My wife learned to squirt using the Pure Wand - after figuring it out she has done it with many toys including her favorite Vixskin Johnny. She needs deep stimulation in an area referred to the A-spot - where the vagina and cervix meet. You may want to read about it (just google a-spot).

Enjoy the journey - what's the worst that can happen? You have an orgasm without squirting - still fun right!

BTW - my wife calls it gushing because there is no projectile 'squirting' like a guy or in porn. For her its a rush of hot fluid way beyond normal lubrication.

Some women do projectile squirt, while others gush and some do both. The pure wand seems to be a popular toy for learning to female ejaculate. I've also heard good things about the G-Ki vibe. I've also read some of the reviews about the wooden g-spot dildos being good for that also. A good friend of mine said she would squirt A LOT with the Lelo Soraya because it went so deep and curved at just the right angle for her. The glass Bent Graduate also seems to be a popular one for this. It seems that the slender, firm, pin point pressure is what generally works but doesn't seem to be a firm rule for all bodies. As with most things, it depends on your body. The most common denominator seems to be the firm materials or a silicone skin over a firm body. I haven't really heard a lot of people having luck with soft silicone toys. I haven't found a toy that makes me squirt, just reporting what I've read or what has worked for people I know. Fisting makes me gush a lot, and some girls have been able to elicit a similar reaction with fingers, but I haven't found a toy that accomplishes that.

The ella is pretty good. And it wont break your checkbook.

The Bent Graduate got me my first really soaking wet squirt. (Like through my blanket, comforter and next blanket.) So I vouch for that one. LOL The Amethyst is basically the same, so whichever one is in stock.

Definitely the curved, rigid toys you can use for pressure.