Need some help finding a new anal toy

Well I've been into anal for... Wow actually I think it may be my first year anniversary in a few days. I started with an aneros, and while I loved it - I needed more. So I bought an [url=link]Anal Probe[/url], a small g-spot vibrator, and some numbing lube. Well, needless to say I loved the g-spot vibrator, in fact it gave me my first hands free prostate orgasm, but only after a lot of work of holding it in place. As for the probe, it just wasn't doing it for me, and after a few uses I got rid of it. Sadly I later found out it was because of the numbing lube... I still regret getting rid of it and may rebuy it.

Pretty soon I got tired of messing with the little vibrator, so I but miscellaneous butt plugs, anal toys, prostate massagers, and so on, until I finally bought a chest-strapping strap-on "vest" (Or whatever you want to call it), and two strap ons. I hooked them up to my chair (With a towel underneath of course), and I loved it - the only issue is that I got worn out before I could, uh, accomplish anything.
So, still on my quest to enjoy anal toys, I went ahead and bought the 'Bad Boy' - this was only a month or so ago, and while I do love it, it just... Is a little too strong sometimes.

So here I am, looking for some help... Ever since I started this whole endeavor - I've had one goal in mind, and that is to be able to orgasm purely from prostate interaction. I need to find something that is similar to the bad boy, in that it is angled and allows me to rock on it, accomplishing what pegging (Or a strap on, on a chair ) would, but isn't as sharply angled as the Bad Boy.

So can anyone here offer me any advice? Am I going about this the wrong way? I really do love using a strap-on on my chair, however it wears me out before anything comes of it (Pun intended). The bad boy does what I want, but it presses SO strongly against my prostate that I can't fully enjoy it. The aneros, with enough concentration, can also do this - but takes a LONG time, and while this is great sometimes, I don't always want to spend an hour with it. Not to mention the fact that I like the thrusting / friction that my other toys offer. less

Maybe try the Prock? Your best bet is to read the reviews on the prostate toys - the firmness of the material and the vibration strength is described in most reviews and might help you narrow it down. less

Thanks for the replies everyone, keep 'em coming!

LiftedUp:
Let me know what you think of it after you get a chance to use it, it looks interesting but may have the same problem. I have no issue with thrusting/"bouncing", as long as it gets me off before I get too tired. It's fun, and feels great, but a bit too much of a work out when I can just use something else hehe. Also, PROSTATE MILKING! That's what it's called! I love that, THAT is what the bad boy does... The last time I used it, that's what it did... After a few minutes, I started to ooze actual ejactulate (Pre-cum and sperm), it was great and I would love a toy that does that every time (Or close to it), but once again... Too much pressure.
Does the wand do what I explained, fairly easily?
Also, could you point me towards more info on prostate milking? Any toys that are meant for milking would be great, or even just an article or two. On top of prostate orgasms, I also love prostate milking - either just one long orgasm, or none (Is this what milking even is? I'm guessing based on context).

Also, I'm personally not a huge fan of vibrating toys. Don't get me wrong, the first few times I got off - was from different vibrating toys... But a lot of the times they numb you before you can get off, and I usually just turn off the vibrations and take pleasure in the toy on its own.
I'm still open to vibrators, however, but they're really not on my radar anymore, until someone points one out that presses hard enough against the prostate, and the vibrator is strong + in the tip instead of the base. I'd imagine something like that would work very well, and give you a chance to enjoy yourself before going numb.



ScottA:
Yeah, I actually got rid of it when I got rid of the probe... I don't know why they even make this stuff, if you get a tear or anything like that - you won't feel it, you'll just notice blood and you're pretty much screwed... It's extremely dangerous to even THINK about it. As for relaxing - yeah, no problem, as you'll see below - I'm able to (And love to) take thickness easily. Although I would rather have a thrusting toy, than a butt plug, the thickest one of the ones I link below, is AMAZING... But only after the long haul of getting it in.
And yes, I love anal play - but I just haven't found one that does it for me on its own... Any tips? I really do love prostate orgasms, so I don't want to give that up... But I also want to toss in anal play, and be able to enjoy both without tiring myself, and being able to get off without having to finish myself off, uh, manually (Which is why I got into anal play in the first place).
I've used a nest-type thing before (Cloth hangers... Complicated setup, didn't work too well), but really it's just too much of a headache. They work very well, but I'm just too nervous without something to prevent it sliding it. The last thing I want to end my play time is a trip to the ER, and embarressing x-rays.
The Tiger Dildo looks AMAZING, however yeah the wearing out thing is a bit of an issue - I can usually go on for 15-20 minutes full speed, but sometimes that just isn't enough and I'm left tired and disapointed. As for partner play - out for me at the moment - I'm single, straight, and any girl I date I wouldn't want to bring up pegging until at least the uh... 50th date

A fucking machine would be IDEAL, I have priced them and looked around, but they're just out of what I can justify right now. I love anal masturbation, but I love living in a house and having food to eat more.



