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First time
What was your first BDSM toy I guess ours was technically handcuffs, although I consider than pretty vanilla, so maybe it was the under the bed...

First time tips?
Tips for making it as good as possible?

Best first time products?
Does anyone have advice for a first timer?

First time being flogged and a question
My husband and I attended a swinger party this weekend and a few Doms were in attendance. I was watching a scene take place (with permission) and it..

The first time I used one..
It was more intense than any other form of masturbation I'd tried, was that how it was for you?