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Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Just out of curiosity, I was already married with kids before I had my first "toy". How old were any of you before you had your first? Are you an early starter or did it take you a while to come around to using them?

I went to an inhome party that a friend was hosting through another company, thats how I was introduced. What was your first "introduction" to toys?
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Contributor: Wild Orchid Wild Orchid
Got on-line and bought myself a rabbit when I started High School (16,5). It was a time when almost nobody used a bank account with access through Internet so it was normal to send money to the account via a special postal service.

If I knew what I know now I would have just bought a corded bullet. I would have paid less and avoided dangerous chemicals.
02/14/2012
Contributor: blacklodge blacklodge
I got mine when I was 16. My then boyfriend bought me one as a "I'm sorry" gift. Lol. It was a cheap plastic one from Spencers and it didn't last long. My mom and I are very open with each other, so when it broke I mentioned it to her. Her response was "Well, if it wouldn't be so awkward, I'd get your dad to fix it for you."
02/14/2012
Contributor: All His All His
i got mine when i was 18 and could finally get online and order one. It still took a couple months to get up the nerve to order it lol
02/14/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I was about 22 when I got my first toy and it was from a friends of mine. Ever since she gave it to me I was addicted and started buying them myself.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Gemstone Gemstone
Late 40's that was a shopping trip with two friends. They both had toys already but I'd never been in a sex shop before. I bought a toy that lasted 3 uses... so I went back there by myself and got hooked.
02/14/2012
Contributor: TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
18. Went into a local shop the day after I turned legal and asked them what the best toy was. I saved up my money and two months later bought my first toy.
02/15/2012
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
I knew about toys for a good long while, but my partner and I got our first one together when we were in college, around 19 years old.
02/15/2012
Contributor: C. W. Perry C. W. Perry
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Originally posted by MamaDivine
Just out of curiosity, I was already married with kids before I had my first "toy". How old were any of you before you had your first? Are you an early starter or did it take you a while to come around to using them?

I went to an ... more
I didn't have the nerve to get my first toy until I was 18...and then I was a wreck walking into the store to buy it.
02/15/2012
Contributor: MichNichole MichNichole
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
Just out of curiosity, I was already married with kids before I had my first "toy". How old were any of you before you had your first? Are you an early starter or did it take you a while to come around to using them?

I went to an ... more
I'm 20. and I just recently got my first toy.. I think it is different for everyone. I was introduced to it by my best friend as a joke..but then we kind of got really into searching for them and visiting sex stores
02/15/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I got mine when I was 19. I'd opted not to go to my high school graduation, and went to a sex shop in my mom's town instead. Since I'd been craving a vibrator for about a year or two prior I decided that graduation was a good enough reason to reward myself, so I asked my mom if we could swing by during our outing. She came in with me and helped me pick out a toy and some lube (a blue plastic traditional vibe and Wet Light), which was swell of her since she doesn't use toys herself and she probably felt a little awkward.

I only got a few others between then and last year when I found Eden. Now I'm a total fanatic with a nice collection.
02/15/2012
Contributor: GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
I was 17 and got the toy from Spencer's. I'm quite glad they didn't check for ID.
02/15/2012
Contributor: darkkitty darkkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
Just out of curiosity, I was already married with kids before I had my first "toy". How old were any of you before you had your first? Are you an early starter or did it take you a while to come around to using them?

I went to an ... more
I was about 16...
I got it at spencers
02/15/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
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Originally posted by GonetoLovehoney
I was 17 and got the toy from Spencer's. I'm quite glad they didn't check for ID.
My second toy came from Spencer's. I was old enough to purchase toys, so I wasn't worried, but I remember asking if they needed I.D. and the clerk just said, "No." I always felt a little embarrassed for asking, and a little puzzled that he didn't check, since the lady where I got my first toy looked at my I.D. quite carefully.
02/15/2012
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I was 17 when I got my first toy. My ex bought it for me as a present and I loved the cheap thing to death (really, it died after I washed by accident). I'm not sure where he bought it. I think he got it at our local sex shop.
02/15/2012
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
I was 17. Walked into a B&M store and prayed they wouldn't card me. They didn't, and all was well.
02/15/2012
Contributor: Isola Isola
I bought my first toy when I was 21. It didn't last very long though... probably because it was just a cheap vibrator. Lol
02/15/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
I was 18 when my first (and only) boyfriend decided to buy a vibrator. It was cheap and plastic and buzzy and I hated it. I thought I didn't like vibrations. It wasn't until last year (at 27) that I bought a Lelo vibe that I realized it was because the one I had was a low quality piece of crap. No more cheap vibrators for me! But I love my luxury vibes!
02/15/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I was 18 or 19. A friend of mine who already had a rather large collection was absolutely stunned when I told her that I'd never owned a toy, not even a bullet. She immediately bought me a slim dildo and a buttplug (this was before I was into anal play with my current partner, so I gave the plug to a single gay friend who was lusting after it!).
02/15/2012
Contributor: arduous arduous
17, when I moved out. I don't know if the first was one I ordered or one I got from a 'novelty' shop.
02/15/2012