Oversized butt plug

It's Just So Big!

The Spade Advanced Butt Plug is not for the average kinkster. This sleek, silicone plug is large enough to stretch your back hole to capacity and leave you sore the next day. With a T-shaped base, once this massive toy is inserted, you will be able to sit comfortably with the knowledge that your butt is stuffed. I found this plug too large for my liking. However, I still enjoyed the sensation of my butt stretching to accommodate such a large intrusion.
Body-safe material, Large size, T-shaped base
Abrupt change in diameter, Hard to insert
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


I love butt plugs. I love the feeling of being stuffed by an object in that forbidden back hole. Sometimes, I’ll wear a butt plug out in public for the added thrill of hiding a naughty secret in my bottom! One of my favorite plugs is the Lovense Hush Plug, a black, silicone, 1.75” diameter plug that fits comfortably between my cheeks. When I saw the Spade Advanced Butt Plug, I was excited to see that it was also listed as 1.75” with a T-shaped base for maximized comfort. However, the actual plug was larger than expected. At 2” in diameter, the Spade Plug should be reserved for only the most advanced anal enthusiasts.


This is probably not the best toy for everyday wear, but it is a great plug for those days when you want an added challenge! Your partner will likely drool at the sight of you stretching your back hole and struggling to insert such a big toy!
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Solo
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal

Material / Texture

This toy feels luxurious and silky smooth, which helps with a pain-free entry when combined with ample water-based lube. The plug is silicone, a body-safe, hypoallergenic, latex free, non-porous, phthalates-free material. Click this link to learn more about silicone.

One of the issues I’ve had with silicone in the past is that the material holds onto that butt smell. While I’ve only used this toy a few times, it does not have any discernible smell.

The stem of the toy is significantly smaller than the bulbous insertable. The stem will twist and bend easily, so you can find just the right angle when inserting the toy!
    • Flexible
    • Not porous at all
    • Smooth

Design / Shape / Size

The Spade plug is in the shape of a spade, one of the suits in a deck of cards. I thought the product design was adorable. The base of the plug is T-shaped, which ensures the plug won’t get sucked into your butt. One side of the T-shaped base is wider than the other. I found that the wider part sat better closer to my vaginal opening so the skinnier side could nestle between my butt cheeks.


This plug is very short and stout. While some plugs have long, tapered tips, the Spade plug looked more like a sphere with a cone tip. This lack of a tapered tip made insertion more difficult since my bottom needed to adjust to the intrusion all at once.


While the product page listed this product as 1.75” in diameter, the actual diameter was 2”. While I have easily taken 1.75” plugs into my bottom, I had great difficulty inserting this large plug. My favorite plug is the njoy Pure Plug in size Large, which is 1.5". I think this 1.5" diameter is the perfect diameter for my body, so the 2" diameter was really pushing it.

From left to right: njoy Pure Plug Large, Lovense Hush Plug, EdenFantasys Spade Plug
    • Advanced
    • Whimsical / artistic


My butt was not ready for such an intrusion. I began with a large amount of water-based lube coating the surface of the toy. I started slow and easy, inching the toy forward. At about the halfway point, I needed to add more lube. As I mentioned earlier, since the plug gets wider all at once, it is hard for my body to relax to let the plug slip in. I must have added more lube about four separate times. My bed sheets were soaked with lube. When I inserted the widest part of the toy, I felt like I was at the top of a rollercoaster, my hole was stretched so wide, and there was a big drop on the other side.

The first time I tried out this plug I couldn’t even get it in all the way. However, the second time I tried, my butt was more relaxed. I enjoyed the stretching sensation immensely. I felt deliciously full and super naughty for putting something so big in my bum. In fact, the day after I tried out this plug, I could still feel the reminder of the plug stretching my hole. I found this reminder super sexy.
    • Difficult to insert
    • Large

Care and Maintenance

Silicone toys are super easy to care for. I washed my plug with antibacterial soap and warm water. However, since the plug does not have any electrical components, you can boil the plug or throw it in the dishwasher for a deeper clean. Whatever cleaning method you choose, just make sure the toy is completely dry before storing it.
    • Easy to clean


This toy arrived in a simple plastic bag. I liked that I could see the spade-shape of the toy right away through the packaging. No instructions were included, nor were they needed.

    • Minimal
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

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  • Contributor: sXeVegan90
    Glad to see my gf and I weren't the only ones to enjoy this plug. It's definitely a challenge..but oh a challenge worth the effort!
  • Contributor: DancerKittyKat
    sXeVegan90 - You definitely weren't the only ones to enjoy it! But wow, what a huge plug!!
  • Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears
    The short taper looks very formidable
    I've found squatting easier for challenging toys. And a comparable sized dildo
  • Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears
    Oop, comparable dil to open up l met to say.
  • Contributor: DancerKittyKat
    OH&W, Lovebears - Thanks for reading the review and commenting! I'll have to try squatting next time!
  • Contributor: MrClark
    Thanks for another great review... it is surprising the width measurement was that far off. Also, I really need to get myself some digital calipers
  • Contributor: DancerKittyKat
    MrClark - Thanks! Yes, you definitely do need to get on that! I was definitely surprised by the size difference.
  • Contributor: Daddy'sSexKitten
    I love the look of this plug! Just wish it came in different sizes. Great review!!
  • Contributor: DancerKittyKat
    Daddy'sSexKitten - I agree, more size options would be ideal!
  • Contributor: Lisset Finnien
    Great review...I got mine this afternoon and it is wonderful!!!!!!!
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