What would you say if your spouse asked you for a threesome?

Contributor: SepZet SepZet
Depends on who the third is!
10/14/2012
Contributor: bettle590 bettle590
none of these - while it's not morally wrong and I wouldn't freak out over it, I wouldn't agree to it either. i'm just not into the idea
10/14/2012
Contributor: SaraW0512 SaraW0512
I would initially say yes but we would definitely have to talk about it. I'm not a skank and I'll be damned if a skank touches my husband lol kinda ironic, huh?
10/14/2012
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I'd be insulted if the person I was with wanted a threesome...
10/14/2012
Contributor: Augustxsins Augustxsins
I have a very difficult time sharing. I don't think I'll ever be ok with him having sex with another woman. He has a similar problem, in that he won't share me with another man. We're both bisexual, though, so that opens some doors. I would love for him to fuck me while I'm having sex with a woman, or to watch him fuck another man. It's not quite a full-on threesome, since not all three people are touching each other, but it's close enough that it could satisfy our curiosity.
10/14/2012
Contributor: Jesyra Jesyra
I've been trying to get him to go for one. If my husband brought it up, it'd be an instant yes.
10/15/2012
Contributor: kmarsico kmarsico
I want to try one so bad! he is against it though!
10/18/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Say yes, but discuss ground rules and consequences first.
10/18/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
discuss pros and cons of a threesome
10/20/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
Not sure that these are the best answers for everyone, haha. I'd be happy to do it, but it would also depend on the person and situation. I know it's not a matter of 'not being enough' I really want to have a threesome too!
10/21/2012
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
You know how hard it is to find the right person to have a threesome with?! It's a complex decision!
10/21/2012
Contributor: goo goo
Threesomes just are not appealing to me. I prefer one on one.
10/21/2012
Contributor: Kat and Aaron(aaron) Kat and Aaron(aaron)
We are in the discussion phase. The thought excites both of us.
10/21/2012
Contributor: Katzer Katzer
Get horny and discuss the pros and cons of it. We would need to agree with the other person and know this wouldn't cause problems.
10/21/2012
Contributor: moongirl moongirl
Hmm...there doesn't seem to be an option for, "Say no thanks because you're uncomfortable with that." I wouldn't freak out and cry, but I wouldn't be willing to do something like that.
10/21/2012
Contributor: <3BF <3BF
I'd ask if I get to choose the third member
10/21/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I'd agree; I like to think I'm pretty adventurous.
10/21/2012
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by BrittaniMaree
just wondering
I'd get horny! I have had several threesomes and enjoyed them.
10/21/2012
Contributor: no name 1 no name 1
I would say not but still would hear him out.
10/22/2012
Contributor: SoloJoe SoloJoe
talked about it never more than that
10/22/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
I don't plan on getting naked with more than 2 people in the room!
10/22/2012
Contributor: nova2014 nova2014
I'd be unhappy and worry about why he would want the threesome in the first place but I'd try to hear him out at first at least, i think
12/11/2012
Contributor: dm dm
long discussion but may lead to yes.
12/11/2012
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
If it's for the right reasons and not just because the emotional part of our relationship was failing and one of us just wanted an excuse to distance or depersonalize our relationship, then yes. I don't see why not after that chat.
12/11/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
We would first have a long discussion. We have talked about a threesome in the past and my wife thinks its best left for fantasy and I agreed. So why the change of heart? Who would it be with? Ffm or mfm? I think I'd have an easier time if she wanted a ffm threesome at this point since her past threesome statements would lead me to wonder why all of the sudden she's wanting to invite another guy to have sex with her. I may say yes, but I might say no. It would all depend on how comfortable I was after our conversation.
12/12/2012
Contributor: annshores1 annshores1
we have discussed it before and agreed that it would most likly just spilt us up... so No 3 person!
12/13/2012
Contributor: falalena falalena
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Originally posted by BrittaniMaree
just wondering
we already know that someday we will have a FFM threesome, the real problem is how do you decide who with?
12/14/2012
Contributor: Arlinnae Arlinnae
only if it is another man - but he will never agree to that!
12/14/2012
Contributor: SexToys-R-Us SexToys-R-Us
weve experienced that and id describe it as awkwardly fun, we discussed it at first and the only rule I had was neither of us could kiss the other girl, although that did not stop her from trying to have a makeout session with my bf, needless to say if we ever decide to try it again it will definitely not be with the same clingy sprung off my boyfriend woman!
12/14/2012
Contributor: a.moon19 a.moon19
Quote:
Originally posted by BrittaniMaree
just wondering
I think it would definitely depend on who the person additionally would be, and how open we are with that kind of a situation. We definitely would need to talk it over; esp since we're lesbians - and I like butch girls, and she likes femmes... hmm. I guess we'd really just have to talk it out!
12/14/2012