Girlfriend hates any clitoral stimulation...any suggestions

Contributor: chivalrousT chivalrousT
So a new girlfriend has revealed that, not only
does she hate clitoral stimulation, any kind, she has never had an orgasm.
She says and stimulation is actually painful..Suprisingly she loves sex despite never having an orgasmSince ive never encountered this before im throwing this out to the community to see if there are any suggestions? She says oral is slightly tolerable but shys away after a little bit when I get near her clitorus...
04/02/2012
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Contributor: Lickable Lollie Lickable Lollie
I find that direct clitoral stimulation is too much for me too... I usually aim for the side of it instead of a direct shot...She's probably just super sensitive.
04/02/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
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Originally posted by Lickable Lollie
I find that direct clitoral stimulation is too much for me too... I usually aim for the side of it instead of a direct shot...She's probably just super sensitive.
Same here, I am super sensitive. I usually just work around it, I usually have my partner focus more on hitting my G-spot than worrying about getting my clit.
04/02/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife use to be ultra sensitive as well. By including a fair amount of foreplay she could adapt to more direct stimulation. I once read that women have a 'sensitive side'. The article recommended looking at the clit as a watch face and try to find the 'time' where the feeling is best.

It turned out to be a great tool - my girl will coo - "Go back to that 1 o'clock spot" she'll advise.

Explore and find out what works - start on the outer labia and work your way closer. Communicate and enjoy the journey.
04/03/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
If it is too much for her, don't force it or constantly ask about it. You could try light pressure or a lot of pressure since pressure could make a difference.
04/03/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Ask her to show you what she wants and likes...sometimes that's all that's needed!
04/03/2012
Contributor: ghalik ghalik
G-spot, g-spot, g-spot. If she hasn't found it yet, encourage her to try on her own first.
04/03/2012
Contributor: bettle590 bettle590
it could be because you've only been using direct clitoral stimulation, which is uncomfortable for me and a lot of others
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