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Help for all beginners
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Good dildo for beginners?
I am new to experimenting with sex toys so I was wonder what one that would be suited for me.
So give any ones that you may think are good!

Good for Beginners?
I'd love to get this for my friend who is a beginner, it's her birthday soon. What do you guys think?

Tips for beginners
Can anyone help me out on positions, lubes, things in general to try to ease into anal? We have tried it a few times but not really gotten into it due

What's the best kind of lubricant for a beginner?
For someone who's never used any kind of lubricant but wants to start, there's so many types - it's a little overwhelming. Any suggestions?

hmmm. the lube that works best for me, will be different for you. every lube has different properties to it. What are you looking for in a lube? something light like water? Or heavier like a think syrup?
it is going to be hit and miss until you find a lube that works best for you. My wife and I went through about 10 different kinds until we found what worked for us. And we are still trying new ones all the time.

There really is no BAD lubricant.

What I like in a lubricant is one that isn't sticky, isn't goopy and doesn't make me want to shower immediately after I orgasm.

However, for anal or for fisting, I want the thickest, longest lastingest thing I can find short of honey.

The best thing to do is, like sloppy donkey said, is to try a bunch and see what works best for you.

For what it's worth, though, I do have Pink Water and it works well.

I haven't tried the Pink Water, but I have a Shunga one that I really love.

You might not like K-Y jelly. Best idea would be to round up one of each of the samples you can lay your hands on and see what you like. Check out the lube websites- some offer free samples, some have very cheap samples.

I have only used the Personal Lubricating Gel. It costs less here than on Adam & Eve and they make the stuff! But when I was looking for a lubricant, I took a few things into consideration; positive reviews of course, but really? The most important thing for me was cost per ounce. I'm a shopper at heart and I want the best value I can get for a good product It's great in my experience and I have absolutely no complaints about it.

I think it's going to be a personal preference thing, though; what works for someone else just might not work for you.

Pink water is a great lube and I have sensitive skin and used it with no problems

I would personally try some Maximus lube. It's thicker so it'll stay put and has a fairly long play time to it. Good price for the amount you get and the pump dispenser too! However, if you are concerned about sensitivity, go with Sliquid H2O, actually.

I've found that Sliquid's water-based lubes are some of the best lubes for anal. They're gel-like yet not too thick and last very long. They're also glycerin and paraben-free, ensuring you don't experience any irritation. I'd start out with Sliquid H2O, as someone else mentioned.