Spade - butt plug by EdenFantasys - review by Slinkykinkyduo

Honestly, this plug is huge, and any preconception of what "huge" is, this is bigger. It's deceivingly big. If you plan to tackle this plug, put aside some time and a lot of lube. It's best to accomplish this plug with someone to help prep you for it because it'll take a lot of fingers to get you wide enough. I wouldn't recommend traveling with it, it's girth and heaviness would make you uncomfortably full and the widest part stretches intensely at an awkward part of my insides. My domme and I are making this toy a "well f***ed" plug for after play because trying to use it before you're so loose you can fit your fist is an unreasonable dream.

I have a love for soft silicone toys. They don't have a noticeable odor, but it does mean it can pick up lint easily. It doesn't have much give, considering how large it is, but thankfully it is easy to clean, and that makes it safe to use and to be long-lasting. I personally think the silicone can make it slippery, and with a toy that is going to need a bottle of lube, it is hard to get a grip on it when you try to insert it.

It's big. The base is designed nicely, and if I was able to get it inside properly, I'm sure the handle would be comfortable. However, this toy was just too big for me. I didn't like that the widest part of it stretches awkwardly just in a weird spot for me, and I personally would have liked it to be a little bit more gradual than BAM all at once. When you push it in, it's slippery, and hard to hold the handle to line it up. Then the stretch is just intense. It's not a toy for beginners, or hell, even someone like me who has experience with larger toys. It reminds me of a misshapen baseball and like I was trying to shove a ball with a small cone point. Anytime I thought I was close to getting it in it popped right back out since it was short and suddenly too wide.

By the time I got nearly 90% of this toy in, I was in just too much pain for it even though I was well stretched out on my biggest dildo when I was prepping for it. I would like if it had more length to gradually go instead of how it just seems to be all at once, giving your butt really no chance to ease it in. I'm sure I would have been more successful if it had more length to guide it in versus blindly shoving a strange ball inside. Because there was no help from the toy itself. It just seemed like it had no interest in being inside me. Otherwise, the width of it and how short the neck is, I can tell it would be agonizing for long wear. I don't recommend being cocky with this plug, as only experts could confidently use this plug.

Silicone toys are fantastic for their easy cleanup. And water based lubes are the only way to go (I'm cheap and use drugstore brand jelly lubes and never had a problem before). I like to put a condom over it as it helps the clean up go faster, then I like to use an antibacterial wipe. Or I wash them with antibacterial soap and let them air dry. I keep all my silicone toys in sandwich baggies and store them in a bag out of any direct heat/light source. A toy like this is no different in terms of cleaning any silicone toy.

It came in a disposable clear plastic pouch. I threw it out because it wasn't reusable to store the plug, nor did it contain any instructions or words.

I'm desperate to tackle this toy, just to say I did it. I'm no quitter, and it's proving quite the challenge. The amount of lube I had used is honestly a little ridiculous. I like to think of myself as no novice when it comes to anal toys, but this thing gave me a run for my money. Maybe next time with the help of my partner I can get it fully in because I won't be giving up on it just yet. Until then, it's left me sore and mocks me with its comically fat shape. I like this toy, but it's bested me. It's certainly a toy for only the expert anal player.