Metal prostate massager

Your Choice:Hands Free Or Gentle Thrusting. My Choice is Couples Play

Did you know Prostate Massagers can make sex better? If you have never tried this while having oral or traditional intercourse, YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU ARE MISSING! This works better than others due to its smooth and heavy stainless steel construction.

Any male using this while having intercourse will know what it feels like to be receiving DP.
Heavy stainless steel, Super smooth, Large head, Attractive
I personally would have liked a longer toy, Inside of the handle is not totally smooth
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


First of all, I would like to say I'm not a sex toy expert. I'm just here to share my experience and findings with you. I learned about prostate massage a few years ago and tried a few items along the way.

There are many types of prostate simulators on the market. Some are powered and vibrate. Anal plugs provide constant rubbing, especially if walking or moving around. Then there are some you gently push in and out like the glass Amethyst dildo. Then there are the hands-free ones. EF has several silicone and glass ones. This one is stainless steel.

Intensifier, nJoy plug, Amethyst, Prostate Expert
Intensifier (battery powered) nJoy anal pure plug medium, Amethyst, Prostate Expert
All but the nJoy can be purchased here on EdenFantasys

The Prostate Expert can be used hands-free or manipulated by its handle. For hands-free experience just squeeze the anus sphincter muscles, that will pull it up. When you release, it will drop back down. The large bulbous head will rub the prostate through the rectum wall, as it glides up and down.

pic credit belongs to Wed MD
(Pic credit to Web MD.) The bulbous head will rub the walnut-sized prostate behind rectum wall.

Front side will rub the prostate
The inside of bulbous head will stimulate the prostate as it slides over and over it. (through the rectum wall)

I do enjoy using this hands-free while watching TV. However, the best way I found to use this is during oral and traditional penis to vaginal intercourse while having this in. The dual stimulation makes me harder and larger. And when climaxing it is much more explosive. Every drop of semen will come out of you!

Material / Texture

Stainless steel is the safest material for sex toys. It is totally nonporous, so germs can not grow or stick to it. The design is totally smooth and slick. It will not require much lubricant compared to other materials. And of course, it is very firm and will penetrate easily. Beginners will have an easy time sliding this in and working it.

Although this is made of stainless steel, you must be careful not to scratch it! It is hard to break but can scratch easily.

As this is stainless steel, any lubricant will work. Waterbased, silicone or coconut oil will work fine.
    • No odor
    • Not porous at all

Design / Shape / Size

One look at this and you know it will work well. Not only will the smooth stainless glide up and down effortlessly; the curved bulbous head will engulf your walnut-size prostate. The handle makes it easy to aim into your anus and serves as a stopper. It won't get lost in your nether-lands. The head is tapered and starts really small.

How to use: Grasp the handle, invert it, so head and ensuing lump is pointed upwards. Apply lubricant and push into the anus. You can use the handle and push it gently back and forth. Or you can allow your sphincter muscles to do all the work. When you squeeze, it will draw the P-Expert upwards. As you release, it will drop down each time stroking your prostate, and the more pleasure you will feel. I also read massaging the prostate helps it to not get enlarged.

The long neck design (tapered) aids in the sliding also. The second bulb is what stops it from falling out. Think of that part as the "runway."

The weight also helps this drop down effortlessly.
Aneros and Prostate Expert
The white one is the Aneros. Notice how small the head is compared to the EF P-Expert. Stainless will also slide easier than plastic or silicone.

Beginners may think this is too large but take my advice. Save your money, don't start with a tiny one. You will outgrow it within a few plays.

