What would you suggest as a first toy for squirting?

Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Well, I must admit that I am feeling pretty damned shy just tossing the topic in without any products to choose from, and though I have heard about a few dildos what are usable but...

I am more of a vibe lover, especially rabbit vibes, though of course I am open to traditional vibes too, and dildos as well, so I really have no idea if the provenly working metal dildos would work for me, if I would need a vibe, and if a clitoral vibe can be used (I much more prefer to enjoy one too instead of internal pleasures only) - so I just really wonder if it is really like "being written into concrete" that you have to have a G-spot dildo, on the top of that a slim steel dildo maybe, which aren't as appealing to me as more average sizes... (Like 1 1/2 inches diameter...)

Any suggestions or notes on the topic? ~lays ears shy
02/29/2012
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife learned to squirt using the Pure Wand - after figuring it out she has done it with many toys including her favorite Vixskin Johnny. She needs deep stimulation in an area referred to the A-spot - where the vagina and cervix meet. You may want to read about it (just google a-spot).

Enjoy the journey - what's the worst that can happen? You have an orgasm without squirting - still fun right!

BTW - my wife calls it gushing because there is no projectile 'squirting' like a guy or in porn. For her its a rush of hot fluid way beyond normal lubrication.
03/01/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
Some women do projectile squirt, while others gush and some do both. The pure wand seems to be a popular toy for learning to female ejaculate. I've also heard good things about the G-Ki vibe. I've also read some of the reviews about the wooden g-spot dildos being good for that also. A good friend of mine said she would squirt A LOT with the Lelo Soraya because it went so deep and curved at just the right angle for her. The glass Bent Graduate also seems to be a popular one for this. It seems that the slender, firm, pin point pressure is what generally works but doesn't seem to be a firm rule for all bodies. As with most things, it depends on your body. The most common denominator seems to be the firm materials or a silicone skin over a firm body. I haven't really heard a lot of people having luck with soft silicone toys. I haven't found a toy that makes me squirt, just reporting what I've read or what has worked for people I know. Fisting makes me gush a lot, and some girls have been able to elicit a similar reaction with fingers, but I haven't found a toy that accomplishes that.
03/01/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
The ella is pretty good. And it wont break your checkbook.
03/02/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
The Bent Graduate got me my first really soaking wet squirt. (Like through my blanket, comforter and next blanket.) So I vouch for that one. LOL The Amethyst is basically the same, so whichever one is in stock.
03/02/2012
Contributor: firefly1330 firefly1330
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My wife learned to squirt using the Pure Wand - after figuring it out she has done it with many toys including her favorite Vixskin Johnny. She needs deep stimulation in an area referred to the A-spot - where the vagina and cervix meet. You may want ... more
This is good to know - I have been eyeing the Pure Wand for awhile. I think you have made up my mind knowing that it worked wonders for her! Thank you!
03/04/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Definitely the curved, rigid toys you can use for pressure.
03/11/2012