Do you tell your partner?

Yes he knows, he likes me to use them in front of him to see.

Since we use them together, as well as solo, we are both aware. Kind of hard to hide a fleshlight that is drying out after cleaning

Mine knows and I only use them with him, or actually HE only uses them on me. I don't care to do it alone. Also, I'd never keep that a secret, I'd feel like something was wrong if I felt I had to hide it. If their men are not "Approving" they could always leave instead of keeping secrets. Or maybe find out why the BF's are not approving. I can be understanding to a man being insecure or needing to be reassured. I mean, I can see how some men may not be used to it or fully educated on why women use them and maybe they don't know that it can be an experience for them. However, I would just stop if my partner was that uncomfortable. I have my own things that wouldn't make me so comfortable so I'd certainly think it should be taken care of and talked over.

Mine does.
He wanted me to start using them when we first got together, and I don't know what's changed but now that I do he seems insecure about it, that they'll replace him or he won't be able to get me off anymore. So I try not to use them too often and show him that I still love our sex so hopefully he'll be more accepting of me using them when he's not around for days.

Yep, he knows. He's the one who introduced me to them.

We always use toys together, in fact for our anniversary recently, he bought me a very expensive rabbit from the Vanity by Jopen collection. I rarely use my toys by myself, pretty much exclusively use them with him.

If I had a partner I'd tell him, though perhaps not right away. I'd love to be lucky enough to find someone who'd enjoy using toys together.

My boyfriend uses them on me (:

Yes We use them together!!

Yes. He knows everything. If I had to hide it from him, I'd think it was time for a discussion. I know some men are uncomfortable with toys and they can be intimidating or make them feel like they aren't enough. In those cases, it should be discussed. I think too many people get the wrong idea of what toys are. For us they're just a fun way to add to forplay. He uses them on me and we both enjoy it. But if he started feeling threatened, I'd have to talk it out and I don't think toys are usually a 'replacement' I don't know, some are. I've heard men refer to the pocket pussies and things as a replacement and I don't like the word or idea "replacement" toys shouldn't be used to replace an actual human being, but they are wonderful for fun, enhancing play or when you're in need and you don't have another way to fulfill it. I think that's probably the reason most men dont "approve" As long as both parties are making an effort, great sex can be achieved and if you're open and honest about what you like and both of you are comfortable with what you do in the bed then replacements shouldn't be needed when you're partner is right next to you. Most people just don't understand that unless it's talked about.

I would never hide what I enjoy and my partner wants me to tell him what I like. Every time we're intimate he wants to make it "the best" so that makes a huge difference. If he did feel left out or that my toys were replacing him or pleased me better than he does I would make sure he knew and I wouldn't mind cutting back on my use if that was the case, until he was comfortable. I wouldn't write men off for their feeling jealous over toys unless they just did not want to work through it. As long as you include them, share the fun and let them use the toys on you, they usually turn out to be very satisfied with the toys themselves. Getting to use them on you is a huge part of the fun. I get that some men just don't want anything to please their partner but them and if he was just being selfish about it and didn't care that it added fun to my pleasure then I don't see myself finding him to be very generous in any area of the relationship.

he knows everything, I wouldn't want to hide anything from him.

Yes

My last partner and I used some together and knew about the ones I use by myself.

My husband knows but not the details. He seems like he is okay with it but not in love with the idea. Bottom line he knows and accepts it. I only told him what I needed to. He knows me and knows he works long hours plus our toddler in the mix. I also made sure he understood that it wasn't him doing anything wrong. But that he was doing it so well and he isn't around all the time...