I like my vagina just fine, we're good buddies
How do you feel about the size of your vulva/vagina?
10/09/2010
I personally love what I have. I didn't get to participate too much in this poll, because I'm not 'too much' anything, and it isn't a matter of not caring--I LOVE me! I love the appearance of my clit, my interior length and tightness, I love my labia and I love love the outer vulva. I don't know if its weird to critise color, but if anything, I'd say that. I'm Mexican-American and my skin is caramel-complected; when I engorge, the color becomes significantly darker. I used to feel weird about that, but my sweets LOVES it and tells me about it, making me feel better in the process.
Was that TMI?:p
Was that TMI?:p
10/10/2010
A friend of mine is working on a project right now, maybe you'd be interested...
I’LL SHOW YOU MINE
My name is Wrenna. I am a 35 year old woman who has spent the past 17 years of my life working as an exotic dancer while attaining three university degrees. In this time, I have had the opportunity to witness the evolving relationship women have with their bodies. Plastic surgery has long been considered the norm in the industry, women having opted for breast implants since long before I started dancing. However, new procedures have become available and grown in popularity in this time period. The most surprising trend I have seen in recent years is the growing number of women seeking labiaplasty (surgical reduction of the labia for cosmetic reasons).
When a few women recently asked me to look at their vaginas, stating they were considering labiaplasty because they felt their inner labia were too apparent, they did so apologetically, as if it were somehow wrong to ask. This awareness was startling for me - realizing that even strippers, comfortable being naked around both women and men, do not openly look at or talk about their vaginas. I realized that if strippers are not looking at other women's vaginas, who is? And if women aren't looking at each other's vaginas, where are they getting this sense of what theirs should look like?
You can read more about it here: link
I’LL SHOW YOU MINE
My name is Wrenna. I am a 35 year old woman who has spent the past 17 years of my life working as an exotic dancer while attaining three university degrees. In this time, I have had the opportunity to witness the evolving relationship women have with their bodies. Plastic surgery has long been considered the norm in the industry, women having opted for breast implants since long before I started dancing. However, new procedures have become available and grown in popularity in this time period. The most surprising trend I have seen in recent years is the growing number of women seeking labiaplasty (surgical reduction of the labia for cosmetic reasons).
When a few women recently asked me to look at their vaginas, stating they were considering labiaplasty because they felt their inner labia were too apparent, they did so apologetically, as if it were somehow wrong to ask. This awareness was startling for me - realizing that even strippers, comfortable being naked around both women and men, do not openly look at or talk about their vaginas. I realized that if strippers are not looking at other women's vaginas, who is? And if women aren't looking at each other's vaginas, where are they getting this sense of what theirs should look like?
You can read more about it here: link
10/11/2010
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^_^ glad you're happy!
Originally posted by
Jewelweed
My god, you've changed everything for me! One of my labium looks kind of like that too, and you're right--it is very seashell-like! Thanks!
10/16/2010
I am happy with my vagina
10/16/2010
I like the way my ladyparts look, but my vagina is pretty tight. I don't think this is a super negative, except my current sexual partner is pretty girthy and it can be uncomfortable/painful even with lots of foreplay and lube.
10/17/2010
I used to worry about this stuff when I was younger, but now I realize that guys are happy to see vagina, period. Some even act like it's a religious experience. I think it helped having two pussy-pleasing obsessed exes who told me when I was scared about them seeing me naked, "What are you crazy. It's beautiful."
12/05/2010
I love mine. I have been told that I have a really great looking vajayjay by a few and I tend to agree!
12/05/2010
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Originally posted by
Undressed Reviews
Where's the "I fucking love my vagina" option?
That would have been my choice.
That would have been my choice.
I like your attitude. We should love our bodies even though it can be hard to do at times.
12/05/2010
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I agree. Let's embrace our vulvas as they are!!
Originally posted by
Bunnycups
I like your attitude. We should love our bodies even though it can be hard to do at times.
I like your attitude. We should love our bodies even though it can be hard to do at times.
12/05/2010
I'm not always the type to be like "Everyone is beautiful!" But I really, really hate the idea that labia are undesirable if large in particular. I say it a lot here, but I fight this where I can, sorry for my rants! The guys who do this criticism don't often seem to think the aesthetic value of their parts are important! It's not fair. But girls sometimes will say mean things, too....
I think it's weird that large labia are associated with looseness. And that no noticeable inner labia are associated with a childlike appearance when the few girls I seen growing up were not quite like that image.
I have come to wish that I had been born with labia that were a few cm shorter as some panties aren't made with girls like me in mind, but they aren't really a problem for me otherwise. People complain of comfort issues when they get them cut, but I have never found them to be so bothersome.
I think my clit is a little large, but again, I wouldn't want it too much smaller.
As for the depth, tightness, I don't know. I've only had one partner for intercourse and he's only had me. I think we are pretty happy, a good fit. Sometimes I trap air in a rear up position, but I think women of any width are capable of this.
If I could remake my body with magic, I might tweak some things, but I would not make any great changes.
I think it's weird that large labia are associated with looseness. And that no noticeable inner labia are associated with a childlike appearance when the few girls I seen growing up were not quite like that image.
I have come to wish that I had been born with labia that were a few cm shorter as some panties aren't made with girls like me in mind, but they aren't really a problem for me otherwise. People complain of comfort issues when they get them cut, but I have never found them to be so bothersome.
I think my clit is a little large, but again, I wouldn't want it too much smaller.
As for the depth, tightness, I don't know. I've only had one partner for intercourse and he's only had me. I think we are pretty happy, a good fit. Sometimes I trap air in a rear up position, but I think women of any width are capable of this.
