I would like to know as well.

I'm curious. I guess it would be something pretty close to the feel of a real cock? Maybe avoiding a strong odor?

I do jaw exercises and I also practiced on cucumbers and bananas when I was learning.

As far as the exercises that I do, I open my mouth really wide and just move my jaw back and forth to make it loose. That way my jaw won't lock up on me. I do this a few times a day on a daily basis.

Also, when you practice, it's best if you stick your tongue out all the way to allow the cucumber or banana to go further down your throat. While sticking the tongue out, grasp it around the shaft, don't just let it hang there. You could even use a dildo to practice on as well.

Another thing that helped me learn is giving BJs while laying on my back with my head hanging off the bed upside down. I grab his ass and I move his hips back and forth so that it's me doing the penetrating. Once you get the hang of it you can let him do the penetrating.

Let me know if you need any more tips! I absolutely love giving head and I love helping others get better at it!

Also, are you a member of the porn club? One of our assignments this month was Jessica Drake's Guide to Wicked Sex: Fellatio and it had some great tips on how to give great blow jobs.

I also recommend watching Bobbi Starr give a BJ. She is amazing at deep throating. Her enthusiasm is amazing. She gives BJs a lot like I do. She is in this video as well.

Now I'm gonna go look for some good toys to recommend practicing on... lol... BRB!

What you want to look for is a dildo that is realistic and average sized. Or, if you only have one partner get one that is closest to their size so you will be learn how to do it the best way for your partner. Penis sizes and shapes range so much. That's why I said if you have one partner, get the one most like him. But if you have multiple partners you want to use an average size so that you can at least be used to an average sized penis.

This would be a good one to practice on because it is an average sized penis. It's also priced very reasonably.

This is another good one to practice on because of the shape of it. You could practice hanging your head off the bed like I explained earlier. Men LOVE this position especially when they can penetrate you and fuck your mouth. It's also very reasonably priced.

If you want a dildo to feel the most like a real cock, I would recommend this one. It's cyberskin and will be the most life like dildo you can find. This one is average sized and would be great to learn on and have the realest feel of all.

There are many more, but this would give you a general idea of what to look for. I hope this helps!!

The only think I've used is a penis. I mean, it helps to practice with the real thing but don't push yourself too much or too far.

Other than that.. I have used Big Sticks before, the popsicle, but it's so cold it chilled my throat and I got brain freeze
It was delicious though!

Frozen banana. Peeled, of course.

I invested in an O2 Adam (my guy is in between that size and the Mark, and I wanted something I could stick into my Wing without losing a lot of the practicing length). I like silicone, and I enjoy it for use other than practicing deep throating. I was mainly worried about the toy not having a scent while still being pretty close to the same squishiness... It works very well (especially when being held firmly in the Wing!)

As Ms. Indulgence said, breathing and relaxing are definitely key.