 (21 voters)
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Contributor: married with children married with children
it has happened a few times in dreams. But I leave it at just that, nothing but a dream.
06/02/2013
Contributor: tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by Lacey Fennec
I had a fantasy recently that had an unexpected visitor, someone I honestly can't say I truly get along with. Oddly enough what she was doing to me in a fantasy I thought really fit her personality well and I became completely engulfed in the ... more
it has happened to me and I do not talk to the person or tell anyone about it.
06/02/2013
Contributor: SydneyScreams SydneyScreams
I've had really strange guest appearances in my fantasies and it always throws me off. wouldn't say it has ever made me feel embarrassed though
06/02/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I've never had that experience.. I have never fantasized about someone I couldn't stand.
06/02/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Lacey Fennec
I had a fantasy recently that had an unexpected visitor, someone I honestly can't say I truly get along with. Oddly enough what she was doing to me in a fantasy I thought really fit her personality well and I became completely engulfed in the ... more
I don't ever have random people pop up in a fantasy. I'll have crazy dreams where people I hardly know or haven't seen in years appear, but don't have any sexual fantasies that include people other than just my SO.
06/03/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Lacey Fennec
I had a fantasy recently that had an unexpected visitor, someone I honestly can't say I truly get along with. Oddly enough what she was doing to me in a fantasy I thought really fit her personality well and I became completely engulfed in the ... more
Has not happened yet...
06/03/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Never had an experience like that...If I did, I'm curious who it would be.
06/09/2013
Contributor: alliegator alliegator
I had a really weird sex dream where I was dating my grandparent's handyman. Nice guy, but not someone I was attracted to in the least. I have no clue where it came from, but I remember waking up confused because it was a super hot dream, but the subconcious choice of man was bizarre.
06/09/2013
Contributor: MrsandMrbunnysoffun MrsandMrbunnysoffun
I can say that I have had someone that I can not stand in the least invade my fantasys.. and I was very upset.
06/10/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
Not really. I don't really fantasize about people I know. I've had passing thoughts about if I were with them, but I'm completely neutral about it (I wouldn't call them fantasies).
06/10/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
Yes, I've had a similar experience. My fantasies tend to take on lives of their own. All sorts of people, things, and ideas pop up unexpectedly: former lovers, friends' wives, people I hate personally but am attracted to physically... If there's some sexual tension, they're liable to end up in my fantasies.

I remember having a dream about my "best frenemy", where I was giving him a blowjob in front of a cheering (and jeering) crowd of our other friends. I woke up and immediately masturbated thinking about it. I was a bit embarrassed when I saw the guy later that day, but no big deal.
06/10/2013
Contributor: melissa1973 melissa1973
I've had a dream for a week or more and it was the same one every night. On hood of a cruiser sandwiched in-between two gorgeous cops and another one was watching with his flood light. It never happened in real life but I did tell the two that I was between and they got a kick out of it.
06/11/2013
Contributor: Virgingasms Virgingasms
I usually know who'll be in my fantasies and what "roll" they'll play. Sometimes my brain throws me a curve ball and I usually go with it. If you check out Betty Dodson she has some insightful thoughts about what I think she calls "the thought police" people who make you want to feel bad about fantasies. Honestly, it's between you and your brain, you don't have to be embarrassed about something that's your business and yours alone.
06/11/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
I had a dream last night that involved my SO being fucked by two of his friends (who are a couple).
06/11/2013