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Give the balls some play once i awhile hehe!

This will really vary from person to person. So there isn't really one "right" way to give a handjob.

My man prefers his balls to remain untouched during play, while other men love it. If you can, watch your partner masturbate himself - that will be the best way to learn techniques that work for HIM!

don't be afraid to massage, fondle, and/or stroke him everywhere. see what he responds to the best. a good hand job is different for everyone.

follow the physical and verbal signs with what to do. Honestly, just ask what he wants. He'll more than likely tell you without questioning.

Many men love to have their taint or perineum massaged during a hand job or even a finger directly massaging the prostate. My man also likes when I gently squeeze and pull on his scrotum during a hand job or oral.

Glad I found this post! Posting so I get updates on further responses.

I would watch him do it a few times if you can and notice his reactions.

Is he sitting up, standing, or lying down?

Watching porn, or magazines, etc. at the same time?

Notice the time spent at different points of his member, try to notice the amounts of pressure if you can.

Also other things like: do circular movements happen at the head?

Does he stay at the frenulum? Very sensitive at the underside.

Is his foreskin involved?

Lubrication or not? Lube always helps BTW. Precum is great lube if none is available.

Does he get faster as he gets into it?

I notice for myself that the up and down motion is never the same throughout the stroke, there may be a part that is circular, or the pressure is different (like the head), or a little 'bendy'. I also find that my wife is usually not aggressive enough when she did it, and she never made me cum.

He may have to finish himself off, but am sure that's okay.

Lastly, you may want to practice on a dildo or something penis-like to build up hand strength and get to use your wrist. Sometimes its about endurance, depending upon age!

Hope this helps. Good luck with your handy skills!