I was wondering, how many of you have done this? Does this sound like a good idea? What do you think would come of this?
Back when I was married to my first husband, he looked at a lot of porn. I'm not just talking that he was on the sites here and there, he was on them daily. He had a porn addiction.
Well, my creative mind thought "Well, maybe if I do something like that, then he'll want to see ME instead of the porn!" So I did. I was very conservative and didn't really get into all that stuff in the past and for me to take photos of myself (nudes, close ups of certain areas hehe, etc etc) and even take a few videos of myself masturbating, it was a huge step for me.
In the end, it didn't work out too well. Not days later, he started back into watching the porn (he watched/looked at my stuff too-but, still with the porn). Of course, this devastated me and I was at a loss of what to do to get his attention away from it.
Eventually, he ended up cheating on me with my cousin and we divorced. I know, blah blah-TMI. But, I was wondering, have any of you ever tried this idea? (In general, not to pull your partner away from anyone or anything lol).
If so, how did it work out?
Back when I was married to my first husband, he looked at a lot of porn. I'm not just talking that he was on the sites here and there, he was on them daily. He had a porn addiction.
Well, my creative mind thought "Well, maybe if I do something like that, then he'll want to see ME instead of the porn!" So I did. I was very conservative and didn't really get into all that stuff in the past and for me to take photos of myself (nudes, close ups of certain areas hehe, etc etc) and even take a few videos of myself masturbating, it was a huge step for me.
In the end, it didn't work out too well. Not days later, he started back into watching the porn (he watched/looked at my stuff too-but, still with the porn). Of course, this devastated me and I was at a loss of what to do to get his attention away from it.
Eventually, he ended up cheating on me with my cousin and we divorced. I know, blah blah-TMI. But, I was wondering, have any of you ever tried this idea? (In general, not to pull your partner away from anyone or anything lol).
If so, how did it work out?