If I could remake my body with magic, I might tweak some things, but I would not make any great changes.
12/08/2010
Love mine
12/10/2010
no one understands how bad it sucks to have a tight vigina
12/11/2010
My vulva and vagina are awesome!
12/12/2010
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it's not just me! thank you everybody for sharing. I feel a little less crazy now.
Originally posted by
Valyn
On having my cervix get hit, it depends on the time of the month. Sometimes it's really uncomfortable, and other days I love having something (toy/partner) in so deep.
Like Luscious Lily, I'd much prefer symmetry. One labium is quite a ... more
Like Luscious Lily, I'd much prefer symmetry. One labium is quite a ... more
On having my cervix get hit, it depends on the time of the month. Sometimes it's really uncomfortable, and other days I love having something (toy/partner) in so deep.
Like Luscious Lily, I'd much prefer symmetry. One labium is quite a bit bigger than the other, and while the boyfriend likes how I look, I've had a half a mind to just cut the stupid thing to size (I'd NEVER do it.. scissors have NO PLACE near those areas)! less
Like Luscious Lily, I'd much prefer symmetry. One labium is quite a bit bigger than the other, and while the boyfriend likes how I look, I've had a half a mind to just cut the stupid thing to size (I'd NEVER do it.. scissors have NO PLACE near those areas)! less
i have the size difference. THough I think i'm the only one that cares.
01/14/2011
i can't remember the site. Been trying to find it. A site where this lady did extensive work on this subject. the site had pictures submitted by women who were proud of their individuality in their genitals. and there were writings on the issue.
anybody know what site i'm talking about by chance?
anybody know what site i'm talking about by chance?
01/14/2011
I like how everything looks and feels down there I think as far as female genitals go, mine are pretty nice-looking. And ever since I got some Smart Balls, things are tighter and better than ever! No complaints here.
01/23/2011
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That is so cool, I never knew that but it makes perfect sense!
Originally posted by
P'Gell
That just means you have good blood flow. Usually women who have had children have slightly darker "dusky mauve" outer genitalia (as it is described in Medical Literature) but often women who have never had children also have this evidence
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That just means you have good blood flow. Usually women who have had children have slightly darker "dusky mauve" outer genitalia (as it is described in Medical Literature) but often women who have never had children also have this evidence of good blood flow.
Believe me, when it comes to sensitivity and ability to orgasm, more blood flow is certainly better than less. less
Believe me, when it comes to sensitivity and ability to orgasm, more blood flow is certainly better than less. less
01/23/2011
It's not a place that I'd want photographed, but overall I'm ok.
01/25/2011
I'm fine with my vagina. I don't have any complaints.
01/25/2011
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I love vaginas, I think they're so pretty, just not mine. I mean, I'm definitely satisfied with my tightness and muscle control, but appearance-wise, my labia are bigger than I'd like them to be and my clitoris is tiny and hoodless. While this isn't necessarily a bad thing, it just looks weird and I can't stand it. At the end of the day though, my hunny thinks its pretty, and that's all that matters I suppose.
Originally posted by
Average Joe
Men, feel free to answer how you feel about your partner's vulva/vagina.
02/01/2011
I like me!
02/12/2011
Gonna go ahead and say my junk is pretty. Haha
02/13/2011
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I didn't know that! Thanks for the explanation and great info. I always learn something from you!
Originally posted by
P'Gell
That just means you have good blood flow. Usually women who have had children have slightly darker "dusky mauve" outer genitalia (as it is described in Medical Literature) but often women who have never had children also have this evidence
...
more
That just means you have good blood flow. Usually women who have had children have slightly darker "dusky mauve" outer genitalia (as it is described in Medical Literature) but often women who have never had children also have this evidence of good blood flow.
Believe me, when it comes to sensitivity and ability to orgasm, more blood flow is certainly better than less. less
Believe me, when it comes to sensitivity and ability to orgasm, more blood flow is certainly better than less. less
02/14/2011
I think i'm pretty good looking down there. I have a little clit and little inner lips. Big ones sort of freak me out. I didn't know they would be different shapes and sizes before I started being sexually active.
02/20/2011
Where's the I my Pikachu!!! LOL It's always been importand to me to take care of what I have control over. I trim, do kegels, and use baby wipes or fem wipes. As far as what I can't control I still love it, it's nice and neat and all tight and tucked. I'm sorry for saying but some of the vaginas I have seen in porn look beat to hell. It's one thing if your healthy and natural and another to be overworked for years on end.
It's probably one part of my body I wouldn't change if I could.
It's probably one part of my body I wouldn't change if I could.
03/02/2011
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I'm going to answer for her, since I gave her the computer to vote. She said the interior feels too loose, that her vaginal canal is too short, that her labia is too large, that her labia is too hairy, that her clitoris is too small, that there are things that she would change about her vagina's appearance, that there are things about the feel tightness etc that she would change about her vagina, and that overall she's disattisfied with both the look and inside of it. She is so hard on herself! Gosh, it's just a vagina! Her heart and brain and soul are more important to me!
Originally posted by
Average Joe
Men, feel free to answer how you feel about your partner's vulva/vagina.
03/03/2011
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I love my wifes vulva and vagina. Perfect, cute, tight, sweet, pretty. I can't get enough I actually think it is one of my favorite things.
Originally posted by
Average Joe
Men, feel free to answer how you feel about your partner's vulva/vagina.
03/03/2011
My inner lips are smaller than the outer... I love seeing the womens whos inner lips and clit is larger and shows-longer than the outer... I wish mine did that LOL
03/04/2011
No problems, I haven't fretted over it.
03/04/2011