Do you tell your partner about your EF Order, or do you surprise them?

Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Always a surprise
6  (11%)
Sometimes I surprise them
36  (67%)
I spill the beans every time!
12  (22%)
Total votes: 54
Poll is closed
03/28/2012
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Contributor: JessCee JessCee
I try to surprise... but I end up telling him every time!!
03/28/2012
Contributor: Breas Breas
Sometimes it's a surprise.. but rarely because I get too excited and end up telling him lol
03/28/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife never knows until it's either inside of her or buzzing on her clit!
03/28/2012
Contributor: funluvinmama funluvinmama
I show him things I want and tell him I got something coming but I don't tell him what it is until I receive it.
03/28/2012
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I sometimes mention I'm waiting on a package but I usually don't disclose what's in it
03/28/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
He refuses to let me tell him if it's something I've ordered on my own. But, push and DR assignments I get to squee over until they arrive!
03/28/2012
Contributor: ladychristie ladychristie
I say I'm not going to tell him but I always end up telling him
03/28/2012
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
I tell him if it's something normal, but if it's something for us I usually don't!
03/28/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I'll let him know I've ordered something, some won't elaborate on the details.
03/28/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
I let her know that something is coming in the mail for me soon and that is usually all she wants to know.
03/28/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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Usually I tell him and describe it. I get excited. Lol. There's been a time or two that I bought some things to surprise him with
03/28/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I only tell her when it's for her (like lingerie), most of them are for me so I just let her see them when they come. A few I hinted to her about and then surprised her when we were getting it on.
03/28/2012
Contributor: Ms. N Ms. N
Sometimes, he even helps pick it out (if it is lingerie).
03/28/2012
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Sometimes I leave it a suprise, but alot of time my boyfriend helps or I'll just let him pick.
03/28/2012
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
He handles the money since I am a stay at home mom, so he always knows when I'm placing an order, but not always what I'm getting.
03/28/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
My Baby is the toy freak so I let her make all the orders. And she surprises me with something all the time...
03/28/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
I just can't keep it a secret. I guess I just get too excited.
03/29/2012
Contributor: jmex83 jmex83
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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my wife and i usually place our orders together, or go through everything to make sure we both get something we like, so most of the time its no surprise. besides, when she places an order, she is so freakin' crazy about waiting for it, she ends up telling me cause she is so excited lol
03/29/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
It depends on what the order contains. Usually, we discuss everything that's going to be coming. The last couple of packages, however, have included some surprises.

One I threw in an extra set of lingerie for myself (that we had picked out together some time previous) as a surprise. And the last one we had picked out several items of male lingerie that we both liked, and I threw in an extra one (that we both liked) without telling him.

I think those are the only 2 times I've tried to keep something secret and surprise him, because we almost always shop here together.
03/29/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
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Originally posted by jmex83
my wife and i usually place our orders together, or go through everything to make sure we both get something we like, so most of the time its no surprise. besides, when she places an order, she is so freakin' crazy about waiting for it, she ends ... more
lmao what Jmex said! Although, there was a few times that I purchased items for HIM that I wanted to surprise him with...Its rare that he gets anything that is just for him. Got him some of those silk pants
03/29/2012
Contributor: wildorchid wildorchid
I've only ordered twice and they've both been assignments. I told him about the first one. But I've decided to keep the second order a secret because I ordered some other things as well! Ooooo I hate waiting!
03/29/2012
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
My owner has a general idea of what I'm getting. But then I like to surprise her!
03/29/2012
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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Sometimes I surprise them
04/03/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
I'll surprise them if I can, but usually I just get excited then end up forgetting it's supposed to be a secret.
04/03/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I can't resist telling him what I got and when it's supposed to arrive.
04/05/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I try not to tell him! But it's so hard!
04/05/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
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I like to surprise them, because then they don't have any expectations they are just excited and we use it together right away
04/05/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
anything we can use together i will tell him, but if i ever order a dildo, i dont think i will xD ill be too embarrassed!
04/05/2012
Contributor: Peaches2000 Peaches2000
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I think that it depends on what the order is for. If its a big event, such as a b-day or anniversary...totally surprise them. If its just an everyday thing, totally tell them to increase the anticipation!!
04/06/2012