I would instantly feel hurt because that's where my mind goes.  But I would ask him to allow me to think on it, and then we would have to sit down and really work it out together.  We had talked a while back about inviting another couple to do their own thing with us while we did our own thing (does that even make sense?), but it was only fantasy and nothing ever came from it.
                        
                        
                        What would you say if your spouse asked you for a threesome?
12/14/2012
			        
			        
                
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                        Ask "with who?"
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            BrittaniMaree
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            just wondering
                                        
                                    I've had a threeway every way you can have a threeway. bbg, ggg, ggb.
If he wanted to do another one i wouldnt have an issue with it, it'd just come down to WHO because some of his friends are hootchie ass drama whores and I'll pass on that bullshit
12/14/2012
			        
			        
                
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                        AT LEAST SOMEONE REALIZES. XD sooo many people are obsessed with getting one and wind up just ruining their relationship as well as offending or hurting the third person in some cases. I, personally, am NOT ever the type to have a threesome. They don't interest me and they take too much effort, and I've tried it and it really was just distracting.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            mjtheprincess
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            You know how hard it is to find the right person to have a threesome with?! It's a complex decision!
                                        
                                    12/15/2012
			        
			        
                
                        It would rather depend on who it's with and the whole thing seems very fraught with danger and difficulty and inconvenience.  But I wouldn't say no without at least talking about it.
                        
                        
                        12/28/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Say yes after lots of communication, expectations, why she was interested, etc.
The biggest issue wouldnt be the threesome, but finding someone I trust enough to have a threesome with.
                        
                        The biggest issue wouldnt be the threesome, but finding someone I trust enough to have a threesome with.
12/28/2012
			        
			        
                
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                        we have talked about it but wont ever act on it
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            BrittaniMaree
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            just wondering
                                        
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