Which would you like to receive as a gift?

Which would you like to receive as a gift?

Love Perpetua Love Perpetua 09/01/2011

I'm considering buying a masturbator for my boyfriend. I love the case of the Lady Lager, but I also know the Fleshlights come in all different textures, so I want to choose one that he will like. Also, is it weird to buy a realistic one as a gift? I'm kind of stumped because I've never bought a gift like this before.

I'd love to get some opinions!

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Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I'm curious about which of these you would prefer to use, and which you'd like to get as a gift. Feel free to suggest something I haven't mentioned, I honestly just chose a few that I've heard of & that have good reviews, but if you know of something else that is great, please let me know! I'm open to anything, but since this would be my first gift of this type, I'd prefer not to spend too much money unless I know he is into it. He said "he'd be into trying" one, but I'm not sure whether he was being bashful, or actually just wants to try it once and then not use it again. What do you guys think?
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7  (5%)
77  (58%)
14  (11%)
16  (12%)
Total votes: 133
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Ghost Ghost
It's not weird at all! But I bought the Stroker by Tantus because of material safety concerns. A lot of men's toys incorporate questionable materials, in my opinion.
09/01/2011
B8trDude B8trDude
I haven't tried the Pure and while I don't have the original (there's no interior texture), I think that would be the last one to consider. The Twista is good and I like the Lady Lager a lot although that one won't do for larger-than average guys. I would consider these: link or link if you want a Fleshlight. Good luck!
09/01/2011
mandiegk mandiegk
I don't think it is weird at all. I actually bought one for my boyfriend, but I asked him to pick out the one he wanted first. He picked the Jenna Haze lotus and he really likes it, except the casing is a lot bigger than he anticipated.
09/01/2011
Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
My husband loves his Tera Patrick Twista. I would suggest getting one with some texture in it. The original is pretty boring from what I've heard.
09/01/2011
jg19 jg19
I dont understand the point of the masterbators. Seems like to much extra fuss. Id rather use my hand take care of business and be done and not have to clean some toy afterward.
09/01/2011
Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
Wow, I was leaning towards the lady lager before the poll but it got no votes! I liked the look of the texture, and thought the outer casing was kind of cool.

Thank you for your votes and helpful suggestions! I'm going to also take a look at the Tantus Stroker, and perhaps I'll send him links to that and the other few to see what he thinks! Thanks everyone
09/02/2011
Beck Beck
I'd go the lady Lager!
09/02/2011
Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Fleshlight girls Tera Patrick twista I'm only voting for this one because I want to get this for my guy.
09/02/2011
Silverdrop Silverdrop
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Perpetua
I'm curious about which of these you would prefer to use, and which you'd like to get as a gift. Feel free to suggest something I haven't mentioned, I honestly just chose a few that I've heard of & that have good reviews, but if ...
I hate the new stealth opening for Fleshlight. Looks like a donut. The slot shaped opening was much better. So that eliminates the Pure from my vote. The original has no texture, so dropping that. And that leaves Lady Lager and Tera Patrick.

Either one is probably a good bet. I finally voted for the Tera Patrick because the full size Fleshlight can be customized with replaceable inserts, and the canned ones can't. But the Lady Lager is still a good choice, and I don't think you'll go wrong with either one.
09/03/2011
Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverdrop
I hate the new stealth opening for Fleshlight. Looks like a donut. The slot shaped opening was much better. So that eliminates the Pure from my vote. The original has no texture, so dropping that. And that leaves Lady Lager and Tera ...
I agree about the stealth opening...I definitely don't think it is sexy, but I can kind of see how it is stealthy....like if someone opened it up, they'd probably just wonder what all this squishy stuff is? Maybe? Unless they know about flashlights. I like the ones that look a little more realistic, but I'm not going to be the one using it...much I'll probably touch it because I am so curious!

I'm thinking it's between those two, and I might go with the Lady Lager to begin with. It's smaller, and about $20 cheaper, so maybe better for the first try. If he likes it, I'll get him the full size Tera- you make a good point about the replaceable inserts! If he likes using it we can start experimenting with different inner sleeves if/when he gets bored.
09/05/2011
KittenPrincess KittenPrincess
That all depends on his girth and stimulation preference. The Fleshlights are textured differently and provide higher and lower levels of stim. and some are tighter than others. Also the ones in the can are shorter, so keep that in mind. If he's average in length and girth, then all should be fine choices. In regards to realistic designs, I don't think its weird, and I would try to find the opening that most resembles your own labia.
09/05/2011
Antipova Antipova
I don't know if you've already made your choice---but I wanted to throw my thought out there. (I didn't vote because I haven't got a penis so don't know what any of them feel like.)

