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Disappointed and neglected vajayjay!

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Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Totally odd but..

My hubby loves anal.. all the time!
I'm just not into it as often as he is and I hate to disappoint him but my vajayjay is very disappointed and feels totally neglected! How do I tell him that without turning him off all together? I don't want to upset him but at the same time I need a break from anal.. a long break at that
05/26/2012
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Contributor: M.O.'s Girl M.O.'s Girl
Honesty is the best policy. Have a talk with him and let him know how you feel--and hopefully he will listen and accommodate your needs.
05/26/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
You just need to tell him. It's your body - therefore, it's also your right!

"I love you to death honey, and I'm totally aware of how much you love my ass, but please for the love of God BACK OFF!"

No, I'm kidding. Don't say it like that. But, do voice your concerns in your natural voice and let him know that you love the act, just not every time you climb in to bed together and that it should be considered a treat until he is otherwise informed.
05/26/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
It's up to both of you to decide which form of sex to engage in.

If you need a break from anal and you desire vaginal sex, say so! He's your husband, I'm sure he cares what you like, and desire, too.

I said no to anal this morning. I just wasn't in the mood. We finished an other way, instead. My husband loves it, too. I also do, but sometimes you just don't feel like it. It's OK to say, "I'm not in the mood for that. Let's finish _____ this way."
05/26/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I'm sure that's not the only thing that he enjoys...maybe take control and tell him what YOU want!
05/26/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by chantalgiardina
Totally odd but..

My hubby loves anal.. all the time!
I'm just not into it as often as he is and I hate to disappoint him but my vajayjay is very disappointed and feels totally neglected! How do I tell him that without turning him off ... more
I am a gal who LOVES anal, but love vaginal sex too. Tell him to START with vaginal penetration before going to play in your back door. It will remind him now much fun it can be "in front". The key is to TALK to him. We often will say things here we won't say to our own spouses.

My hubby loves the TIGHT feel of my tush, so I understand the appeal to him, but he would never want ANY part of me to feel neglected...and your hubby probably doesn't either. He may just not realize. He is lucky you let him indulge the way he wishes.

TALK. It often is the simple way to deal with ANY marriage issue.

Best wishes!!!!!
05/27/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Chalk up another vote for "talk to him". It's amazing what can be accomplished with good old communication!
05/27/2012