So this is my first time buying and reviewing a dildo, and for my first time he did not disappoint. It's really soft and bendy but pretty thick, it was a little too thick for me but I didn't mind too much. It is a silicone toy so it felt really nice, it's pretty realistic and I will definitely use it when I miss my boyfriend. If you are a beginner who has only used their fingers I'd start slowly and add a lot of lube so it'll slide in easier. He hit my deepest spots and I honestly saw stars. The cons aren't too bad but it collects hair and lint really easily and I'd wash before and after every use. So make sure to clean him really well with soap and water, make sure it can be boiled.