Most of what I have:
link - This one is EXTREME, takes forever to relax enough to get it in, and is not fun to get out... But it feels great just sitting there, not sure why.
link - this one was disappointing, you can't sit on it (Easily), and it just... Didn't work for me.
link - the vbirating butt plug in this pack is just truly great, however I ended up having to force it in since it wasn't thick enough and the tip didn't press against my prostate enough without assistance to really do much more than give me a tingle. After the 2nd or 3rd use, I got a major tingle... The wiring was exposed in the base and it was shocking me (Very minor).
link - this is the worst toy I have ever owned and I regret buying it... The material is just too weak, the finger holds constantly get in the way, and the end is too long and makes it so you can't sit on it. All in all it was just the most uncomfortable thing I have ever used. It may be good for partner play, but it's just awkwardly shaped for solo.
link - this is the harness I bought - it fits perfectly around my chair, pillows, just about anything really. It is GREAT, but kind of annoying to clean. $55, but money well spent if I can get something that fits it better than what I have - that actually gets me off without tiring me out too much.
link - I use this, and what comes with the harness, in the harness... I'm not sure which I like more, but this one scares me at times since it has a seam around the tip (And I'm not too excited at the fact it has an actual phallic head, but no biggie)
link - this one would be my favorite vibrator if it would stay pointed in the right direction. There is seriously no way to tell where it is inside you. If you manage to get it pointed towards your prostate, it's great. But that never happens. It could also be thicker, longer, and softer - it's not that great for thrusting or long term use.

...I should really write indepth reviews on all the products, I do love reviewing these toys, and it would be nice if I could eventually get toys for free to review.
Anywways, that list should help show my experience, and maybe even help people out who are looking for a new toy. less

I don't see an edit button anywhere, so I apologize if there is and I missed it, but... I just read your 'Lucid Heart' review, LiftedUp, and it sounds amazing. I have never owned a glass toy, and I've actually avoided them for some reason - but maybe I should start considering them. Can you see the 'Lucid Heart', or any glass toy, as being a solo toy to milk / have a prostate orgasm from? Are there any benefits over the toys I've mentioned (Or non-glass in general), that glass toys bring to the table? I'd love to have something like the Lucid Heart (Or it, itself, if they have it in stock when I order), if it can get me off before I get too tired, or at least provide an enjoyable experience without feeling let down. less

LiftedUp:
Alright I figured that's what milking was, but I wasn't 100% - thanks for clearing that up. As for glass, is it safe for hard/fast use? I really enjoy going pretty fast/hard, and I usually go on like this for awhile (Up to 20 minutes), but glass seems like it may be too hard of a material for this - but if you've tried this and it doesn't end up making you sore later on, I think I may just have to buy it . I'll probably buying it either way, though, just because it seems like an awesome milker.
And as for using a dildo for thrusting, I'm going to look into buying a tantus... Any suggestions for what I should start off with, that you find works best for what I'm after? I'm looking at the captain, and it looks great, but it seems like eden doesn't have it (Yet?).
And building a machine would be IDEAL, I'd -LOVE- to build one of those chair rockers, because it seems like the cheapest way to have something easily controllable, with varying speeds, and wouldn't wear you out as much as 'bouncing'. I probably won't be doing this for awhile, but oh well, I can dream

giggled:
Yeah, that's actually what I was primarily looking for awhile back, but it's so hard to find one that is flanged AND has some indicator as to which direction it's facing (Or is easy to control). I guess I shouldn't write them off so quickly though... Just gotta find one that works for me less

Tantus is in the process of discontinuing the Captain (and it's twin-in-different-colo rs the Squirt).

Eden still has some of the Squirts here link .

They're great dildos. Very filling, and the hool hits the prostate every time. If you don't want to thrust it can be used as a "milker" as well. The only downside is that the smooth finish sometimes doesn't want to hold lube (depends on your lubes) - oil lubes are good, though, as are some silicone lubes.

If you want to get a Captain Tantus has them on the closeout page. link .

I've heard that the Fun Factory Magnum is also a very nice dildo, very much like the Tiger without the stripes. less

Tantus isn't quite as discreet as Eden (the return address does say "Tantus" rather than having a not-so-obvious name), but they don't adorn their packages with pictures of dildos or semi-nude people or anything like that - it's just a plain cardboard box. If your neighbors knew what Tantus meant or were nosy enough to look it up there could be a problem, but otherwise not a problem. They do use UPS rather than USPS or SmartPost, so your toy gets dropped off in the front of the house rather than being safely locked away in the mailbox (providing you have a locking box).

After sale Tantus is extremely discreet. They didn't send anything at all. When I got my Captain from them it did get caught up in last December's transportation mess and took almost a month to come, but other than that I was happy. Price-wise tantusinc.com tends to be on the high end unless you get a "closeout" (there are valid reasons for this), but they're good.

What else would you expect from Metis? less