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Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)


Temperature play includes a wide variety of sexual acts - everything from blowing cool air and using ice cubes on sensitive areas to playing with fire.

I currently own a couple of glass toys and I really enjoy using them chilled. Sometimes I even add a tingling lubricant for better sensations.

How about you? Do you like your dildos to be hot or cold? What is your overall attitude to temperature play, guys?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Lena Eden , louise83 , Patty Matthes , kandy anjel
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Gunsmoke , DancerKittyKat , KinkNoShame , Equal Tongue Action , La Bachatera , Stellar , sXeVegan90 , jack man , CharmCity , chidoll , Rufina , ReverieReviews , gikki , LovelyGirl93 , luxlovley , LittleButterfly , Soundside46 , Live-love-laugh , tonnygoal , spnkegrl
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symbiasin , minstrel69
2
OH&W, Lovebears , chidoll , gikki
3
Lena Eden , La Bachatera , sXeVegan90 , Trueredheadaz , CharmCity , OH&W, Lovebears , chidoll , gikki , luxlovley , hiddenmix006 , VelvetNoir88
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Total votes: 40 (30 voters)
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Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
When you asked "guys" we assume you mean all us members,gals and guys.
OW prefers close to body temperature. OH prefers chilled.
06/30/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Temperature play for us is a summer activity. This time of the year we get out the glass and metal toys that have 'rested' most of the winter. The cool feel of glass or steel is sufficient - no refrigerators necessary.

Although when it gets really steamy - an ice cube in the mouth makes for a fun oral surprise.
06/30/2017
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
When you asked "guys" we assume you mean all us members,gals and guys.
OW prefers close to body temperature. OH prefers chilled.
I like close to body temp. too.
07/01/2017
Contributor: Equal Tongue Action Equal Tongue Action
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden


Temperature play includes a wide variety of sexual acts - everything from blowing cool air and using ice cubes on sensitive areas to playing with fire.

I currently own a couple of glass toys and I really enjoy using them chilled. ... more
The insertion of an ice cube in my vagina, followed by a vibrating dildo. Exquisite sexual sensation.
07/04/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Equal Tongue Action
The insertion of an ice cube in my vagina, followed by a vibrating dildo. Exquisite sexual sensation.
Ewow, sounds so chilling and exciting
07/04/2017
Contributor: La Bachatera La Bachatera
I only like temperature play when it's cold. For me, it provides a pleasant shock to the system. However, I hate anything involving extra heat (with the exceptions of erotic massage, or sex in a hot tub.) For the most part, I find temperature play involving heat a serious turn-off, but involving cold a serious turn on.

I have been enjoying using chilled glass dildos,and would like to try some cold metal butt plugs.
07/05/2017
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
As Gunsmoke mentioned, it's usually a summer activity for my partner and I as well. Living in the South, something cool to the touch adds that electrifying shock and recharge of the senses. A cool to the touch toy made from glass or metal always feels delicious.
07/05/2017
Contributor: Trueredheadaz Trueredheadaz
When I was young I would put a spoon in the fridge then rub it on my clit. I love cold metal on my pussy
07/05/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by Trueredheadaz
When I was young I would put a spoon in the fridge then rub it on my clit. I love cold metal on my pussy
And you did use lube..didn't you?
07/05/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by La Bachatera
I only like temperature play when it's cold. For me, it provides a pleasant shock to the system. However, I hate anything involving extra heat (with the exceptions of erotic massage, or sex in a hot tub.) For the most part, I find temperature ... more
We'll had sex in a spa in the moonlight before. However not on the surging waters. She afraid of germs getting pushed in. Doing it on top caused water to splash everywhere. So now we do in in the shower instead.

I love the cold hard steel of my njoy. Of course its not before long it warms up. Absorbs your body heat.
07/06/2017
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
I've never tried it, but I am interested. I think I'd be into cold because of the initial shock to the body. seems like it would be fun. Have to keep you all updated on that one...
07/27/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by AmethystQueen
I've never tried it, but I am interested. I think I'd be into cold because of the initial shock to the body. seems like it would be fun. Have to keep you all updated on that one...
Do you have glass or metal toys in your toy chest?

If not, you can start with an ice cube with the hot tongue after.
07/28/2017
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Do you have glass or metal toys in your toy chest?

