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Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
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Originally posted by RonLee
Your husband has no tongue, no fingers??? You're posting on EF... you have no toys??? Just because he's cum first shouldn't stop the fun.
LMAO...Point taken. Ill make notes for him LOL!
01/26/2012
Contributor: dks210 dks210
Lying only makes things worse. He can't get you off with oral?
01/29/2012
Contributor: Nkev Nkev
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
Quite frankly, I feel awful when hubby "goes" before I do, because I know he's going to feel like crap knowing that I didn't "get mine". Honestly, I have fun with or without an orgasm. Its more than that to me. So, should ... more
honesty! by all means!!!!
02/04/2012
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
Quite frankly, I feel awful when hubby "goes" before I do, because I know he's going to feel like crap knowing that I didn't "get mine". Honestly, I have fun with or without an orgasm. Its more than that to me. So, should ... more
be honest
02/13/2012
Contributor: hillys hillys
just be honest.
02/25/2012
Contributor: bsgs bsgs
faking it is bad no matter what. i know for me, when i get my wife off, i know i was doing something right, and faking it will make him think that what he did worked for you when it didnt, setting you both up for disappointment in the future. you could always ask him to go down on you after he finishes, it could get you off, and could get him hard again so you can go for round 2 faster
02/25/2012
Contributor: Pinkie Pie Pinkie Pie
we try and do it again
02/28/2012
Contributor: Boobs and Lubes Boobs and Lubes
My two cents; help him and encourage him to practice holding off. Cum together! I have been working on it and it really helps and works!
03/14/2012
Contributor: sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
use a toy to get ready before his.
08/17/2012
Contributor: pirata pirata
i have fun without orgasms too lol i finally convinced my boyfriend of that, so he doesn't mind anymore xD (thoug when he decides I will, I always do :3)
08/17/2012
Contributor: justme23 justme23
Don't fake it for sure
08/17/2012
Contributor: edenguy edenguy
I would just be honest about it. There are other ways of taking care of you if he feels badly about it
08/19/2012
Contributor: Lucifer the Cat Lucifer the Cat
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
LMAO...Point taken. Ill make notes for him LOL!
Agreed! His getting off before you do doesn't have to mean that you don't "get yours"!
08/19/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
Quite frankly, I feel awful when hubby "goes" before I do, because I know he's going to feel like crap knowing that I didn't "get mine". Honestly, I have fun with or without an orgasm. Its more than that to me. So, should ... more
I do whatever it takes to make my wife go first, then it doesn't matter how long it takes me, and she even gets another big O out of the deal sometimes!
09/02/2012
Contributor: T&L T&L
I think someone once said "Honesty is the Best Policy"!! Introduce him to edging and help him master it and you both will benifit!!
09/18/2012
Contributor: Hers&mine Hers&mine
I am kind of going through the same thing. My partner used to barely touch me and I would have an orgasm and now I am so tired from my kids just turning one and chasing them all the time that most of the time I just do not feel like it. So my partner slowly seduces me but I give up after about 45 min because I'm bored with me and just want to move on to my partner. It takes a whole 2 minutes to get my partner off. I just say I don't know if I came.lol
10/19/2012
Contributor: anonymoustwit anonymoustwit
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
Quite frankly, I feel awful when hubby "goes" before I do, because I know he's going to feel like crap knowing that I didn't "get mine". Honestly, I have fun with or without an orgasm. Its more than that to me. So, should ... more
I make him hold it till I'm done, lol.
10/31/2012
Contributor: koola1d88 koola1d88
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
Quite frankly, I feel awful when hubby "goes" before I do, because I know he's going to feel like crap knowing that I didn't "get mine". Honestly, I have fun with or without an orgasm. Its more than that to me. So, should ... more
you should just try and relax and breathe in and outdeep breaths and explain it to him as nicely as posible that it just takes you a bit longer than it takes him and ask him to take a break or switch positions and or play with you for a bit and he will have to slow it down and build back up and it will give you more time and more stimulation.
11/21/2012
Contributor: SilverNarnia SilverNarnia
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
Quite frankly, I feel awful when hubby "goes" before I do, because I know he's going to feel like crap knowing that I didn't "get mine". Honestly, I have fun with or without an orgasm. Its more than that to me. So, should ... more
I've always been of the opinion that honesty is the best policy. If you fake it, especially if you end up faking it a lot, and he somehow finds out - think of how that'll make him feel.
12/25/2012
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
Quite frankly, I feel awful when hubby "goes" before I do, because I know he's going to feel like crap knowing that I didn't "get mine". Honestly, I have fun with or without an orgasm. Its more than that to me. So, should ... more
I wouldn't lie about it. That could cause serious issues. If my partner comes before me, he just lets me get off if I want, and he'll help.
07/12/2013