The New Intimacy

How often do you and your partner have sex.

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Contributor: amandaco2011 amandaco2011
We only get to see each other on the weekends so its less than if we were living together.
09/05/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by extrafun
My wife and i have been married almost 10 years and the sex seems to have really fallen off, maybe once ever three weeks. I would luv to have sex more often but shes not interested so much. I just trying to poll to see how normal this might be.
We've been married for 18 years. We used to have sex once a week, depending on my libido, and whether I'm at that inconvenient time of the month or not. There are so many things in our daily lives that will affect women's sex drive. My sexual desire has lowered some throughout the years, and my husband does complain about not having enough sex sometimes. To solve the problem, I've been taking a herbal supplement called Damiana leaves in the capsule form. My sex drive has been up, I am MUCH more sensitive down there, and I am having a easier time dealing with my perimenopausal symtoms. If your wife is healthy, you can let her try a small bottle of Damiana capsules, it's available online and at most natural food stores.
09/05/2011
Contributor: mcl272 mcl272
we've been together 4 years. we have sex whenever possible. basically as much as we feel like it at the time.
09/06/2011
Contributor: oldman oldman
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
We don't have sex every day - but like you we have way more sex now than in the past. My wife's epiphany came in her early 40s after hearing all her girl friends complaining about their under-performing husbands - and here she is turning me ... more
SO, you're happy having sex with your wife because her friends want to have sex with their husbands and not because she wants to have sex with you? Hmmm....now, what's wrong with this picture?
11/02/2011
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
The men I've been with in the past, we would have sex every day if we saw each other every day, or every time we were together.
03/07/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
For us its between 2 & 4 times a month. If it was up to my hubby it would be at least 5 times a week.
10/02/2012
Contributor: magicmaxx Mr.Mrs magicmaxx Mr.Mrs
been married 26 years the past 2 years we have sex 2 or 3 times a week
10/09/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Not enough!!!
10/09/2012
Contributor: koola1d88 koola1d88
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Originally posted by Dusk
Depends. Sometimes it's once a week, sometimes it's once a month. We've been together two years.
im about the same but we have been together only a year
11/11/2012
Contributor: koola1d88 koola1d88
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
We don't have sex every day - but like you we have way more sex now than in the past. My wife's epiphany came in her early 40s after hearing all her girl friends complaining about their under-performing husbands - and here she is turning me ... more
thats good for you very cute story
11/11/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
About 3-5 times per week.
11/12/2012
Contributor: CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
It ebbs and flows. Sometimes not at all, sometimes twice a day.
05/08/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
We have sex most days- maybe 5 days a week.
05/14/2013
Contributor: Clock Chime Clock Chime
It all depends, really.
05/19/2013
Contributor: evie.amor evie.amor
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Originally posted by married with children
we have sex about 5 times a week, and have been at 5 times a week for 11 years. We have been married for 11 years, and together for 17 years.
Wow congratulations married with children! That's wonderful!

My guy and I have been together for 3 years and we have sex sometimes once a month sometimes 4x a month.
05/19/2013