Need help please

Need help please

Newby39 Newby39
Newby39
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My wife is very conservative but I got her to agree to try a vibrator. After she had our last child she has had a hard time with climax and our sex life diminished to nothing. I started seeing a councilor for depression and it has been a great help to both of us and are ready to reconnect. I would just like some suggestions on what to get that isn't going to scare her. Haha. Thank you in advance for your help.
08/13/2016
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MitchConner MitchConner
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Originally posted by Newby39
My wife is very conservative but I got her to agree to try a vibrator. After she had our last child she has had a hard time with climax and our sex life diminished to nothing. I started seeing a councilor for depression and it has been a great help ...
Eden has lots of "samplers" or kits and I'd suggest you find one with vibration and without. My wife does like toys but doesn't like vibrators and finds they keep her from climaxing. A kit might make it easier to get started and less intimidating.
08/15/2016
Rufina Rufina
We would recommend starting with something versatile like a body wand. The body wands are great for massage and relaxation, which is important for orgasms, and they pack amazing strength making orgasms easy for those, who have trouble climaxing. The light and pretty Sophia is perfect and totally discreet body wand.
08/15/2016
Newby39 Newby39
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Originally posted by MitchConner
Eden has lots of "samplers" or kits and I'd suggest you find one with vibration and without. My wife does like toys but doesn't like vibrators and finds they keep her from climaxing. A kit might make it easier to get started and less intimidating.
Thank you for taking the time to give me suggestions and help. I appreciate it.
08/15/2016
Newby39 Newby39
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Originally posted by Rufina
We would recommend starting with something versatile like a body wand. The body wands are great for massage and relaxation, which is important for orgasms, and they pack amazing strength making orgasms easy for those, who have trouble climaxing. The ...
Thank you! I think I will try the for sure and get a couple of other things too. I was nervous about asking this stuff but you guys have been great!
08/15/2016
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Newby39
Thank you! I think I will try the for sure and get a couple of other things too. I was nervous about asking this stuff but you guys have been great!
Don't be nervous about learning more about you and your wife's sexuality. It can only benefit both of you. I hope both you and your wife enjoy your purchase.
08/16/2016
Newby39 Newby39
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Don't be nervous about learning more about you and your wife's sexuality. It can only benefit both of you. I hope both you and your wife enjoy your purchase.
Thank you!
08/19/2016
Saragreyson Saragreyson
Try to talk to hear and use some sex toys.
08/21/2016
Inquisitor Inquisitor
Just out of curiosity Newby39, have you made a decision on what to pick up?
08/23/2016
Newby39 Newby39
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Just out of curiosity Newby39, have you made a decision on what to pick up?
I am ordering the Sophia. I think she will like that.
08/23/2016
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Newby39
I am ordering the Sophia. I think she will like that.
Yippee Skippe And I/we hope she will reward you after each Sophia session.
08/23/2016
MrClark MrClark
The other benefit of many of the wands is they usually have less buzzy vibrations... I know I've read some women really don't enjoy the buzzy vibrators, and in some cases is more of a turn off/painful experience than enjoyable.

I know my girlfriend has enjoyed some of our newer vibrator purchases, that offer a more rumbly/powerful vibration than the buzzy/weak vibrations of the cheap old vibrator I had initially for her to try.
08/27/2016
CaliGirl CaliGirl
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Originally posted by Newby39
My wife is very conservative but I got her to agree to try a vibrator. After she had our last child she has had a hard time with climax and our sex life diminished to nothing. I started seeing a councilor for depression and it has been a great help ...
I would suggest a simple cock ring for you. It will make you vibrate for her. Or you could get her a smaller rabbit.
09/17/2016
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