Do you tell your partner?

Do you tell your partner?

Waterfall Waterfall
Waterfall
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For all of you in a relationship, does your partner know about your sex toy use?
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
07/26/2010
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Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by Waterfall
For all of you in a relationship, does your partner know about your sex toy use?
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
Mine knows, and while I wasn't reviewing while I was with exes, they knew about the 1 or 2 toys I did have.
07/26/2010
Blinker Blinker
My owner not only knows but encourages me to get them. He has pciked some out for me and for both of us to use. He really loves that I review sex toys and he tells all his friends.
07/26/2010
scissormetimbers scissormetimbers
Quote:
Originally posted by Waterfall
For all of you in a relationship, does your partner know about your sex toy use?
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
My boyfriend actually introduced me to EF's review program =]
07/26/2010
Waterfall Waterfall
I feel like if you are in a healty relationship, then this should be the norm (being able to talk to your partner about this). I find it weird that some of my friends have partners who don't approve of this...
07/26/2010
Sammi Sammi
Mine knows . He's a bit amazed at the number of boxes that come to the house, but he thinks it's great and has no problems with them.
07/26/2010
Ciao. Ciao.
She definitely knows and has...ummm....benefite d from my work here in a number of ways
07/26/2010
Jenna.J.Ross Jenna.J.Ross
Mine knows and totally supports it he gets very excited each time a new toy arrives he also likes to help me pick them out as well.
07/26/2010
Darling Jen Darling Jen
Quote:
Originally posted by Waterfall
For all of you in a relationship, does your partner know about your sex toy use?
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
Aw that's sad when a partner doesn't encourage play and exploration. If you can't get support from your partner, then who can you get it from? I hope your friends' partners learn to relax and maybe open up a little. They could find they really like it!

But yes, my partner does know. While not sharing my level of enthusiasm, he does like playing with the toys too and finds my obsession with them endearing.
07/26/2010
lil ladybug lil ladybug
Mine knows as well and looks forward to testing them out with me. He asked me the other day if anyone else knew and I told him no, he said "cool, we have a little secret" lol
07/26/2010
Tuesday Tuesday
Mine knows and is amused. I don't think he realizes how large my toy collection is though.
07/26/2010
fishytwo fishytwo
Mine knows, and is very excited about them. I think he is more excited about my toys than I am. His interest is very encouraging to me, and I am so thankful for his support.
07/26/2010
fishytwo fishytwo
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Originally posted by lil ladybug
Mine knows as well and looks forward to testing them out with me. He asked me the other day if anyone else knew and I told him no, he said "cool, we have a little secret" lol
Awe that's adorable! Love it.
07/26/2010
PolyGirl PolyGirl
I'm poly. Any partner I have in my bedroom is likely to know there are toys in the side chest and the Hitachi is always in arm's reach. Most have played with something with me at some time. If someone seems less than comfortable, I just don't open the drawers with things that might intimidate them.

If a guy really had a hangup about it, he probably wouldn't be around for long.

Oth, seems like me and my girlfriends always end up talking about and comparing toys.
07/26/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Quote:
Originally posted by Waterfall
For all of you in a relationship, does your partner know about your sex toy use?
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
Yup! He knows everything. I don't have to hide anything from him.
07/27/2010
TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
Mine knows. It would be really hard to hide it with the size of my collection and the amount of packages I get!!! I couldn't be with someone who was insecure about that or didn't like it.
07/27/2010
Sir Sir
Yes, of course!
07/27/2010
Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
Mine knows, and enjoys it when we get new toys! I don't think I'd be able to be in a relationship with someone that would try to limit me in any way.
07/27/2010
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
Well if he doesn't then we're both in trouble. LOL!!
07/27/2010
Miss B Haven Miss B Haven
My hubs knows everything and is very supportive of my hobby. He really enjoys trying new things with me
07/27/2010
joja joja
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Originally posted by Jessica Elizabeth
Mine knows, and enjoys it when we get new toys! I don't think I'd be able to be in a relationship with someone that would try to limit me in any way.
What a great way of putting it!
07/27/2010
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Yes! He loves it and has toys of his own now. My ex-husband didn't approve though and it was a HUGE issue between us.
07/27/2010
sexysweetieshan sexysweetieshan
Yes, my hubby knows. He helps me choose new toys and shops with me for them! He usually buys magazines or dvds when I get new toys! And he loves using them on me.
07/27/2010
Lustful Dreams Lustful Dreams
My fiance knows everything and anything I do when it comes to sex toys. He gets a great thrill out of it especially being able to watch the action go on. I really don't think I'd be able to be in a relationship with someone who didn't approve of what I was interested in - or made it a difficulty because he didn't approve. You can disagree with what I'm doing, but do not make me stop nor make it difficult for me because of the choices I made.
07/27/2010
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My husband is the one who got me into toys in the first place. So yes he knows about all of them.
07/27/2010
fatesrelease fatesrelease
Jonathan and I always shop for the toys together and are together when we get them. It's fun for both of us!
07/27/2010
seaofneptune seaofneptune
My partner knows and he doesn't mind at all. He actually bought me my very first sex toy! We even go to sex toy shops together. I love it and he loves it and he likes to see my reactions over some of them. We look at them as something we can use together at times too. I've even picked some toys for him to use or for me to use on him.
07/27/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
I got Cyn her first toy and she introduced me to Eden.
07/27/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
Quote:
Originally posted by Waterfall
I feel like if you are in a healty relationship, then this should be the norm (being able to talk to your partner about this). I find it weird that some of my friends have partners who don't approve of this...
Then their partner's have security issues: feeling that they are being replaced by toys, etc.. That's a shame because my partner encourages me to use toys if they make our sex life better. Some women cannot come without the aid of a toy, what kind of partner would want to deprive her of that?

I dated a man once who was jealous of toys, said they would desensitize me from his touch. If it weren't for those toys and exploring, I wouldn't have been able to hop on his cock, toy free, and have a great orgasm. He was dumped anyhow, too selfish for me.
07/27/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Our toys are used about 98% of the time for partner play. I wouldn't mind if she used them more in my absence - she just prefers it when I 'drive'!
07/27/2010
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