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Lisset Finnien
Yup I’m in my 40’s and menopausal. I believe, but I’ve never been tested, that I have and always have had a higher testosterone level. I’m not on anything for menopause.
I know what a gspot orgasm is, havent had one as if yet...it’s a project
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Yup I’m in my 40’s and menopausal. I believe, but I’ve never been tested, that I have and always have had a higher testosterone level. I’m not on anything for menopause.
I know what a gspot orgasm is, havent had one as if yet...it’s a project I’m very diligently working on. I’ve Never heard of a blended or a-spot orgasm ... please tell....and I’ve never had more then one orgasm during sex unfortunately. I’m jealous
I would totally enjoy my REVELATION it if my partner was more cooperative lol but we’re discussing that in another thread .....
my first sexual experience was anal. I was so naive ,( sex was not discussed in the home, never had the birds and the bees conversation, Jesus would not have approved )that I didn’t realize it wasn’t my vagina and I hadn’t actually lost my virginity that when I actually did lose my virginity to the same guy, I was absolutely shocked at the pain lol. I was 14 and I have loved anything anal from that first time til now. I will take anal over vaginal any day.
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Ok - here's the scoop as I have learned from research backed up by empirical results.
Who says nerds aren't cool
Everyone knows about clitoral orgasms - for my wife they were sharp and intense. They made her too sensitive for additional play - which was not good from my perspective.
Next on the list is the g-spot orgasm. At first my wife could not achieve a g-spot orgasm without also stimulating her clit. In some circles its referred to as a 'Blended' orgasm - others refer to it a 'Combo' orgasm. The big difference for her was that she could now continue playing to achieve multiple orgasms. She says that sometimes she can't tell if she's having a long 'rolling' orgasm (her description) or a series of closely linked events.
My wife has learned to have g-spot orgasms without clitoral stimulation and more often than not, this brings on some fairly copious gushing - much to my enjoyment!
As for the A-spot...
I noticed that my wife would be very turned on and juicy in the cowgirl position - I attributed this to grinding her clit onto my pubic bone - but also noticed the same effects using one of our larger dildos. During sexual arousal the vagina elongates - prompting her to ask me to push the dildo deeper.
Doing some research on the phenomena I came upon a description of the "Anterior-Fornix Erogenous Zone" (you can Google it) which is shortened to A-spot. Anatomically the fornix is where the vagina and uterus meet and anterior section is where the front wall of the vagina meets the uterus. It's in line with the g-spot but quite a bit deeper - leading to the misnomer 'deep g-spot'.
These days when my wife wants to gush - she aptly asks for 'The Gusher' aka the Njoy Pure Wand. It is truly a g-spot seeking miracle! When I have her really primed for a 6-or so orgasm night, I'll use one of the larger dildos - or the 'Big Gusher' aka the Njoy Eleven.
Although my wife comes to the anal party much later than you - we've only been doing it about 5 years, her most explosive orgasms now include her vibrating butt plug or a couple of fingers. The fingers are actually more effective because I can curve them up to massage her g-spot or add upward pressure on the Gusher or dildo.
Sorry if this is too much information - she's out of town and the separation is driving us both crazy!
BTW - if it's a g-spot orgasm you are looking for, there is no better choice the Njoy Pure Wand.