Informative topic breakdown of Wand massagers:

Crystal Wand
Has anyone used this for p spot fun?

Can I use the Fun Wand's anal portion in my vagina? How is it like?
Can I use the Fun Wand's anal portion in my vagina? How is it like?

My Mini-Miracle Massager Wand vs. Hitachi Magic Wand
I'd love to hear the comparisons between these two from those who have used both.

Another Mystic Wand question...
I realize this is a terribly silly question...but how do you turn it on? I am pressing the power button, and nothing is happening!? Is there some...

Fairy Rechargeable Wand Battery Life
I'm just wondering exactly how long the charge lasts on these things? I've been hearing different things from reviews, so I'm wondering what's...

I really like to rock it back and forth (using lots of pressure) against my g-spot and it is always fun for anal play, if that's how you roll. My husband likes it gently rocked against his prostate.

It does feel amazing. Just be gentle and go slowly. Steel is unforgiving. You will be amazed at the heat this baby can hold.

I've only had mine a week, but I love it so hard! The trick I figured out tonight was using it in the bath. The water helps support the weight of it so you can just let it rest there against your G-spot while you relax in the water. A waterproof clit vibe would be a nice addition too.

In bed, the rocking motion is best. I warm up with the small end, then switch to the large one, rest it just behind my G and rock away, either laying on my side or back.

(I would not recommend letting a partner control the thrusting until you've both gotten used to how it handles, just to be safe.)

Hopefully some wand veterans will come along to give more tips!

I've had mine for more than a week, but only used it once. I've been trying the rocking motion, but my husband can't keep his fingers away from my clit, so I haven't had a chance to achieve a g-spot only orgasm from the wand yet.
I'll have to try again while he's sleeping, so he won't be in the way!

We use all of our toys together - but when I bought the Pure Wand I printed out every review for it that I could find on the internet. I gave her the Pure Wand, the printout - and went on a business trip. Her instructions were to learn how the thing works and teach me.

The strategy was very successful. Basically the technique is like Redboxbaby describes.

As you probably know as a woman's arousal level increases, her vagina deepens. For this reason I make sure she's pretty turned on (usually with oral) - then start with shallow rocking motions (we only use the larger ball vaginally).

As things progress the penetration becomes a little deeper - but one needs to be careful - even though there is not pain during play - if I am too aggressive, her cervix can hurt a little. She concedes 'it hurts so good'.

Enjoy this remarkable toy!

for backdoor pleasure, lie on your side, use your thighs to hold onto one of the ends, and then use hump motion. this allows your to control the depth and speed of the penetration with how fast and how deep you hump.

When using it on my wife, besides rocking I also like to do back and forth sweeping motions so that I don't get the head caught on her pubic bone. And try using both ends, they create different sensations.

I just ordered mine. Of course I HAD to have one. I have to wait two more days till it gets here. Argh.

I'll be back here to share any wisdom I pick up from it.

Congratulations! I hope you enjoy your introduction to stainless steel.

Lot of good ideas here, I'll just add one. Try a windshield wiper motion, let the entrance to your vagina/anus act as a pivot point and stroke the spot from side to side. My favorite for P-spot stimulation, I am sure it could work good for G-spot stimulation as well.

Thanks for all of the tips! I'm sooo excited it should arrive tomorrow...

It's here, it's here! I blew off a ton of work to pick it up and use it!