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I have the Tantus Ryder, but it feels like it's going to pop out when I'm using a dildo. My husband isn't really in to toys, but he asked me to put a.

My advice would be to get something different. If it made your eyes pop when you saw it, don't feel obliged to use it just because you've bought it. You can always work up to the size later

How about get the junior size now, and leave the big green monster for "maybe someday"? Everyone needs a goal in life

I have to agree with everyone else here. While it might be initially disappointing, it is best to set it aside until you're ready and comfortable with the size. Trying something smaller is best.

If something is only a small jump from what you're used to, warming up with a slightly smaller toy is an option, but if you are shocked visually by the sight of the toy, imagine how you'd feel when using it. Trust your instincts, avoid discomfort and injury.

My words of advice: Lube + Relax

for the love of all that is anal, don't use that until you're ready, or at least relaxed enough to give it a go. if the sight of the thing freaks you out it's best not to put it into buttland just yet. work your way up, then enjoy it when the proper time comes.

or, if it doesn't, well...decorative toy chest filler

Thanks all. I am going to buy the Junior, which, honestly, is what I WANTED to buy in the first place, but hubby said this was the right one....it really isn't!