First Timer..

Contributor: MaiNai MaiNai
What would be a good overall first toy?
02/15/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Informative topic breakdown of First Time:

Has first time sex ever been so good that you were scared of pursuing the relationship?
Have you had sex that made you afraid you would be under that persons control. Or that the other person was way more advanced than you sexually....

Sex Drive
How do you keep your sex life spicy and new?

Tips for a First Timer
So, I've checked a lot of the other 'virginity' threads and couldn't find quite what I was looking for. You all have posted about your first time,...

the first time you put it on!!
It is sooo nerve wrecking for me to put on that first piece of lingerie for my new boy friend. I have one piece that has been in my closet forever...

Good for first time P spot?
This looks like a fun little toy. Would you recommend for p spot first timer? Any other sexy recomendations?
02/15/2012
Contributor: Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
Quote:
Originally posted by MaiNai
What would be a good overall first toy?
What are you looking to use the toy more for? Anal, Vaginal, would you like something that vibrates or non-vibrating.

Sorry if this is personal, but have you had sex before? The reason I ask is to get a better idea on the size of a toy you might be looking for.
02/15/2012
Contributor: MaiNai MaiNai
Quote:
Originally posted by Cookie Monster Mike
What are you looking to use the toy more for? Anal, Vaginal, would you like something that vibrates or non-vibrating.

Sorry if this is personal, but have you had sex before? The reason I ask is to get a better idea on the size of a toy you ... more
Vaginal, vibrating, virgin. Huzzah for alliteration!
02/15/2012
Contributor: Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
Quote:
Originally posted by MaiNai
Vaginal, vibrating, virgin. Huzzah for alliteration!
VVV woohoo.

Hmm making it tough for me, since I am a male, I will never have enough expertise with vibrators. Also depends on your budget. But if anything I would highly recommend body safe silicone. Something around 1" in diameter, and probably something mid-range in vibrations. It's an average description, but gives you room to figure out if you are going to want something bigger, more powerful, or the opposite. I hope a vibrator expert (a female) will be able to come join in on this and help you better. But I can try in the mean time.

I can take a look around on the site for something, but it seems most of the decent quality ones are going to be $30+
02/15/2012
Contributor: Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
If price is not an issue, from reviews, ratings, and overall quality of the product this one seems rather nice. Liv

Here is another L-amour premium silicone massager

and bgood

Those are just some examples. Various styles and such. What I do recommend since right now it is late at night, is to read over the reviews of a vibrator you might be interested in. Reviews will give you a really good idea on the product and how well it might perform. Also, you can always message the author of a review that you might like to get further information about that toy.
02/15/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
The Velvet Touch from Doc Johnson is another good vibrator. It's very basic, nothing fancy and no bells or whistles, but it's reliable, inexpensive, and easy to use.
02/15/2012
Contributor: Wild Orchid Wild Orchid
I'll just give you a few pointers:
- go with silicone, or if you're pressed for money (/points) TPR
- consider something curved - you'll have a chance to try g-spot stimulation
- pick a modest girth (Dangerous Lily says in her amazing guide about 1-1,25" I'd only add Tantus Acute to her recs)
- don't put too much hope in rabbit vibes. They can be great, but there is no guarantee you'll pick the one that goes with your anatomy. It's always safer to pick a quality silicone dildo and a nice but cheap 4-vroom bullet.
- take advantage of the "refine" function while browsing - you can narrow your search easily.
02/15/2012