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Contributor: Vinroe Vinroe
Does a longer en-plugged time increase the ease in dildo insertion during anal sex?
12/25/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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12/25/2010
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
Are you asking that keeping the anal toy in for a longer period of time make it easier to also have a dildo in vaginally?
12/25/2010
Contributor: RubenesqueAna RubenesqueAna
Yeah, you definitely need to clarify your question.
12/25/2010
Contributor: Vinroe Vinroe
I am very sorry if I was vague (I should have had my coffee first). If you leave the plug in longer does it make for an easier time during anal sex?
12/25/2010
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
Yea, it would, because it's going to help your bottom get used to have something in it. You also are going to want to slowly increase the plugs in size until they're similar to the penis or dildo you'll be using.

Thanks for the clarification! Don't worry about it, I get that way when I haven't had my energy drinks LOL
12/25/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Vinroe
I am very sorry if I was vague (I should have had my coffee first). If you leave the plug in longer does it make for an easier time during anal sex?
It may help, like Jessica said, it gets your ass used to having something in it. But it is the stretching of the sphincter's that you want. Most plugs have a smaller neck to them and that is what the ass conforms to. If you can do some small thrusting using the body of the plug that will do better at getting you ready for a penis. You may try a couple different sized dildo's instead, start small and work your way up to the size you need.
12/25/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
As DWTim mentioned you are looking for stretching of the sphincter (don't worry it won't be permanent) and the ability to get your sphincters (both inner and outer) to relax and allow penetration. Slow gentle stretching and some smooth thrusting with plenty of lube will help prepare you for anal sex. Leaving a plug in longer will prepare you if you want to have a penis sit inside you for a while but it doesn't do much for the thrusting of sex. You want a combination of the two some gentle thrusting and some training to accept the penis without pain.
12/25/2010
Contributor: Raizer911 Raizer911
Definitely, plugs are a great way to get warmed up for larger insertions.
05/04/2012