Menage a trois - harness and dildo set discontinued by Sportsheets - review by Two Loves

This harness is great for couples who love double penetration but do not want to bring anyone else into the bedroom. The dildo that comes with this set may be a little big for those who have no experience with anal play, but for those with any experience at all, it should be no problem to get it in.

The dildo is made of silicone so it feels smooth and has no odor or taste to it. The harness is made of nylon straps with metal O-rings which hold the dildo in place. The O-rings, being made of metal, are very sturdy although they can be a little cold when you first put the harness on.

The harness is designed so that the nylon straps go around the waist and another one goes between the legs. It has a metal O-ring, located on the the pelvis just above the penis, for the dildo and another for the penis to go through. The harness feels like it is sturdy and will not fall apart but it feels cheaply made in terms of comfort. There is no padding on the straps which can lead to discomfort if worn for very long.

I'm a bigger guy who wears size 38 waist pants and the harness fit me fine with plenty of room to spare for guys bigger than me. Since the harness is just nylon straps it is not elastic, all of the adjustment comes from the adjustments of the straps. It is a delicate balance getting the harness to fit correctly. If the harness is too tight the straps can start to cut into your skin, if they are too loose the harness may move with around scratching you as it does so. The set comes with 3 metal o rings of different sizes that should allow most men to find one that comfortably fits over their penis.

To start off with getting the harness on is a little awkward and it is impossible to do it while looking at all sexy. After about a minute I was able to get the harness on and adjusted. We wanted to use this harness so that my penis was in her vagina and the toy was in her butt. With this use in mind, the design of the harness limits some of the positions that can be used, missionary for instance is not possible. We found that doggy style is one of the best positions for using the harness in the manner described above and the visual it creates for the guy is very exciting. Also in our case the idea was for her to feel like it was two different men inside her and doggy style makes it easier for her to imagine that. It took a little bit of practice to get both my penis and the toy moving in and out with out one or the other slipping out, but it can easily be done and when you get it right, it is well worth it.