Need help choosing my first butt plug

Contributor: The ~Pegging~ Meg The ~Pegging~ Meg
Hello everyone!
We’re big fans of anal play with my SO, and we do it A LOT. My lovely hubby loves beading me off - the longer the strand, the better, and when pulled out during the Big O - wowza!
Now I'm eager to try a butt plug, but have no idea about the size. Where should we start? Sure, anal beads are long, but plugs are thick, so I'm a bit confused here.
I'm fond of glass toys, and the Ziggy Plug caught my sight - link
It's shaped like beads, but it's a plug... Feeling pretty safe in that zone. But I'd love some advice, guys! Have you tried that particular one? Is it ok for beginners? Maybe, you have other ideas? I'm really looking forward to choosing my first butt plug!
09/01/2017
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife uses butt plugs to increase the intensity of vaginal sex - or dildos. He favorite is a combination the Tantus B-Bomb (a relatively small vibrating silicone plug) plus the Fun Factory Big Boss vibrating dildo (the title says it all - about 1.8" x 7") and her favorite wand - I call it her triple-play! She even added a 4th vibe (WeVibe Tango)to the mix recently that she has me use on her outer lips.

I use the plug on her as a way to prepare her for anal sex. When the B-Bomb moves in-and-out easily, I know she's ready for me.

I use butt plugs to prepare myself to be pegged. I use a 1.75" glass plug with a 1" neck. I insert it while showering and work it until it slides in easily - and then leave it in, hoping to get my 'reward' that night.
09/04/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by The ~Pegging~ Meg
Hello everyone!
We’re big fans of anal play with my SO, and we do it A LOT. My lovely hubby loves beading me off - the longer the strand, the better, and when pulled out during the Big O - wowza!
Now I'm eager to try a butt plug, but ... more
Having tried quite a few plugs (8+) , my go to fav is the nJoys.
The fullness , weigh and shape are . And always remind you they are wedged nicely in your a**s.

I have both the large ( which isn't really that large 1.5" diameter) and the almighty 2.0 . Now that's what I call large.

And with stainless, never fear about cleaning.

I found pointed ones to be a pain in the butt. The nJoys are curved.

Btw, I think your avatar name is keen

Hope to see much more of you on the forum
09/05/2017
Contributor: The ~Pegging~ Meg The ~Pegging~ Meg
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My wife uses butt plugs to increase the intensity of vaginal sex - or dildos. He favorite is a combination the Tantus B-Bomb (a relatively small vibrating silicone plug) plus the Fun Factory Big Boss vibrating dildo (the title says it all - about ... more
Wow, your wifey is a multitasker, indeed! Kinda makes me wanna try...

And which one do you use before pegging? My hubby likes to prepare with beads - that's really our go-to toy choice, but since we're ready to try plugs - he'll get one, too!
09/06/2017
Contributor: The ~Pegging~ Meg The ~Pegging~ Meg
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Having tried quite a few plugs (8+) , my go to fav is the nJoys.
The fullness , weigh and shape are . And always remind you they are wedged nicely in your a**s.

I have both the large ( which isn't really that large 1.5" ... more
You are certainly a pro
Can you recommend something for me, a humble plug-noob? I feel a bit intimidated by steel for some reason, silicone and glass look more appealing.

Thank you so much for the welcome! Hope to stick for long
09/06/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by The ~Pegging~ Meg
You are certainly a pro
Can you recommend something for me, a humble plug-noob? I feel a bit intimidated by steel for some reason, silicone and glass look more appealing.

Thank you so much for the welcome! Hope to stick for long ... more
Both stainless and glass are rigid and unforgiving. Also much easier to clean. The nJoy line has the advantage over glass in that it's curved. And not too long. Glass is less expensive but can break. Just the thought of broken glass in my cavity frightened me. Silicone unless premium retains odors I enjoyed the Doc Johnson Classic due to its fullness feeling. However after a few months I couldn't get rid of the slight butt smell. And the tip curved in my rectum. Of course irregardless of which material you should start small.

Fam, I would get the nJoy medium. I also like that the neck is very narrow. A large neck left in for a while will stretch open the anus. That might be good for him for pegging esp if venturing into larger shedicks.

The nJoys shape when worn by a female during intercourse is great also. Not only emmense feeling of fullness, pushes his member upwards towards your g spot. Btw although metal thesare totally totally smooth. No drag or friction at all. Goes in like a dream. Much more smoother than silicone.

IMO, go for the nJoy and save $. Had I known, I would have saved a few bucks.

Just do your homework, plenty of reviews everywhere on the various bps.

So how often do you peg him ?

