Yep, my bf knows, and I have bought him his own toys. He loves it and was going to suggest I try to get into toys when I could never have orgasms. They gave me my first one at 21.
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Do you tell your partner?
07/27/2010
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We use them together, and neither one of us minds if the other masturbates with or without toys. My Man has bought at least half of our sex toys and bought me my first one years ago, when I thought I "liked skin only." I was wrong, I LOVE skin, but toys also can add to the experience a lot.
Originally posted by
Waterfall
For all of you in a relationship, does your partner know about your sex toy use?
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
I think I would re-evaluate a relationship with a partner where one would feel one would have to hide something like sex toys, and also evaluate what one partner and oneself have in common.
07/27/2010
Oh Yes! Sex toys are always more exciting with a partner, at least for me!
07/29/2010
My partner knows alllll about my toys-- and he had some of his own long before I came along! We both enjoy toys for solo and partner use.
07/29/2010
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Yep he knows, why cant he. We share a home togther, we share a marrige together, we share are love for eachother. All that includes being completly open with eachother. Or at least thats what I think.
Originally posted by
Waterfall
For all of you in a relationship, does your partner know about your sex toy use?
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
07/30/2010
Mine knows. I can't imagine having to hide something like that from a partner!
I was talking to another guy about reviewing toys once, and he said that he didn't think he would want toys to be used on him, but would have no problem with me or anyone else using them (Especially if he could watch!)
I was talking to another guy about reviewing toys once, and he said that he didn't think he would want toys to be used on him, but would have no problem with me or anyone else using them (Especially if he could watch!)
07/30/2010
psjim2007
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I wish I could say something, considering the fact that we haven't had sex in about 6 months. But he thinks that having toys is a way of cheating for some odd reason. I can't be open with him about my sexual desires.
Originally posted by
Waterfall
For all of you in a relationship, does your partner know about your sex toy use?
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
09/16/2010
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I find that pretty sad - your avitar kind of metaphorically says it all - one wine glass is half full - the other nearly empty. I wish I could give you some advice - all I can say is good luck.
Originally posted by
psjim2007
I wish I could say something, considering the fact that we haven't had sex in about 6 months. But he thinks that having toys is a way of cheating for some odd reason. I can't be open with him about my sexual desires.
09/16/2010
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Mine knows... I like using them with him rather than alone...
Originally posted by
Waterfall
For all of you in a relationship, does your partner know about your sex toy use?
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
09/16/2010
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I can't imagine my guys not knowing about my toys...they don't have a problem with them but they do have a problem sometimes witht he amount of time I spend on the site
Originally posted by
Waterfall
For all of you in a relationship, does your partner know about your sex toy use?
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
09/16/2010
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Shhhhh Alan might find out and disapprove or something!
Originally posted by
Alan & Michele
Well if he doesn't then we're both in trouble. LOL!!
09/16/2010
Mine knows, approves, and encourages lol.
09/16/2010
my wife makes sure i know. every new toy gets a run way style show off.
09/16/2010
Not only does she know, she helps.
09/16/2010
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My girlfriend knows, we share toys, I think there are less insecurities when it comes to lesbians.
Originally posted by
Waterfall
For all of you in a relationship, does your partner know about your sex toy use?
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
Just wondering because I have a few friends who have partners who don't really approve of them using toys
09/17/2010
hes fully aware. i tend to use them at night time when were in bed. hes sleepiin. im playing.
09/21/2010
My wife knows and is the test subject for some female specific items. I live in the campus apartments and the office workers ask questions about the number of packages I get, but that adds some excitement because it's like I'm sneaking it by them.
09/22/2010
After my wife told me she wasn't interested in sex due to menopause, I naturally started to masturbate by hand. This got old quick and I started looking at masturbators online. I showed her the Head Honcho I wanted to buy and she ok'd it. Our sex life has improved because she doesn't feel obligated.
09/22/2010
Yes, she knows all my naughty little secrets.
09/22/2010
My boyfriend knows I have sex toys, but he does not play with me. He says I am in my own little toy land
10/11/2010
At the moment, we are in a long-distance relationship, so toys are an important component of our relationship on both sides. We also love them when we play together.
10/11/2010
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Same.
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
Yup! He knows everything. I don't have to hide anything from him.
He knows and I sometimes show him items I'm reviewing and he likes to read it.
10/11/2010
He knows and approves because they help me acheive orgasm but otherwise he doesn't care for them. He doesn't want me to get more than I need. He would rather I get lingerie than more toys but I'm not complaining, I love lingerie!
10/11/2010
Yep, he sure does, we use them together and apart.
10/11/2010
I usually tell them.....some I wait longer than others. I've had some freak out saying that the toy replaced him, ect. Some thought it was really hot and like to watch me use it before he jumped in
04/11/2011
My guy knows about them. He thinks it's funny that I'm so excited about them . Of course, we're long distance, so he's not constantly competing...?
04/11/2011
Yep - he definitely knows and is just fine with it!
04/11/2011
When I bought my first glass dildo about 4 years ago, I was kinda embarrassed to use it in front of him, so the toy always sits in the closet. For the past 2 years, I've been buying a few more silicone toys that I really like, I was brave enough to ask him to use them on me during foreplay.
04/17/2011
He knows and does not care
04/17/2011
he knows, and plays too!
04/18/2011