how long do your clitoral orgasms last?

how long do your clitoral orgasms last?

lalapetitee lalapetitee
I have been noticing that it takes me longer to orgasm. When I do its rather quick. Anyone have this problem? Is this normal?
12/20/2011
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AndroAngel AndroAngel
I definitely have the same problem. It takes me at least an hour to have a clitoral orgasm, and then it only lasts a few seconds... Like driving to Nevada to play with a sparkler that might not even light.
12/20/2011
Rawhide Rawhide
I find that it's proportional to the build up/frequency. If it's been awhile or the build up was long, the orgasm will be too. If it's quick and daily, it will be way shorter and less intense.
12/20/2011
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
It varies. I'm more likely to have a longer, more intense orgasm if I have a dildo inside me for added stimulation and to give me something to clench down on, though it doesn't always work. Building myself up and letting myself cool down several times (I believe this is called "edging") also increases my chances of a good, strong orgasm.
12/20/2011
lalapetitee lalapetitee
I usually don't like the feeling of being filled when I stimulate my clit. Sometimes I do but its very rare. If I use my vibs on high I come faster but too quickly that I can't enjoy it. I try to go with a lower speed but that's when it takes too long. Its very frustrating.
12/20/2011
Chirple Chirple
The most "fulfilling" for me so far is when I work up through the speeds - start low and keep going higher.

I've never really timed it, but from what I gather, I'd say 10-20 minutes. I think it depends on if I was aroused in the first place, too - like if I was in the mood and really wanted it, or just working from nothing.

If I start out on high it's faster to happen and lasts a noticeably shorter amount of time.
12/20/2011
lalapetitee lalapetitee
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Originally posted by Chirple
The most "fulfilling" for me so far is when I work up through the speeds - start low and keep going higher.

I've never really timed it, but from what I gather, I'd say 10-20 minutes. I think it depends on if I was aroused in ...
I have tried starting low but for some reason it either numbs me or makes it take forever. I jyst got the MiMi so I'm hoping it will change. So far its the same.
12/20/2011
November November
Have you tried playing with pulsations? Sometimes it helps to tease yourself with pulsation and then go to a high steady vibration to climax.
12/20/2011
Chirple Chirple
Quote:
Originally posted by lalapetitee
I have tried starting low but for some reason it either numbs me or makes it take forever. I jyst got the MiMi so I'm hoping it will change. So far its the same.
What you're describing reminds me a lot of what it was like for me to use a vibrator that was too weak.

I had one of the classic smoothie types a while back and I could literally leave it there for an hour on high and just go numb.

On the other hand, it's possible to numb if it's too much too quickly.

Have you ever tried a wand of any kind ?
12/21/2011
Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I think it depends on how long I have been building up to it, but generally a few seconds.
12/21/2011
lalapetitee lalapetitee
Quote:
Originally posted by Chirple
What you're describing reminds me a lot of what it was like for me to use a vibrator that was too weak.

I had one of the classic smoothie types a while back and I could literally leave it there for an hour on high and just go ...
I used a evolved rabbit style toy for over a year. Occasionally I use my xtreme g spot bullet. The rabbit I usually start at 3 and work my way up to 5 when I'm about to climax. But I started low my new MiMi and worked my way up but I got nothing. I'm not sure what it is. I would love to try a new wand but my hitachi just numbs my entire vulva.
12/21/2011
lalapetitee lalapetitee
Quote:
Originally posted by November
Have you tried playing with pulsations? Sometimes it helps to tease yourself with pulsation and then go to a high steady vibration to climax.
Yes. With the rabbit I had I tried but got nothing so I usually went with starting slow and working my way up. I just got my MiMi so I'm playing with the patterns but so far still nothing.
12/21/2011
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