But if my partner would let me get him a Fleshlight, I would definitely choose one of the clear ones (search product numbers FLIJA , FL019013 , FLBC , I think there's another) because it would be much hotter to watch.
09/16/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
My hubby doesn't use masturbators, but I don't think it was weird to want to get your SO one.
12/28/2011
AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
I would say the Tera Patrick one, I've always been curious about these.
01/23/2012
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Perpetua
I'm curious about which of these you would prefer to use, and which you'd like to get as a gift. Feel free to suggest something I haven't mentioned, I honestly just chose a few that I've heard of & that have good reviews, but if ...
The tera
02/01/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Perpetua
I'm curious about which of these you would prefer to use, and which you'd like to get as a gift. Feel free to suggest something I haven't mentioned, I honestly just chose a few that I've heard of & that have good reviews, but if ...
Fleshlight lady original (Pink)
02/01/2012
kawigrl kawigrl
original
02/02/2012
fabidefabi fabidefabi
we've been wanting the lager forever
02/06/2012
te te
Fleshlight makes solid products so whatever would be given would be gladly appreciated 9 times out of 10.
02/06/2012
destinationtwilight destinationtwilight
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Perpetua
I'm curious about which of these you would prefer to use, and which you'd like to get as a gift. Feel free to suggest something I haven't mentioned, I honestly just chose a few that I've heard of & that have good reviews, but if ...
Hmm
02/27/2012
Lizzy Lizzy
If i was a guy, i guess the original
03/10/2012
Falsepast Falsepast
Tera
03/10/2012
DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
Tera because it's one the few fleshlights that actually has a different texture on the inside and I think is the only one that doesn't have an odd color or is extra expensive.
03/23/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
I personally probably wouldn't buy a realistic one, so out of the ones you listed I would get the fleshlight pure.

But here is another idea that I like, TENGA 3D, they come in a whole bunch of different textures

link
03/23/2012
Clubbinseals Clubbinseals
original!
04/09/2012
CindyH CindyH
i would say Patrick twista
05/06/2012
its just me its just me
Id go with fleshlight pure.
05/07/2012
Allstars316 Allstars316
The patrick one
05/20/2012
twoods89 twoods89
Lady Lager or Tera Patrick....it needs texture
05/21/2012
Sauceboss Sauceboss
Tera Patrick
05/22/2012
Llahsram Llahsram
I already have the original so I guess I'd go with Pure.
05/22/2012
HannahPanda HannahPanda
The Twista.
07/10/2012
duff duff
hub likes how lady original pink looks
07/10/2012
SoloJoe SoloJoe
tera
07/12/2012
KRD KRD
If I was a guy, probably the tera
07/13/2012
xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
Fleshlight girls Tera Patrick twista looks nice!
07/13/2012
lokidies lokidies
I'd faint if I got the pure as a gift.
08/31/2012
ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
get a fleshlight can
08/31/2012
sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
The Twista.
08/31/2012
Boyfriend Boyfriend
original lady
08/31/2012
Lavendar Lavendar
I wouldn't buy any of these!
08/31/2012
Archery Archery
Tera patrick has a better hole!
09/07/2012
Gongsta Gongsta
i would stay away from the original. theres no texture inside. I have not personally tried it myself but it just seems really dull to me compared to all the other crazzyass looking one. I also hear the lady lager sex in a can is very tight to most people so if ur bf is kinda on the big size down there dont get that either. twista got pretty good reviews
09/16/2012
thesquaredeific thesquaredeific
Tera Patrick.
09/27/2012
panthercat23 panthercat23
any of them could be good. I know my bf has made the comment before that mentally it's better if it looks realistic. Though the strange ones (vampire teeth, etc.) I would stay away from unless your guy is into those fetishes.
09/27/2012
Major Panda Major Panda
Sex in a can
10/02/2012
edeneve edeneve
no use for them - YET.
10/27/2012
Major Panda Major Panda
I heard a lot of good reviews about the sukit
10/28/2012
goo goo
I would rather go for flight, it's cheaper too.
10/28/2012
bowzer311 bowzer311
pure
10/28/2012
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