If you're looking for something girthy, still not realistic, I'd recommend you one fo these guys: Mio, Tiger or O2 Cush. less

Can I ask what level of size/penetration you're at now normally? Stretching is something that definitely needs to be done in stages, so for instance if you use small sizes now or just focus mainly on clit pleasure, you don't want to go straight to some big toy that's supposedly designed for stretching. You could help her stretch just by taking a step up, like a medium sized dildo.

If you're already pretty far along tho and you feel like you're ready to take the plunge, personally I'd just practice with the real thing. You don't really have to get all the way there on the first (or tenth) try, and you can have plenty of fun working up to it and still giving her the thrill of trying and having various amounts of you inside her.

I'm not much into fisting myself but I use a lot of big dilos on women (usually strapons - funny how no one likes a small dick when they have a choice ) and so I understand the special thrill of toy play. It doesn't really matter what you use as long as the size is right tho (aside from body-safe materials etc.), so I'm sure the EF peeps here can suggest lots of fun stuff. You could even go grocery shopping for a special twist if you know what I mean. The produce section takes on new meaning when grocery shopping becomes sex toy shopping, and it's easy to upgrade. less

You're more than welcome

Probably you'd like to share your experience once you've tried the Mio or any other big dildo? Do you know about the Review Program we're running on EdenFantasys? less

Can I ask what level of size/penetration you're at now normally? Stretching is something that definitely needs to be done in stages, so for instance if you use small sizes now or just focus mainly on clit pleasure, you don't want to go straight to some big toy that's supposedly designed for stretching. You could help her stretch just by taking a step up, like a medium sized dildo.

If you're already pretty far along tho and you feel like you're ready to take the plunge, personally I'd just practice with the real thing. You don't really have to get all the way there on the first (or tenth) try, and you can have plenty of fun working up to it and still giving her the thrill of trying and having various amounts of you inside her.

I'm not much into fisting myself but I use a lot of big dilos on women (usually strapons - funny how no one likes a small dick when they have a choice ) and so I understand the special thrill of toy play. It doesn't really matter what you use as long as the size is right tho (aside from body-safe materials etc.), so I'm sure the EF peeps here can suggest lots of fun stuff. You could even go grocery shopping for a special twist if you know what I mean. The produce section takes on new meaning when grocery shopping becomes sex toy shopping, and it's easy to upgrade. less

We're definitely on the work up. I have very small hands and while two fingers are welcome pretty much right off the bat the third is definitely a work up to. As I said in my original post - we are definitely not looking into this has a race! Even if this doesn't end up being pleasurably possible - the idea of being 'THAT' full is arousing no matter how many digits that takes.

I'm honestly glad that there isn't a specific toy out there for this kind of thing! When I couldn't find one myself I thought I had to be crazy - there's one of everything out there. But we have 0 qualms about buying a measuring cup-esk set of dildos and working up the line up.

I think we both actually enjoy me using my own hand. Not only does it have a far more personal touch but I feel like once we do work up it's almost as if your starting with the right shape to begin with? If that makes sense. However, in a pinch, I'm ready to fight someone for the biggest carrot.

Thanks! less