Here are some dimensions:
Entire length: 4 1/4"
Insertable : 3 1/4"
Widest part at the head: 1."
Wt.: 9.1 oz
    • Beginner
    • Discreet look/design
    • Ergonomic


As you would expect with its design, it performed superbly! The weight also made it perform well. Compared to the plastic Aneros this was way better. It slid in easier, moved up and down with less effort. The curved bulbous head really targeted my prostate.
    • Comfortable
    • Easy to use

Care and Maintenance

Being stainless it is easy to clean. Nothing will stick to it that won't come off easily. You do have to be careful not to drop or scratch it though. You can boil it or put in 5% bleach to water solution. If you boil it, I recommend you leave it in hot water till the water cools off. Don't try to remove it while hot. If you drop it, you may scratch it.

To make sure it doesn't get scratch I leave it on a towel. The included bag is nice, but out of sight, out of mind. If I took it out of the house, I will wrap it in a hanky first and put in the bag.

The only thing I might pay attention to is the nonsmooth finish in the handle. Where the seam is on the inside it is a little rough. The metal is not broken but thought I would point this out.
Rough area by seams
Some roughness on inside seam of the handle. There's no flaking of any metal so not a concern.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


The P-Expert came in a ziplock bag. Inside was the included black storage bag. The toy was double wrapped with paper.

how it came

Personal comments

A few years back I read prostate massage was good for a male's health. Aided in libido and semen production. Some also have P spot orgasms. Those can involve fluids leaking out or tremendous euphoria in the mind. Some achieve it by vigorous thrusting, vibrating or a long gentle session. Some also experience it through pegging. I have been fortunate enough to experience it in all the mentioned ways. Everyone will have or may not have a similar experience though.

One thing for sure though is when a p-spot toy is used in conjunction with penis play it has fantastic benefits.
With a toy (the tool as I like to call them) in the rectum and penis stimulated, it will be harder and larger.

If you use this and receive fellatio (oral, blowjob), you will achieve the biggest erection possible. If you start with the P spot massage, a lot of blood will be drawn into the pelvic region. Then when receiving oral the penis will also grow more since the blood is already close by.

If you have this in while engaging in intercourse, you will experience dual stimulation. And both will be amplified immensely. When you come, you will empty much much more.
    • Benefits the glands and creates endorphins


I used this by myself before the wife came to bed. After about 8 mins, I was horny and energetic. She knew I was using it as she saw it on the bathroom sink earlier. She knew what to expect as this was not our first time using a P spot toy before intercourse. With it in, I asked her to give me a few pumps as she gave me a bj. Even her hand playing with my penis made it grow.

She always gives me fellatio before sex. And normally deep throats me. This time she was not able to as I was larger than usual.

When there came time for me to enter her we were both hot and excited. Normally when both of us are humping, I don't last very long. With the P Expert in my rectum, I lasted a lot longer. And the feeling on both my sensitive areas was fantastic! Very hard to describe. You have to try to see what I mean.

When I finally ejaculated, my semen just kept coming out. It seemed endless. Next time we will lay down a towel. Nothing worse than lying on wet sheets.
    • Fantastic if used with any penis play
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

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  • Contributor: Lena Eden
    Wow, I really love your review, guys! The toy is def worth trying
  • Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears
    @Lena, careful. If your partner uses this, he may want sex everyday.
  • Contributor: Lena Eden
    Challenge accepted
  • Contributor: Gunsmoke
    Just for a second opinion, I had this plug long ago and was totally underwhelmed. To each his own.
  • Contributor: ToyTimeTim
    I enjoyed your review, thanks much.
    A note about stainless, if it is solid stainless a scratch can be fixed pretty easy. So no worries there.
  • Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears
    @Gun, yes understandably. This is not like one of your big dildos for penetrating. Aside from hands free P massage, it can be worn during intercourse. Can you keep your dil in while pumping away in your Goddess ? Try it like I suggested and let me know if it was not memorable.
  • Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears
    @TTT, coming from you that is quite a compliment.
    And glad you brought up about repairing scratches. That will benefit many readers.
  • Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears
    @Lena, any progress on the bf yet ? It's a challenge worth undertaking. The benefits are forever lasting. Maybe one day.... Don't ever give up.
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