Double-ring harness with dildo - harness and dildo set discontinued by Cal Exotics - review by Kinky T

I purchased this harness because it is not made of leather like so many other harnesses. It is made of nylon and metal, making it suitable for vegans. It’s a relatively stylish g-string harness, with two clasps on either side and one in the back. I find that when I want to use a harness in more intense BDSM-type situations, this is not my go-to harness, however. It does not have any intimidating look or feel; it looks very safe. It makes a wonderful beginner harness.

The size of the harness is easily adjustable. The straps can be loosened and tightened. Two extenders come with the product to lengthen the straps further to accommodate larger sizes. It’s simple to put on and take off. To save time, you can simply unsnap one of the clasps and leave the straps adjusted fit perfectly when put back on later. The harness is comfortable to wear usually, though after longer periods of use, the straps will begin to rub uncomfortably and pinch skin a bit. The harness itself can be worn under clothing discretely and comfortably, but the dildo does not bend enough to be easily worn under clothing.

The double ring feature of the harness is incredibly convenient and allows the harness to accommodate dildos of (almost) any size as long as they have a flared base or suction cup. The rings are very sturdy and are able to effectively hold dildos during use without having them slip out even during rougher play.

The dildo that the harness comes with is made of a smooth TPR silicone. It is very easy to clean with just warm water and antibacterial soap or with toy cleaner. As a note, silicone lubrication should not be used with this product (since it’s made of silicone). Water-based lubricants work well with it. Quite a bit of lubrication is necessary for insertion since the head portion of the dildo is so much larger than the shaft, but once the head is in, you’re good to go even though I found the dildo itself to be too hard. The curved shape of the dildo makes it perfect for both prostate stimulation for men and for g-spot stimulation for women. After a couple weeks of play though, the dildo that came with my harness began tearing at the base so you may want to purchase an extra dildo either way.

The harness itself has held up well, and I still use it on occasion for its simplicity and efficiency. The dildo did have to be replaced, but the harness's double-ring design allows it to accommodate many different types of dildos making it still worth checking out.