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Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I'm trying to come up with a list of the basic things to get for a friend of mine and her soon to be husband for their wedding gifts. So far I have:

Love Dice
Cock Ring
Rubber Whip (Jr)
First Aid Vibe
Kinky Pinky Cuffs

What else am I missing on this list? They've been together like 6 years now, I'm not sure of their experience with toys, or what they're into, so I wanted to get them little things that might spark something. Budget is also a factor. I don't want to spend much more than $50. Thoughts????
05/16/2012
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Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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I might go with These restraints instead of the cuffs because

a) The cuffs need to be tied to something
b) These may be better to start BDSM stuff with because they don't leave you spread-eagle.

I also would recommend something like the Eden bullet because the first aid one just looks super cheap.

As far as cock rings go I would recommend the Tantus Supersoft C-ring. It's stretchy and isn't too 'intense,' but it's a great way to start using cock rings and get used to the feeling. You can always add the free Eden ring in, as well, if you want.

On top of that you can always throw in some classy lube and it's still under $50! I made a comparison so you can see all the products together:

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Let us know what you pick!
05/16/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
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Originally posted by Ryuson
I might go with These restraints instead of the cuffs because

a) The cuffs need to be tied to something
b) These may be better to start BDSM stuff with because they don't leave you spread-eagle.

I also would recommend something ... more
Good call. I agree about the cuff thing. You might even want to look more into something like -link

I'd also go with a pocket rocket. My recommendation is below. It has a wide variety of functions and patterns and is really affordable. -link

I'd also go with something edible and fun. This is on facebook deal really cheap. link

I also think that the free EF cock ring is a good pick.
05/16/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
I might go with These restraints instead of the cuffs because

a) The cuffs need to be tied to something
b) These may be better to start BDSM stuff with because they don't leave you spread-eagle.

I also would recommend something ... more
I thought the first aid one looked a little cheap, was thinking it was more of a funny gag...but for what I want to do it really wouldn't make the most sense. I hadn't seen those restraints before, I like those much better! I can't tell you how much I appreciate you taking the time to do that for me!
05/16/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
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Originally posted by Beck
Good call. I agree about the cuff thing. You might even want to look more into something like -link

I'd also go with a pocket rocket. My recommendation is below. It has a wide variety of functions and patterns and is really affordable. ... more
Thank you so much...I'll be sure to check out that pocket rocket...hadn't thought of something like that before!
05/16/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Defiantly add a lube and I'll second the Tantus Supersoft C-ring. Although a vibrating ring might be more fun for both of them, something like the EdenFantasys vibrating ring (Free with order) or the Boss Cock's Pleasure ring.
05/16/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Thanks so much for the feedback! I don't know why I didn't think of getting them a thing of lube, but that was a great idea. Considering I don't know if they have any experience with sex toys, do you think what I'm going for is okay? Would it be too much beginner items if they have used toys before?
05/17/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
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I felt like I needed to get something else for them that was geared toward him also...so I threw on that jack off thing...they could use that together, right? Or is that dumb???
05/17/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
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I felt like I needed to get something else for them that was geared toward him also...so I threw on that jack off thing...they could use that together, right? Or is that dumb??? ... more
or is there something else that inexpensive that would work for them that's geared toward him?? I thought about purchasing the Eden bullet, but I figured the bunny I'll get for placing my order is close enough to that...and that would go into their gift as well.
05/17/2012