09/06/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by The ~Pegging~ Meg
Wow, your wifey is a multitasker, indeed! Kinda makes me wanna try...

And which one do you use before pegging? My hubby likes to prepare with beads - that's really our go-to toy choice, but since we're ready to try plugs - he'll ... more
About getting ready to be pegged - my deal has always been something with a larger neck that holds me open for a period of time. Although I have PurePlugs - their necks are too narrow for what I need.

Glass plugs are great because for strength reasons they leave a larger neck. When I decided to go bigger than 1.5" I first tried a silicone plug - but the finish was matte and not comfortable to insert or take out, even with lube - so back to glass for me. The only place I could find a 2" dia plug with a 1" neck was AliExpress (the Chinese site).

I love it, the taper makes insertion relatively easy - as easy as 2" can be! I put it inside while showering and work it in-and-out periodically between washing and shaving. By the time I get out of the shower I'm relaxed enough to handle most anything my wife has in mind for 'big dick' that night.
09/06/2017
Contributor: Suckerlucker Suckerlucker
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
About getting ready to be pegged - my deal has always been something with a larger neck that holds me open for a period of time. Although I have PurePlugs - their necks are too narrow for what I need.

Glass plugs are great because for strength ... more
it's a mater of taste as to what you enjoy. I, for example, started out with the Doc Johnson classic medium anal bead link (30 years ago) in a mostly sexual frame of mind, (being gay, back then, raw sexual pleasure was of paramount importance) although I always wanted to wear it 24/7, 365. It was't possible, though because of the very large, flexible base. It wasn't designed for longterm use, only for raw sexual pleasure. Being used to the feel of a buttplug in my anus and up my rectum for 30 years, that's what I prefer, along with either the long, tapered classic design, or the long prostate massager design. This is why I love the mood naughty lines from Doc Johnson with their extremely comfortable, ergonomically designed bases that fit comfortably between the ass cheeks. But they're not for every body/everyone.

Each to their own. What is appealing to one person is unappealing to someone else. Experiment and find out what you like and go with that. Whatever works for you.
it's a mater of taste as to what you enjoy. I, for example, started out with the Doc Johnson classic medium best vibrating anal beads (30 years ago) in a mostly sexual frame of mind, (being gay, back then, raw sexual pleasure was of paramount importance) although I always wanted to wear it 24/7, 365. It was't possible, though because of the very large, flexible base. It wasn't designed for longterm use, only for raw sexual pleasure. Being used to the feel of a buttplug in my anus and up my rectum for 30 years, that's what I prefer, along with either the long, tapered classic design, or the long prostate massager design. This is why I love the mood naughty lines from Doc Johnson with their extremely comfortable, ergonomically designed bases that fit comfortably between the ass cheeks. But they're not for every body/everyone.

Each to their own. What is appealing to one person is unappealing to someone else. Experiment and find out what you like and go with that. Whatever works for you.
10/05/2018
Contributor: Lisset Finnien Lisset Finnien
I have the Ziggy. It’s a good starter plug. It’s on the smaller size and shouldn’t be intimidating for you. Not a bad choice to start with and it’s bead shaped, which you like.
There’s so many to choose from. I agree with Suckerlucker, You’ll have to experiment to find what works good for you. The Rear Charmer is a good starter vibrating plug, on the smaller side. I wear this one every day on my way to work. I have yet to get any of the njoy due to the price but I am interested in them in the future. I’m also looking at the Doc Johnson’s naughty mood plugs that were mentioned. There’s also the weighted bubbles which should be right up your alley they’re also bead shaped. I love those for dp. They’re not much longer then the Ziggy. You can experiment with temp play with the metal/steel toys. My ultimate favorite is the Pearl Charming Rimming Plug. I absolutely love this plug. When the charge wears off , I use it as an extended wear plug. Experiment and have fun. There’s so many options....( Check out the weighted bubbles....I think u might like them. )
10/05/2018
Contributor: Love getting pegged Love getting pegged
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My wife uses butt plugs to increase the intensity of vaginal sex - or dildos. He favorite is a combination the Tantus B-Bomb (a relatively small vibrating silicone plug) plus the Fun Factory Big Boss vibrating dildo (the title says it all - about ... more
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11/12/2018
Contributor: Love getting pegged Love getting pegged
Quote:
Originally posted by Lisset Finnien
I have the Ziggy. It’s a good starter plug. It’s on the smaller size and shouldn’t be intimidating for you. Not a bad choice to start with and it’s bead shaped, which you like.
There’s so many to choose from. I agree with Suckerlucker, ... more
I would love to do some s****** with you
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