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When I first began masturbating, I didn't have a "goal" of where I was trying to get. I started with rubbing on my clitoris and this felt good, so I continued to do so with variations in movements. I would say to focus on getting to
When I first began masturbating, I didn't have a "goal" of where I was trying to get. I started with rubbing on my clitoris and this felt good, so I continued to do so with variations in movements. I would say to focus on getting to know what feels good to you instead of trying to get somewhere with it.
Like many other people have said, I would suggest a nice clitoral vibe for experimenting at this stage. I would say go with something cheaper while you are still trying to figure out what you like
This is great advice. Just get to know your body. This includes what feels good to your breasts, your thighs, your rear, and other erogenous zones. I would say that, unless you are very aroused and very wet, to explore your vaginal area with lubricant. If you're not adequately lubricated, it won't feel as good. Don't just focus on your clit, however. Focus ALSO on your labia and touch the whole of your vulva. You might be surprised how good this feels.
Inexpensive clitoral vibrators that I would recommend (and have tried):
Expensive Clitoral vibe I would HIGHLY recommend:
And I recommend it for a beginner because it goes from a very low rumble to a very intense vibration and has patterns. It's silicone, so you can disinfect it and that frees you up to trying it stimulate different areas of your body (however, do not
insert this anally).
I haven't tried this one, and it's a little pricey, but not too bad:
Some inexpensive ones I would recommend but have NOT tried (I'm recommending because they seem intriguing to me):