How do you feel about the size of your vulva/vagina?

Contributor: SapphirexIce SapphirexIce
I think my labia lips are huge, looks like they can give a blow job!
03/06/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
I my vagina! We're best buds. I named her Suzy after Suzy Greene on Curb Your Enthusiasm because she doesn't take shit from anybody. haha.

My vuvla might not be porno-perfect, but she's totally rad as far as I'm concerned.
03/09/2011
Contributor: Eden C. Eden C.
My labia majora is too small, my labia minora is too big. I wish I had a 'plump' mons pubis than the sagging skin I have. I also have hair on the INSIDE of my labia majora, which I have never seen on anybody else.

My vagina, however, is too small. It wouldn't be a problem if there were a decent selection of long enough toys with a diameter less than 1".

My clitoris, however, is just perfect. It has served me well!
03/21/2011
Contributor: lesbianlesbian lesbianlesbian
If I could change anything I would just get rid of the hair down there. Forever.
03/26/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Other. I don't dislike my vagina, but I sometimes wish my clit was bigger. ^///^;
Regarding the previous posts, I'm glad I shave down there. Finding gray hairs down there would probably scar me D:
03/27/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
My parts are great. They work and we get along well.
Where's that option?
04/07/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
i love the way mine look and feel
05/08/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Hay, they do make hair dye for the cooter! Lol It's called betty's hair dye I think. You can get it in green, orange, pink, purple.

Anyways, I voted that I thought my labia minora were too large. I often used to spend so much time worrying whether or not mine looked "normal" or even pretty. I NEVER let anyone actually see my cooter until my current partner came into the picture. I also voted that I'm overall satisfied with the internal tightness. I haven't ever liked the labia minora I have. It's not huge and I've certainly seen labia that was much bigger and dangly. I used to think mine was fat all over and I thought that was a bad thing. Now, my partner calls it fat all the time! He loves it that way (he says) so I never worry about it's chubbyness anymore, but I still hate the labia minora. They feel like they would be disgusting to him and he swears he loves it, but I don't see how. Mine are a dark color. I have a bit of a dark complexion. I actually got to where I wear vaj-j visors when in the tanning bed & I even got some of that Skin Bright several months back to lighten it. Ugh! It honestly didn't seem to help, but I didn't use it regularly because I was a bit afraid to keep using it after a months regular use. Those can be harmful, but Skin Birght is supposed to be safe, but still!

I even talked about having that surgery to fix them after I started reading in mags (I banned myself from cosmo and those crappy mags that tell you you aren't good enough) but I got it in my head that the HORRIFYING surgery was better than a little dark and long labia! It's so damn dangerous though that I WILL NOT have the surgery. I about shit when I read the dr's being quoted in cosmo on their words of labia being ugly and women should have it removed (cut) because it looks dirty and unsightly.

As long as my partner truly thinks it looks good, I'm OK. I still am not too fond of the dark color, but maybe that's normal?
05/16/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Also, I almost voted that I wasn't happy with the shortness of the inside. That's only because of having endometriosis, it tends to send me into excruciating pain if I'm not extremely turned on and it's during the days where I have flare ups. It's because the "canal" lengthens when you're turned on and for some women who have reproductive/female issues or are have a very sensitive cervix, it can be terribly painful if it gets hit. It's strange though because as long as I'm not having a flare up, I can REALLY O from him hitting my cervix.. gently though! Lol. Mine is normally about 2 inches if even that. Seriously, a thumb being inserted can touch my cervix at times. But, it just takes a little extra warming up or foreplay to get it to lengthen to the right amount. It takes time though because my partner is fairly a hefty size in the peter dept.
05/16/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
I don't think I would ever get any sort of surgery on myself, but I feel like I have the fattest vagina in the world. Well, my labia and vulva. The labia don't really bother me, but they get in the way of my personal play and always need to be spread open. The vulva is pudgy and I am really self conscious about it even with my fiance. He seems to love it. So I guess it is more of a personal thing. When we have sex, it doesn't matter. When it's me masturbating, looking in the mirror, etc... it matters.

I do not find the trend of "tiny" genitals to be cute, however. I think the trimmed, liposuctioned genitals just look stupid. This might be why I feel awkward about myself. But it's as if their genitals aren't even there. Just a fully exposed clitoris!

My vaginal canal feels too tight to me. Most women would love this. I want to keep it tight, but there are times when I just wish it was a little looser. When I insert toys it is quite a push. And sex is like losing my virginity every time! I do kegel exercises for my bladder, so that might have something to do with it. But it's always been this way. And my fiance has a really thick cock, so you think I would be getting looser any day now.
05/16/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i love everything about my vag, vulva, clit and labia. i really just want it pierced lol
07/03/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
I'm doing exercises to try to tighten up.
07/04/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I wish my vaginal canal can be deeper by an inch.
07/05/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
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Originally posted by imp
I don't really compartmentalize or want to change anything although it would be nice not to have a Clit-O-Steel lol. I am surprised at the high vote regarding the vaginal canal being too short though? I like my cervix being hit lol.
I feel the same, i like when my cervix is hit!
07/05/2011
Contributor: 5x5 5x5
Just wanting to give a guy's perspective here...

Lips on a woman are like balls on a guy. Does the size, shape, hang of a guy's testicles really matter to you? How would you feel if your guy tried to hide his parts because he didn't like the way his balls looked?

