Most of the guys I've dated know about most if not all of my toys. I don't mind them knowing because letting them use them on me is fun. I do have one maybe two I I'll probably keep to myself next time I have a guy.
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What would you do if your spouse/significant other discovered your toy(s)?
07/29/2013
I was a little embarrassed at first when my wife found my plug. We have since included into our play and she has become open to some ass play with me.
08/07/2013
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He knows about all my toys, we use them together!
Originally posted by
RedGlitter
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... more
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... more
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question is THIS:
How you feel if your guy/girl found your toys?
(or in MY case "box O' toys! )
Thank you less
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question is THIS:
How you feel if your guy/girl found your toys?
(or in MY case "box O' toys! )
Thank you less
08/07/2013
He knows what toys I have and what I want. When I get a new toy we play together.
08/07/2013
Well, anyone who could apply as a partner to me would already know I've sex toys.
08/08/2013
Myself as a guy welcome my wife and her toys!!! I buy them for her because i enjoy watching!!!
08/24/2013
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me too
Originally posted by
Rory
My husband not only has access to them he buys them for me!!
08/24/2013
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I feel the same way
Originally posted by
Rossie
No need to hide my toys, he knows all about them.
08/24/2013
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I do not hide them
Originally posted by
G&L
There are toys actually sitting on our bathroom counter.
08/24/2013
I think I bought just about all of the toys my wife has. The whole box full. I don't believe that there are any I don't know about (BUT, how would I know?) As far as MY toys are concerned, I, well, don't have any. I do however WANT one, and I would like her to know about and maybe even use it on me. Currently, we use toys almost every time.
08/24/2013
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I do not hide them at all they are for you to see
Originally posted by
RedGlitter
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... more
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... more
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question is THIS:
How you feel if your guy/girl found your toys?
(or in MY case "box O' toys! )
Thank you less
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question is THIS:
How you feel if your guy/girl found your toys?
(or in MY case "box O' toys! )
Thank you less
08/24/2013
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my man love playing with them
Originally posted by
Mwar
He knows and loves it!
08/24/2013
It was a little weird at first, but now he has open access to all of them. If I get something new, I just throw it in the drawer with the others and it's a little surprise for him to find. I've tried encouraging him to pick out a toy for us, but he's hesitant still.
08/25/2013
I'm extremely upfront about my toys. They love me [the toys, that is] and I love them and I don't think I could be with someone who did't like them as well haha
08/25/2013
She has always had toys. I started buying them for her years ago. I thought she would enjoy sex more with them and of course she does. I started prostate massage last year and showed my first one to her. Then I wanted different and better ones. I moved on to plugs but hid them. When I got the NJ Pure Plug large I showed it to her. It somehow seemed more like jewelry which of course all women like. Then I stopped hiding the others from her. When I got the NJ 2.0 I left it out for her viewing hoping she would mistaken it for the original N Joy large. It worked for a few weeks until one day I left both out and she saw the difference. She commented " I don't know how you can put that in !
08/25/2013
I would love to set them out as room decor hahaha
09/05/2013
I found a battery powered bullet vibe under her side of our bed a couple of years ago (I was looking for her pistol to take to the range). It was an instant turn on! A few days later, the right opportunity presented itself to bring up my discovery to her. It opened up great communication about our fantasies that continues to this day and we have collected a variety of toys, toy mounts, lubes, a sex swing, ever since. I can't wait for her to unwrap her Valentine gifts, a nJoy Pure Wand, large Lelo Smart Wand and a set of Frisky Flannels open crotch PJs (hey, it's coooold here in flyover country).
01/16/2018
I buy them not her. I think I'm more of a toy lover than she is.
02/14/2018
Although I'm the one who usually reaches into the toy box, we both use it quite frequently. I strongly believe in communication and full disclosure in a relationship - that's what makes us stronger
04/30/2019
My husband is the one who got me into toys! Our collection is large enough now that we have a “toy chest” which would be very difficult to hide
05/04/2019
I don't see a problem here too! My man knows each of my toys, he has a lot of toys for himself, and he loves to use them! We just keep them away from children
05/09/2019
Ad0rkableg33k
I was the other half who discovered the secret life. I knew for about a year before he finally let me in to his world. I knew about everything from the dildos to the porn to the online shit he was into. I'd hint at the things he liked as often as I could. When he told me I was very open to the whole thing. I got lucky a piece of his dildo fell off and I found it... I told him it wasn't from any dildo I have so either he is bringing girls over to use dildos on them or it's good dildo. I said it is okay if it's yours. All the things he's into...It was something I had been curious about but never did.
We have tons of fun now that he isn't hiding it and we have a lot of cool shit I wouldn't have bought otherwise. It upsets me when he feels ashamed about it and hides it like it's bad. He leaves me out of the fun when he does that. We have a sex machine and a strap on... He lets me peg him and aaaannnnddd I surprised him with a shemale one night. Something I'd love to do again if given the opportunity but we are picky in what we like.
We have tons of fun now that he isn't hiding it and we have a lot of cool shit I wouldn't have bought otherwise. It upsets me when he feels ashamed about it and hides it like it's bad. He leaves me out of the fun when he does that. We have a sex machine and a strap on... He lets me peg him and aaaannnnddd I surprised him with a shemale one night. Something I'd love to do again if given the opportunity but we are picky in what we like.
06/24/2019
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Wow, you are very patient! I can't imagine how could you restrain yourself not to tell him you knew about his sex toys hobby for so long If I were in the same situation, I would tell him that I know about his toys immediately
Originally posted by
Ad0rkableg33k
I was the other half who discovered the secret life. I knew for about a year before he finally let me in to his world. I knew about everything from the dildos to the porn to the online shit he was into. I'd hint at the things he liked as often
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I was the other half who discovered the secret life. I knew for about a year before he finally let me in to his world. I knew about everything from the dildos to the porn to the online shit he was into. I'd hint at the things he liked as often as I could. When he told me I was very open to the whole thing. I got lucky a piece of his dildo fell off and I found it... I told him it wasn't from any dildo I have so either he is bringing girls over to use dildos on them or it's good dildo. I said it is okay if it's yours. All the things he's into...It was something I had been curious about but never did.
We have tons of fun now that he isn't hiding it and we have a lot of cool shit I wouldn't have bought otherwise. It upsets me when he feels ashamed about it and hides it like it's bad. He leaves me out of the fun when he does that. We have a sex machine and a strap on... He lets me peg him and aaaannnnddd I surprised him with a shemale one night. Something I'd love to do again if given the opportunity but we are picky in what we like. less
We have tons of fun now that he isn't hiding it and we have a lot of cool shit I wouldn't have bought otherwise. It upsets me when he feels ashamed about it and hides it like it's bad. He leaves me out of the fun when he does that. We have a sex machine and a strap on... He lets me peg him and aaaannnnddd I surprised him with a shemale one night. Something I'd love to do again if given the opportunity but we are picky in what we like. less
On the other hand, it is great you waited until he decided to tell about everything by himself. I think it helped to make your relationship more sincere and strong. I'm happy you have a lot of fun together now!
06/25/2019
the toy chest is on his side of the closet. It used to sit under my jewelry armoire in our old place.
10/25/2019
And I would not buy such things secretly, for me there is simply no point in such a thing...
11/21/2021
I don’t have a partner so I’m not worried about keeping my 100+ toys a secret. However, I would be embarrassed if I was trying to hide them and they were discovered.
01/16/2022