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Which anal toy diameter is just right for you?

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Contributor: Clandestine Clandestine
Sometimes, an anal toy is just too thin and isn't stimulating for the user.
Other times, they are much too girthy, making them difficult or impossible to use comfortably.

Judging from the toys you have used anally, what diameter do you feel is the best combination of comfort and stimulation for you? For the purposes of this poll, assume the toy is smooth and does not vary drastically in diameter along its length, and choose that which is closest to your favourite diameter, rounding down.

I realize a similar poll has been done recently, but that one factored length into the equation as well. I am curious about diameter, since preferences vary so widely (no pun intended) in that area. I've made voting private, so if you'd like to share your own experiences, feel free to post.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Under 1"
5  (5%)
1.25"
24  (23%)
1.5"
35  (34%)
1.75"
17  (17%)
2"
13  (13%)
Greater than 2"
9  (9%)
Total votes: 103
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Fidelity Fidelity
Sometimes the shape can change it too i know one with a good curve makes a thin boring toy in to something great! for me
12/06/2011
Contributor: Clandestine Clandestine
Quote:
Originally posted by Fidelity
Sometimes the shape can change it too i know one with a good curve makes a thin boring toy in to something great! for me
You have a good point there. Bigger is not necessarily more stimulating, and is often more uncomfortable. It seems to be another case of size not being the most important factor.
12/07/2011
Contributor: emilia emilia
Quote:
Originally posted by Clandestine
You have a good point there. Bigger is not necessarily more stimulating, and is often more uncomfortable. It seems to be another case of size not being the most important factor.
I totally agree
12/07/2011
Contributor: emilia emilia
Quote:
Originally posted by Clandestine
You have a good point there. Bigger is not necessarily more stimulating, and is often more uncomfortable. It seems to be another case of size not being the most important factor.
I totally agree
12/07/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
I'm really happy with about 1.75 right now. But it's gotta have some texture. Also, the bigger it is, the more I don't like vibrations.
12/07/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Somewhere just under 1 1/2" is just right for me. Any bigger and it's just too darn painful, at least for now that is.
12/07/2011
Contributor: JackRaiden JackRaiden
Quote:
Originally posted by Clandestine
Sometimes, an anal toy is just too thin and isn't stimulating for the user.
Other times, they are much too girthy, making them difficult or impossible to use comfortably.

Judging from the toys you have used anally, what diameter do you ... more
I was wondering this as well. Thanks for the topic, and votes. My Sexy Spades Large is a bit too big for us (for now...), but somewhere around 2" seems perfect. A new challenger appears...
12/07/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
1.5 to 1.75, ideally. I could take more easily, I believe, but those take little warm up and leave me feeling filled.
12/07/2011
Contributor: Jammin14580 Jammin14580
Quote:
Originally posted by Clandestine
Sometimes, an anal toy is just too thin and isn't stimulating for the user.
Other times, they are much too girthy, making them difficult or impossible to use comfortably.

Judging from the toys you have used anally, what diameter do you ... more
Exercising your PC muscle will keep you tight and should help with stimulation with smaller toys :]
12/07/2011
Contributor: AlaskanBeauty AlaskanBeauty
1-1.25 is the biggest i like
12/07/2011
Contributor: pleasurehunter pleasurehunter
I like 2
12/07/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
So far I've been good with about 1.25, but I have used toys up to 1.5 inches.
12/11/2011
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
1.5 is good
12/11/2011
Contributor: Rainbow Boy Rainbow Boy
The bigger it is, the softer the material has to be. For example, once a toy goes beyond the 1.5'' mark, it's harder to take it if the material is hard and rigid. Butt plugs are an exception, though, since they taper quickly. I really enjoy the size of dildos around 1.7'' to 1.9'', with the silicone being much softer, à la VixSkin, O2, Super Soft.
12/11/2011
Contributor: BlackxxxRose BlackxxxRose
I prefer smaller toys all around but can take bigger toys anally so it's not a huge deal. Smaller toys are just more comfortable and fun for anal play.
12/12/2011
Contributor: ajwonder ajwonder
1.25" is good most of the time. max 1.5"
12/12/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
1.25 is good for use in double penetration, and I can do up to 1.5" without a warm-up. My current max with warmup is 1.75". I voted for 1.5, I guess.
12/12/2011
Contributor: levellc09 levellc09
I can take up to 1.5 but I prefer 1.25 most days. If its a odd shape sometimes I like them smaller.
12/27/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
1.25 or less since I'm a beginner.
12/27/2011
Contributor: blankthewall blankthewall
from 1.25 to 2, depends on the mood
12/28/2011
Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
1.5 is my limit so far. I really couldn't take a larger toy right now and I don't really have any desire to stretch my ass's limits.
12/28/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
1.75 is my max so far. Any larger and it just hurts, even with lots of prep and lube.
12/28/2011
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
Between 1.25" and 1.50" is usually good, butt there are some exceptions based on shape and intended use.
12/28/2011
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by Clandestine
Sometimes, an anal toy is just too thin and isn't stimulating for the user.
Other times, they are much too girthy, making them difficult or impossible to use comfortably.

Judging from the toys you have used anally, what diameter do you ... more
My favorite toy is exactly 1, but I plan on moving on to bigger and better things!
12/29/2011
Contributor: cmm cmm
About 1.5.
12/31/2011
Contributor: babyrock babyrock
1.25 for rigid, 1.5 if it's soft.
01/03/2012
Contributor: godweensatan godweensatan
bigger the better...a good gape awaits!!!
01/31/2012
Contributor: Spilock Spilock
Around the 1.5 mark. Maybe a little less.
02/01/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
1.75 is great for me
02/01/2012