Gaping butt plug

Advanced Anal Fun

Want a plug you don't need to worry about slipping out? Want a long-term plug? Want to be spread open?
Then, this is for you
Silicone, Inexpensive, New Thrills, Prep for anal sex or larger anal toy
The learning curve to insert, slightly harder to remove than ordinary anal plugs
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


This is an advanced toy for fun seekers. It's best used by two anal-loving players seeking new adventures. However, it can be used solo. How two players you ask? Obviously, the one wearing it will get anal pleasure. The other person that gets to insert this anus spreading device will savor the experience also. Watching and listening as it goes in will create much mental pleasure.

If you are looking for something to wear long term, this could be for you. Definitively no fears of this will be slipping out. Removing it will be fun!

Many use anal plugs in preparation for anal sex. This will be great for that. The top could pleasure from inserting it and let the plug open the bottom's anus up. The neck will do part of the work while inside. The spreading halves if left part way in the anus will SPREAD the anus out.
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Solo
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal
    • P-spot

Material / Texture

Most if not all anal toys are made of glass, metal or silicone. Spread Me is made of silicone. It has a very faint "fruity smell". One would have to press it up to one's nose to detect it though. It will attract dust, lint, hair etc. very very easily.

Its texture is a little grainy. That means you may feel a slight drag. Not anything that would make the toy harder to use though.

The two halves that you squeeze in to insert are on the firm side. The neck is softer, and the flared part is very flexible and quite soft.

As you figured, this will require a little more lube that something smoother like glass or stainless steel. The lubricant will make the texture negligible.
    • Feint odor
    • Not porous at all

Design / Shape / Size

As you can see this resembles a toy anchor when standing up. When the two halves are squeezed together, it will look and function like a regular butt plug. It has a flared end to stop it from getting sucked into the rectum.

Once inserted the two halves will spread out and press on the inside of one's rectum. You will fill fuller and pressure on the other side of your anus.

I've seen this particular toy in larger sizes. Although this is an advanced anal toy, I would classify its size as intermediate.
Total length:4 1/4"
Insertable : 3"
Two spread halves opened: 3"
Two halves closed: 1 1/2" wide/ diameter
Two halves circumferences: 5 1/2"
Neck diameter: 3/4"
Flared end stopper : 1 1/8" x 3"
I included a non-professional diagram of the dimensions to assist. At the date of my review, my measurements are not the same as the product page.

My crude diagram of measurements

open 3 "
Spread apart is 3 "


nJoy large 1 1/2" diameter Spread Me Plug closed nJoy 2.0 Princess Plug 1 3/4" diameter
    • Futuristic
    • Partner play
    • Whimsical / artistic


The two halves need to be compressed in order to form a regular coned plug. They are not that easy to compress though. And that's a good thing. Otherwise, it would detract from its performance. Once this advanced plug is inside it will spring open with force. Anal plugs need to make their presence known to be effective. With this design, one will not need fear it slipping out.

What's the use of having something in your rectum and you can't feel it? Although when compressed it is only 1 1/2" wide it will feel like much more. When your rectum initially "accepts" Spread Me, you will feel pressure. The usual "Wow! What just happened"?

I think this is an "advanced player" toy because it's not easy to get in. The two halves do require some effort to compress. A person without strong hands may have difficulty with this. I think it would be easier if another person compresses it and pushes it in while a subject is bent over.

That said, I was able to get it in by myself. For my first time, it wasn't easy. It took four attempts. I will explain how in the experience section. Once I learned the trick the next time was much easier.

Care and Maintenance

Being made of silicone, it will be a dust magnet. Silicone is easy to care for though. Wash before and after use with antibacterial soap and warm water. It can also be boiled for 4-5 mins for more safety.

As for lubricant only use water-based lube. Never use silicone lube with silicone toys. Coconut oil can also be used.

If your anal toys pick up some undesired odors try soaking in 1 part household bleach to 10 parts water overnight. Then thoroughly wash or put in a top shelf of a dishwasher.
    • Easy to clean


The Spread Me came in a no thrills, no instruction package. Saves on cost not being boxed with a lot of pictures etc.

Clear front envelope.


When I placed the order for this, I got thrills of new excitement. The idea of something so large (according to the product page) spreading once inside me was titillating. My favorite plugs are the nJoy large, nJoy 2.0 and large Princess vibrating plug in that order. The thought of having something large spread me was something to look forward to.

When the plug arrived I was surprised. It wasn't that big. I said to myself: "Well maybe better not too big. Too big may be too much of a challenge."

I did my usual clean out before anal play with a water squeeze bulb. I practiced compressing the Spread Me. I discovered it was not that easy to hold in the closed position with just one hand. I lubed both the toy and my butt hole. As I started inserting, it would pop back to open position. Each time I bent over and attempted to insert it would pop open. Whenever it popped open, it would get my hand all wet with lube. Which made it even harder to grasp.

After four tries I thought I would need the wifey to put it in. Having lube all over my ass and the toy I refused to give up. I inserted one half in my anus then squeezed the other end closed and push it in. I push hard and fast not wanting it to pop out again. In it went and Wow! I got that, "Oh, what did I just do" pressure in my anal cavity again. Sure enough, I could feel the plug open up and press my inner walls.

It was very secure in there. No worries of it coming out, that's for sure. Imagine something inside you grabbing your rectum walls. I went about my day being plugged. I felt pressure but not that fullness filling like my other bigger plugs.

However, when I removed it, different story. Felt big then and much pressure. The two halves are quite firm and strong. I could really fill it spreading my anus open upon exiting. Since it was anchored in there, I had to tug to remove it. Afterward, I put a finger in there to check my gap. Sure enough, as expected I was more open than before the session.
Follow-up commentary
This is still wonderful. Love it. To avoid getting "smells" on it I use a condom. Although the condom is lubed I still apply some water based lubricant. Get one if you like anal fun. It's not as big as it looks. Really !
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

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  • Contributor: MrClark
    I also reviewed this and wasn't able to ever get it inserted... but another amazing review, hope you both are doing well!!
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