If not, you can start with an ice cube with the hot tongue after.
I have some glass pieces. Just never really thought to put them in the fridge or freezer. Guess the idea of others in our household finding it threw me off the idea. We really need a fridge/freezer in our room....

I think I'm scared the frozen anal probes will stick to me somehow (like your tongue on a pole in winter ).
07/28/2017
Contributor: kandy anjel kandy anjel
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden


Temperature play includes a wide variety of sexual acts - everything from blowing cool air and using ice cubes on sensitive areas to playing with fire.

I currently own a couple of glass toys and I really enjoy using them chilled. ... more
I recently got into temperature play and omg i absolutely love it. I havent found anything that turns me on more than this!
08/07/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by AmethystQueen
I have some glass pieces. Just never really thought to put them in the fridge or freezer. Guess the idea of others in our household finding it threw me off the idea. We really need a fridge/freezer in our room....

I think I'm scared the ... more
Lube. lube. lube
08/07/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by kandy anjel
I recently got into temperature play and omg i absolutely love it. I havent found anything that turns me on more than this!
Do you like it to be hot or cold?
08/07/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I m thinking for vag, warm. For anal: chilled.
Does anyone agree
08/07/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I m thinking for vag, warm. For anal: chilled.
Does anyone agree
No - especially in the summer, my wife likes the cold feel of glass or the PureWand - even Eleven vaginally. It doesn't take long for her to heat things up - but the cold sensation on a hot day works best for her.

As for cold anal - I'm Ok with it for much the same reasons my wife likes it vaginally.
08/07/2017
Contributor: gikki gikki
I like cold glass and metal occasionally. Ice cubes are fun

I love, love, love hot wax. Love.

Just depends on my mood.
10/19/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by gikki
I like cold glass and metal occasionally. Ice cubes are fun

I love, love, love hot wax. Love.

Just depends on my mood.
So with me. When it comes to toys I love them being cold. At the same time, hot wax is what turns me on so much during foreplay. Am I a light BDSM lover??
10/23/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
So with me. When it comes to toys I love them being cold. At the same time, hot wax is what turns me on so much during foreplay. Am I a light BDSM lover??
I've toyed with the idea of wax play - but haven't figured out how to do it right.

Any advice is appreciated!

What kind of wax?
Where does it work without excessive pain?
What areas to avoid?

Inquiring minds want to know
10/23/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I've toyed with the idea of wax play - but haven't figured out how to do it right.

Any advice is appreciated!

What kind of wax?
Where does it work without excessive pain?
What areas to avoid?

Inquiring minds ... more
We usually play with candle wax. I love the Dona product. Made of soy wax, it lets you tease each other in many different ways: from hot drops on your neck, nipples, and belly to gentle massage of the most sensitive zones of your body.

Though, I think if you're not really into BDSM play, you probably shouldn't drop wax on the nipples or genitalia.
10/24/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
We usually play with candle wax. I love the Dona product. Made of soy wax, it lets you tease each other in many different ways: from hot drops on your neck, nipples, and belly to gentle massage of the most sensitive zones of your body. Though, I ... more
Thanks - I know soy candles are better because they melt at lower temperatures - but my wife has this thing about avoiding soy products - so I may have to shop around.

As for BDSM - we're D/s, so I'd enjoy her using the candle wax on me - gentiles, et. al.
10/24/2017
Contributor: 2ruredhead69 2ruredhead69
I am a huge fan of cold play.... I love putting my glass toys in the freezer for just a couple minutes or leave them in some ice water until I want to use it.
10/18/2018
Contributor: Live-love-laugh Live-love-laugh
I enjoy cold play more so that hot, but I'm open. I like the cooling, tingling sensation. I've recently gotten my first glass dildo and it's really added to the experience.
12/15/2018
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden


Temperature play includes a wide variety of sexual acts - everything from blowing cool air and using ice cubes on sensitive areas to playing with fire.

I currently own a couple of glass toys and I really enjoy using them chilled. ... more
I prefer hot over cold but I like both.
07/07/2020
Contributor: VelvetNoir88 VelvetNoir88
I love cold! It's my favorite. I have a vibrator that warms up and it's so nice. I like both I guess.
07/08/2020