It's hard to say what the reason could be. I'm 20 and when I'm receiving anal stimulation I rarely get hard, but I still receive a lot of stimulation none the less. For me, I know it's because I'm not receiving direct stimulation to my penis. I definitely wouldn't worry about it in regards to when you're receiving anally.

Interesting thought about the interference, sounds logical. The air might come from pumping it into the colon through friction movements or through reinsertion while gaping. I have it from time to time but just relax and take another position. Thanks for the comment.

I'm sorry that it didn't work well for you. I'm not an expert at pegging, we just started doing it. Just a thought, has your husband had anal stimulation before? (butt plugs, etc).

Yes, a few times. He's still trying to get used to the sensations though.

What didn't work well for me was that the Tango kept coming out. But it had it's moments. And I'm in no way ready to give it up yet. lol

I wish I could offer more help/advice.. But I'm glad you will keep trying

A bit of a wrong adjective here... I recognized when I posted, but there was no way back.

My b/f's erections vary greatly during pegging. At times he is semi-erect and emits a copious amount of pre-cum by a p spot orgasm, sometimes no emission at all but still an anal orgasm.
Ejaculation with semen usually happens with either of us stimulating his penis while I thrust but this is a somewhat shorter ride.

I agree completely with ScottA here. I'm very much the same way. It varies a lot from session to session. I usually don't even think about it. As long as it feels good, just keep going!

It's a new sensation and will take him a while. It sounds much less fun than it is, but you need to "learn" how to orgasm from anal penetration. It's a combination of becoming more receptive to the feeling of anal & prostate pleasure and becoming mentally able to orgasm from that.

Thanks for the reply.
I was thinking that may be the case. I actually tell him to practise:} I have never told a BF to masterbate before but I want him to get used to it and be able to "let go" with me. I was kind of hoping it wasn't me:} He just comes so close and then loses it.
BTW you seem to be the guy to ask, I bought him an aneros and he can't seem to use it hands free? He says he has to put pressure on it for it to do anything for him?
Any tips?

How do you orgasm with from anal penetration alone? How does it feel?

There are supposed to be two different types of orgasm that you can get from anal penetration. The first is the legendary anal orgasm, focused in the rectum/anus, going on for a long time, and not "draining". I haven't had a full one of these yet, though I have gotten very close (I think it was a small one). These are hard to get.

The second type is an anally-triggered orgasm. Physiologically it's the same as any other orgasm, with muscle contractions and (usually) ejaculation in the male. This is caused by anal play stimulating the prostate, bulb of the penis, and the nerves that run through the area. You'll probably need to play around a bit to find out what works best for you and your partner as far as stimulation and positions, but generally more rapid rhythmic stimulation is the best, at least at the end. I like to start off with long, slow dildo thrusts first and ramp up. Usually some genital play is good, at least at the beginning of a session, to get you relaxed and "in the mood" (keep in mind that people often tighten their anus when their genitals are stimulated, so keep that in mind during insertion).

What does it feel like? For me, anal stimulation lights up my whole pelvis/genital area. Pleasure flashes back and forth, rather than being concentrated in my penis (the pleasure includes my penis even when it's not being directly stimulated). Most of the time my orgasms from anal stimulation are powerful, the sort where you wind up needing some time to catch your breath and stop shaking. The neatest effect that I find is that I subjectively seem to be "ready" to have sex again sooner after an anal-induced orgasm than after a penile one - not sure why.

I don't do anal activities all the time, but they are a fun choice on the menu.

This is actually very common. It happens to me as well. The reason you can't stay hard is because your brain is concentrating more on the anal stimulation and the pleasure emanating from that and less on keeping the erection. I do find, however, that when I am nearing the end of an anal play session and start to rub my penis, I get the strongest erections, the biggest loads, and the greatest orgasms. Bottom line, it's really nothing to be concerned about whatsoever.