Small lips, large lips, lopsided lips...they're all beautiful in their own way. In fact, the "perfect" lips are less appealing because it is the uniqueness that makes them so appealing. Besides, if you love/care about your partner, you're going to appreciate/learn to like the differentness that they have.

I wouldn't spend a mili-second worrying about the exterrior look of your lady parts.

As for the inner parts...tightness and length...I'm a small guy, and it is extremely tuff at times to deal with, but there is someone for everyone.

I'm preaching to the choir here, but vaginas can stretch, lengthen and even tighten. Women are lucky like that adn it pisses me off!!!

Seriously, just mainly wanted to make the point that cosmetically us guys appreciate anything in front of us...and that's not to say we're just happy to have somethign in front of us, it's that small, thin, long, fat, large, lopsided, etc...it all, truly, is beautiful...and it is what's inside that counts, anyway (physically and emotionally).

With that said, this entire thread is worthless without pics.
07/05/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
clitoris is too large, but my guy has different views on the subject. He see's nothing wrong.
07/06/2011
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
Quote:
Originally posted by imp
I don't really compartmentalize or want to change anything although it would be nice not to have a Clit-O-Steel lol. I am surprised at the high vote regarding the vaginal canal being too short though? I like my cervix being hit lol.
ouch! hehehe...
07/06/2011
Contributor: TheeGirlNextDoor TheeGirlNextDoor
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Originally posted by Luscious Lily
I'm among the women who find it very painful to get my cervix hit; it happens on a regular basis if we're not careful, so I'd like my canal to be longer to avoid the whole issue.

Otherwise I'm pretty satisfied. I mean, if was ... more
Me too!
07/06/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
you didnt have an option for 'love it!'

wtf!?


i love letting my furs grow out, they protect me when it's cold, make me feel like a grown woman, and give me something to tug on during sex for a little bit of tiny pain.

my pussy looks like... my pussy! it's beautiful, it's mine, it's a place of pleasure, of womanhood, of creating life, of making love.


i sometimes stress over being a little loose inside but seeing as how i've never given birth, it's got to just be silliness. my boyfriend is a little less girthy than i'm used to and i think that's the source of this silly idea.


hands up if you love your ticky!!


check out this wonderful song from the makers of the Mooncup about loving your vagina.

love your vagina song


07/06/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Undressed Reviews
Where's the "I fucking love my vagina" option?
That would have been my choice.
*like.



(ps. me too!)
07/06/2011
Contributor: Jenyana Jenyana
In my case, my worries are not due to size, but rather because I'm so tight and small, it causes incredible amounts of pain to get penetrated by anything bigger than a finger or at most two. It has nothing to do with aesthetics. :/
07/11/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
When I was younger, I felt self-conscious about my vulva.. One side of my labia is bigger than the other and sticks out when I'm just standing (kinda looks like a tongue lol) But having sex taught me that no one really cares how my "stuff" looks. Actually I've been told that it's beautiful, and feels wonderful. Unfortunately it hasn't always been "wonderful" for me because it's overly tight (something some women would kill for, I know) but for me sex hurts sometimes, especially when I haven't done it for awhile.
07/13/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
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Originally posted by EffinSara
Don't care, don't care, don't care.

I am bothered by the trimmed labia trend in porn, how the "perfect" pussy has suddenly become hairless, lipless, and nearly identical to that of a three year old. Ugh. ... more
I'd never even heard about surgically altering your labia until just a couple of days ago. I was astonished that anyone would even think about such a thing.
07/13/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
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Originally posted by P'Gell
That just means you have good blood flow. Usually women who have had children have slightly darker "dusky mauve" outer genitalia (as it is described in Medical Literature) but often women who have never had children also have this evidence ... more
Good to know. Thanks for the info.
07/13/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
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Originally posted by oohlookasquirrel
I like seeing puffy labia on women in porn, because they actually look like they're enjoying themselves! The small tiny lips look to me like they're not actually aroused, and nothing kills the enjoyment of porn for me like a woman who is ... more
I tend to yell at the screen as well. I think you and I would enjoy watching porn together. Although it would get very noisy.
07/13/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
Quote:
Originally posted by M121212
A friend of mine is working on a project right now, maybe you'd be interested...

I’LL SHOW YOU MINE

My name is Wrenna. I am a 35 year old woman who has spent the past 17 years of my life working as an exotic dancer while attaining ... more
Very interesting. I'm truly amazed that there is so much controversy over what a woman's vulva looks like. I guess I'm naive. I always thought function was more important than form.
07/13/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
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Originally posted by Undressed Reviews
Where's the "I fucking love my vagina" option?
That would have been my choice.
RIGHT?!
07/13/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
im happy with mine just way it is
07/14/2011
Contributor: anonomous anonomous
Quote:
Originally posted by EffinSara
Don't care, don't care, don't care.

I am bothered by the trimmed labia trend in porn, how the "perfect" pussy has suddenly become hairless, lipless, and nearly identical to that of a three year old. Ugh. ... more
ewww I know what you mean about the surgically trimmed labia, suck a turn off! I don't understand why anyone would want that! After the surgery they just throw away little strips of vagina. ick.
07/15/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
I am pretty happy with how everything functions and feels... I worry that my labia are too big to be attractive, but only a little bit. I'm also perennially really well lubricated, and I suspect the two might be related, to I try remind myself to cut them some slack on form because their function is so good.

Other than that, I'm pretty happy with what I've got.

I wish I could shave my mons without it getting all irritated, though. But no biggie, really.
07/15/2011