Anal retriever - butt plug by Cal Exotics - review by Nymphomaniac

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Anal toy (the larger size) - from a beginer's perspective

This is a really good toy in that it is made from soft jelly, so as not to hurt a beginner. It gradually increases in girth so that you can get used to whatever size you like. It’s a good toy to practice with, for maybe another partner, so that you can gradually work up to his size.
Soft, very gradual in girth, nice toy for some beginners.
The head might be a little big to start out with.
Rating by reviewer:
useful review
I'd like to start out saying that I don't have much experience with anal toys. I first began trying things with it, not too long ago. I had heard that you really have to get used to it, so I started off with something REALLY small; like a slim bullet type thing. That was very easy, so I tried something a bit bigger.

My boyfriend really wants to try anal, but every time I try with him, it REALLY hurts. I thought that maybe I'd try something that went gradual to the size of his girth, like this toy. This toy is also a soft jelly material, so it’s a bit easier to take than anything that is made of a hard material.

I would recommend that you have some experience with trying anal before using this toy, just because the tip might be a little big if you've never tried anything before. It does look pretty intimidating when you get it (at least the larger size, which is what I got,), but once you get used to using it, it’s great.

I knew anal would hurt when trying it out as a beginner so, even with this toy, I made sure to start out very slowly and made sure I was relaxed. Make sure that you use a lot of lube on the toy and on yourself before using it. I slowly just tried getting the end of it in at first, then stopped to make sure I was relaxed. Then go just a little bit further (seriously, a very little) then stop again and relax, and I just repeated that until I didn't feel I was comfortable going any farther. If you don't get it in all the way, it’s a bit hard to keep inside while you are maybe using other toys at the same time; maybe for your clitoris or vagina.

Again, when using this toy, you have to make sure that you are VERY relaxed and comfortable when trying it. If you're not, it’s most likely not going to feel very good. After about 3 or 4 times of using this toy, I finally was able to get the entire thing in. It felt very good to feel so ‘full’, and it really tightened the vagina. Once it is all the way in, you do not have to worry about it accidentally falling out. After the largest part of the toy, it quickly narrows again so that it stays in there.

However, I do find the retrieval cord unnecessary. The base of the toy is wide enough, that the entire thing won't get stuck inside you or anything. Unless maybe I'm missing something, and that cord is also supposed to be something so that your partner can tug on it and play with it a bit.
My boyfriend really liked it, after I was able to get the entire thing inside me. Even when we were just playing with it before, I was able to get it all the way in, it was still a lot of fun to play with. It was kind of a reminder to him, about what this is "training" me for. Once I got it in we were also able to have sex without it falling out, and it made me tighter for him. I still haven't tried getting anal from my boyfriend, since I have been able to get the toy in, but I plan on using the toy first as a warm-up. Maybe we can have sex while it’s in, then after, my boyfriend can try anal with me after its been loosened up and relaxed a bit.
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  • Mamastoys
    Anal sex shouldn't hurt at any time. You are right to say that you need to be relaxed and use LOTS of lube but it shouldn't hurt.
    How does it stay in? Have you tried walking around with it in?
    Since this is made of jelly and can't be sterilized, be sure to use a condom.
    What type of lube did you use?
    How did you clean it up and store it?
  • Bignuf
    Thanks for the great review of this little plug on a rope! More to the point, you do need to read the sections in EF Forum about anal sex. It SHOULD NOT hurt...ever. It may be the positions you are using or lack of lube inside that is the problem. I have found POSITION ERROR and trying to go TOO FAST to be the biggest source of problems for people trying anal the first time.
  • freshbananas
    Thanks for the reivew
  • LilShae
    Thanks for the review
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